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Men can get Ovarian Cancer !

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dottiedodah · 10/06/2024 13:27

I mean WTAF? (Source Telegraph) Ovarian Cancer Action has actually stated this.Would be bad enough generally ,but I am undergoing Treatment for this ATM, and just think it sounds ludicrous .Have been in touch with them before now and they seemed quite helpful .Feel a bit affronted ! AIBU they can say what they think,YANBU They should stick to the facts and not upset people already ill?

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Persianpuss · 11/06/2024 00:15

You think males have ovaries?

1Week · 11/06/2024 00:11

Persianpuss · 10/06/2024 23:41

"Can men get ovarian cancer?
Only those born with a female reproductive system can develop ovarian cancer. This includes people assigned female at birth, but are now living as a male, or transgender males who have had their ovaries removed. Anyone born with ovaries should be symptom aware and act on any concerns they have.”

How is this "good wording"? It says "transgender males who have had their ovaries removed". A transgender MALE is a transwoman. MALE = XY chromosomes. MALEs cannot have ovaries in the first place. It's a total nonsense.

It's like those "opposite" games you used to play as a child where everyone says the opposite of what they really mean, but some people are playing the game and some aren't so no one has a clue anyone if yes means yes or yes means no.

I think it's pretty good. Not the way I'd do it. But in this climate its conveying information without totally disregarding women - note, it's just an answer to a question on the long page of FAQs. Haven't seen the rest of the site butif it's sensible and this is the one bit of genderwoo clearly signposted then - that's OK.
Their aim should be to reduce rates of ovarian cancer. So they do have to target every demographic.

Maybe I'm just beaten down

Persianpuss · 10/06/2024 23:41

"Can men get ovarian cancer?
Only those born with a female reproductive system can develop ovarian cancer. This includes people assigned female at birth, but are now living as a male, or transgender males who have had their ovaries removed. Anyone born with ovaries should be symptom aware and act on any concerns they have.”

How is this "good wording"? It says "transgender males who have had their ovaries removed". A transgender MALE is a transwoman. MALE = XY chromosomes. MALEs cannot have ovaries in the first place. It's a total nonsense.

It's like those "opposite" games you used to play as a child where everyone says the opposite of what they really mean, but some people are playing the game and some aren't so no one has a clue anyone if yes means yes or yes means no.

HumerousHumous · 10/06/2024 23:30

The very fact that their X/Twitter feed does not allow comments on this post stating that men can get ovarian cancer, (but does allow comments on other posts) says to me that they KNOW that their terminology is controversial, will upset women and is a complete nonsense.

Linlithgow · 10/06/2024 23:23

smallchange · 10/06/2024 13:33

What a shame they didn't just put out a tweet saying "Transmen! Remember, if you still have your ovaries, you can still get ovarian cancer."

That would have been helpful to a minority population, some of whom might need that occasional reminder that you can't identify out of your biology.

Less virtue signalling though. Fewer brownie points. Twats.

What a worrying world where we need to actually state this 😵‍💫

cherish123 · 10/06/2024 23:14

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No they can't. Men don't have ovaries.

TheKeatingFive · 10/06/2024 23:12

Your daughters troubled enby friend who deserves kindness and compassion, is not the one driving this, that for sure.

Quite. She is being used, very cynically, to further these people's ends.

MarmitePizza · 10/06/2024 23:10

Theydontknowaboutus · 10/06/2024 13:38

I agree op. And 'anyone with ovaries' is hardly clear to anyone whose first language is not English or has no understanding of biology.

Are there really many people who don’t know what “ovaries” are, but do know what “ovarian cancer” is?

As far as the OP is concerned though, of course this is a load of bullshit. Only women get ovarian cancer.

Willyoujustbequiet · 10/06/2024 23:05

Only females can get ovarian cancer.

People with ovaries = women

1Week · 10/06/2024 22:59

Bibi12 · 10/06/2024 22:42

Yeah but what's the reasoning behind it? Why men are men while women are "people with ovaries "? I'm genuinely curious.

I think it's because transactivists want to break the link between biology and sex and link it more to gender identity.
Women are much more of a pushover kinder so that's the first wall to break.
Sounds machiavellian but there are billionaire funded think tanks paying full time salaries and professional advice to strategise this!
Your daughters troubled enby friend who deserves kindness and compassion, is not the one driving this, that for sure.

Bibi12 · 10/06/2024 22:42

CutthroatDruTheViolent · 10/06/2024 22:38

It's funny isn't it - I recently snapped a photo of a picture from a prostate cancer charity. They used the word man or men about 5 times on the one poster. Women not once.

Place it side by side with a poster about uterine cancer, and all of a sudden everyone is a they not a her, men can get cancer of the uterus and we have to be very mindful of our language.

It's telling. And infuriating.

Yeah but what's the reasoning behind it? Why men are men while women are "people with ovaries "? I'm genuinely curious.

