If I feel he is perfect for me personality wise? As close to a perfect match as possible.
I don't find him unattractive by any means. I love touching, kissing, being intimate with him. I can also appreciate he is a good looking man.
He is also good in bed. But I don't find him sexually attractive, he doesn't turn me on. Sex isn't a chore, but a lot of the time I can't be arsed and I really have to concentrate and get into my own head in order to become aroused.
AIBU?