My OH has a certain virus 🙄 I've put this here as I do feel it's an AIBU.
I can't help but be annoyed at how he doesn't take any care to try and prevent passing things on to the rest of us. Me and several small children.
When I've had a stomach bug, for example, I make sure to give the bathroom door handles a spray and wipe down after I've been in there etc, I don't use other peoples cups, I try not to breath in the children's faces, I up my hand washing.
He does none of that. He does absolutely nothing to try to prevent other people getting ill.
He's fine but then he always is, he has a terrific immune system. Me not so much.. and now I'm starting to feel quite ill. I have to cancel an important dentist appointment for tomorrow as I'll feel like shit.
He'll be back to work tomorrow whilst I will inevitably struggle for the next week or so and deal with the meltdowns that come when DS becomes ill.
Am I being unreasonable to feel this way?