1Week · 10/06/2024 22:41

Springwatch123 · 10/06/2024 22:03

Out of curiosity, looked at another Ovarian website cancer site, Ovarian.org.uk.

Their answer to the same question.

“Can men get ovarian cancer?
Only those born with a female reproductive system can develop ovarian cancer. This includes people assigned female at birth, but are now living as a male, or transgender males who have had their ovaries removed. Anyone born with ovaries should be symptom aware and act on any concerns they have.”

This is quite good wording.
Most people will know if it applies to them, but it's not acting like there's no difference between the sexes.

CutthroatDruTheViolent · 10/06/2024 22:38

It's funny isn't it - I recently snapped a photo of a picture from a prostate cancer charity. They used the word man or men about 5 times on the one poster. Women not once.

Place it side by side with a poster about uterine cancer, and all of a sudden everyone is a they not a her, men can get cancer of the uterus and we have to be very mindful of our language.

It's telling. And infuriating.

Bibi12 · 10/06/2024 22:07

Why when it comes to male issues they are still allowed to use "men", "male " etc but when it comes to women it's "people with ovaries ". Why there is double standard?

Springwatch123 · 10/06/2024 22:03

Out of curiosity, looked at another Ovarian website cancer site, Ovarian.org.uk.

Their answer to the same question.

“Can men get ovarian cancer?
Only those born with a female reproductive system can develop ovarian cancer. This includes people assigned female at birth, but are now living as a male, or transgender males who have had their ovaries removed. Anyone born with ovaries should be symptom aware and act on any concerns they have.”

niadainud · 10/06/2024 21:52

Aperolschitts · 10/06/2024 13:35

This was the post I saw

I actually think that's rather cleverly done. By expressing it this way they're not actually saying "men can have ovaries" but they're acknowledging that there will be people who think they can.

Getonwitit · 10/06/2024 20:57

Imustgoforarun · 10/06/2024 17:02

The solution to this gender woo. Don’t make any charitable donations for a period of time. They will soon start noticing when they can’t pay their over inflated salaries to write this stuff

Totally agree.

Getonwitit · 10/06/2024 20:54

Men don't have ovaries therefore can't develop ovarian cancer. It really is that simple. Anything else is a lie.

AstonMartha · 10/06/2024 19:31

@ditalini great post.

LakeTiticaca · 10/06/2024 19:09

Anyone in possession of ovaries is female

The end

TheKeatingFive · 10/06/2024 18:28

ditalini · 10/06/2024 18:19

That's quite a nice example of the problem with shitting about with definitions:

Men can get breast cancer.
Here you see the use of the word "men" to mean... men. An important bit of men's public health messaging - lumps in your moobs/armpits/chest area shouldn't be ignored. Yes, the vast majority of the time it happens to women, but if you're a man then you should be aware too.

Men can get ovarian cancer.
Here you see the use of the word "men" to mean... women. Not relevant to men's public health messaging. You need to know the code and realise that it means the group of men who are actually female. If you're the cock & balls variety then it's not going to happen to you (but do check those balls).

How about charities target the population they're aiming at without this needless obfuscation? Pride month is a great month for an ovarian cancer campaign aimed at transmen. Or a testicular cancer campaign aimed at transwomen. Or a trans health campaign aimed at both which could cover the risks of certain types of cancer, tucking, binding, things to watch out for if you're taking opposite sex hormones, mental health etc, etc. You know, actually useful and not just for points.

Excellent point

ditalini · 10/06/2024 18:19

Cattenberg · 10/06/2024 16:26

Not everyone is aware that men can get breast cancer. Let’s not confuse matters by claiming that men can get ovarian cancer.

That's quite a nice example of the problem with shitting about with definitions:

Men can get breast cancer.
Here you see the use of the word "men" to mean... men. An important bit of men's public health messaging - lumps in your moobs/armpits/chest area shouldn't be ignored. Yes, the vast majority of the time it happens to women, but if you're a man then you should be aware too.

Men can get ovarian cancer.
Here you see the use of the word "men" to mean... women. Not relevant to men's public health messaging. You need to know the code and realise that it means the group of men who are actually female. If you're the cock & balls variety then it's not going to happen to you (but do check those balls).

How about charities target the population they're aiming at without this needless obfuscation? Pride month is a great month for an ovarian cancer campaign aimed at transmen. Or a testicular cancer campaign aimed at transwomen. Or a trans health campaign aimed at both which could cover the risks of certain types of cancer, tucking, binding, things to watch out for if you're taking opposite sex hormones, mental health etc, etc. You know, actually useful and not just for points.

Jeezitneverends · 10/06/2024 18:12

Witchcraftandhokum · 10/06/2024 13:29

I think what they mean is trans-men can get Ovarian Cancer.

So that’s a woman then

Aperolschitts · 10/06/2024 18:11

@dottiedodah all the best with your treatment, feel free to message me if you'd like to talk to someone who is also partway through

dottiedodah · 10/06/2024 18:05

Cattenberg Thank you ,much appreciated .2 sessions down now 4 to go! xx

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