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Do people leave builders in the house and give them a key?

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Lucyloo223 · 11/06/2024 21:44

I want to get some work done but it's going to take 2 weeks. I can't take 2 weeks off work. Do people just let builders have a key to come and go?

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Poppysmom22 · 12/06/2024 12:40

Yep I do. I’ve got a key safe and I give them the code and let them crack on

Lucyloo223 · 12/06/2024 12:35

EmmaGrundyForPM · 12/06/2024 12:05

Yes of course they do. We had an extension built which took 3 months. Not only did I let the builders get on with it, I also let them use my loo which, according to most of MN, you should never do

Why do you not let them use the loo? Where are they meant to go?

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Lucyloo223 · 12/06/2024 12:34

clarrylove · 11/06/2024 22:10

We didn't feel comfortable doing that as had lots of trades coming and going so always made sure one of us was here.

Yeah I can't do that. It's only me and I have to go to work

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EmmaGrundyForPM · 12/06/2024 12:05

Yes of course they do. We had an extension built which took 3 months. Not only did I let the builders get on with it, I also let them use my loo which, according to most of MN, you should never do

bluetongue · 12/06/2024 12:01

Yes I do.

I have fuck all worth stealing anyway 😂

ItsFuckingBoringFeedingEveryoneUntilYouDie · 12/06/2024 11:34

Yes, I did. Because the noise got too much to bear.
Plus, they had taken most of the upstairs of the house off, so anyone could just climb in off the scaffolding if they wanted.

Wouldn't use those builders again. Not because I didn't trust them morally, just because they were shit and slow!

rosesinmygarden · 12/06/2024 11:31

My husband is a tradesman. He's not a thief or unreliable or irresponsible. He's met many unreasonable and unreliable customers though... including those who boast to their friends that they "never pay a tradesman in full" even if the work has been completed to their satisfaction.

There definitely are some dodgy builders about, like there are dodgy cleaners, window cleaners, mechanics, lawyers, hairdressers, house sitters, dog walkers, child minders, policemen, doctors etc etc.

Being a tradesman does not make someone a thief, undesirable or irresponsible like some people on here seem to think.

Do your research and get recommendations and references. Ask to see insurance etc.

Also. Remember that the tradesman is trusting you to pay him at the end of the job. They're literally dependent on you not being untrustworthy so that they can pay themselves and feed their families. This means they're quite unlikely to rob your house.

A lot of customers seem to forget that the trust goes both ways.

pinkyspromises · 12/06/2024 11:22

Yes!

I tend to have decorating done when on holiday

spriots · 12/06/2024 11:21

My main concern would be that every time I have had tradesmen in, they leave the front door open for the whole day. Their argument is always "we are in and out all day" but I have seen them do it, go upstairs or even round the corner to the hardware shop for up to an hour leaving the front door open.

That might be fine in some areas but we are on a busy London street and often get parcels nicked etc and I just don't think it's safe.

GasPanic · 12/06/2024 11:18

Lucyloo223 · 11/06/2024 22:20

what are non copy keys? * *

Keys that are very difficult to copy.

They have unusual features and non standard shapes which means you can't just take them into Timpsons and get duplicates cut.

If you want a copy you need to go to the original manufacturer of the lock and quote a long security code which normally comes with the locks on a piece of plastic. This is the only practical way to get a copy and means you can lend a key to whoever you want safe in the knowledge they cannot have it copied without the code.

There are three disadvantages. The first is the locks tend to be more expensive. The second is that if you lose the code you are screwed for making more copies. The third is that copies tend to be very expensive because the manufacturer has a monopoly. It tends to be a lot cheaper to make sure all the keys you need come with the lock rather than getting spares cut (I got 6x with mine which work on both the front and back doors, which are keyed alike).

TonTonMacoute · 12/06/2024 11:16

Yes.

Obviously they came highly recommended, but they were great and just wanted to get on with the work.

Like a PP, one of them fed our cats when we went away.

CelesteCunningham · 12/06/2024 11:15

Yes, we've done this loads of times - long jobs and short jobs. Been on holiday and left a painter to it, and the same for a bathroom refit.

The only issue has been that it's useful to be there in case decisions need to be made quickly.

BumBumCream · 12/06/2024 11:14

Yeah we do, although we tend to know anyone who does work for us through friends of friends.

One of our scaffolders fed our cat for us while we were away.

Vermeer · 12/06/2024 11:10

Compash · 11/06/2024 22:18

I can't believe everyone is saying Yes! The very thought freaks me out... 😱 But then, I wouldn't give my mother my keys... I think I'm just hyper-private and neurotic...

Mind you, I watched the neighbours' house getting painted while they were on holiday last year, and when the decorators left for the night, they left all the windows wide open to air the place!

So what, you take time off from work any time you have building work done or tradesmen in?

ByCupidStunt · 12/06/2024 10:53

Yes I do.

Rocknrollstar · 12/06/2024 08:56

We had a ground floor extension and loft conversion done, the work took nearly 6 months and we were both working full time so of course the builders had the key. What else could we do? I was glad I was at work as I couldn’t have stood being in the house with them, all day, every day.

Iaskedyouthrice · 12/06/2024 07:58

Yes, we are having work done while we are away. I booked it for then intentionally. They will have keys to the back gate, garage and back door.

Compash · 12/06/2024 07:50

Lucyloo223 · 11/06/2024 22:21

Not trusting your mum to have a key is very unusual

Unless you've met my Mother... 😄

But sorry, I didn't mean to upset you - I see I'm in the minority. Maybe you could get a trusted neighbour to keep an eye though? Although I see you're going to be in work, not on holiday, so that's much different if you'll be there every night to check up on things yourself... Good luck with the building work!

insidenumber9 · 11/06/2024 22:26

Hide your valuables had some jewellery go missing once with builders we didn’t know well

PurpleFlower1983 · 11/06/2024 22:24

We went away when we had our bathroom fitted too and the fitter fed the cat 🤣

Tarantella6 · 11/06/2024 22:23

Yes. We had building work done and a new kitchen last year. I locked myself out a few times after it was finished because I'd got so used to just wandering off with no keys, safe in the knowledge that someone would be there when I got back 😅

PurpleFlower1983 · 11/06/2024 22:22

Yes, we went away on holiday when they knocked through. We hired a reputable builder.

Lucyloo223 · 11/06/2024 22:21

Compash · 11/06/2024 22:18

I can't believe everyone is saying Yes! The very thought freaks me out... 😱 But then, I wouldn't give my mother my keys... I think I'm just hyper-private and neurotic...

Mind you, I watched the neighbours' house getting painted while they were on holiday last year, and when the decorators left for the night, they left all the windows wide open to air the place!

Not trusting your mum to have a key is very unusual

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Lucyloo223 · 11/06/2024 22:20

Compash · 11/06/2024 22:18

I can't believe everyone is saying Yes! The very thought freaks me out... 😱 But then, I wouldn't give my mother my keys... I think I'm just hyper-private and neurotic...

Mind you, I watched the neighbours' house getting painted while they were on holiday last year, and when the decorators left for the night, they left all the windows wide open to air the place!

If I don't then I can't get the work done so I don't have a choice. I just wanted to see if it's something people do

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Lucyloo223 · 11/06/2024 22:20

GasPanic · 11/06/2024 21:58

Probably have to but it is a wise idea to have non copy keys and remove anything of any significant value or at least hide it.

what are non copy keys? * *

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