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UPF.... WTF - I knew it was addictive but didn't realise...

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PaminaMozart · 10/06/2024 10:38

... how quickly things can fall apart!

I'm a self-confessed health nut. Love exercise, lots of walking, and my diet is normally supper healthy. Lots of vegetables, lean protein, a smattering of complex carbs, healthy fats and dairy/mostly yoghurt.

It has stood me in good stead. At 70 I am really fit and my health-MOT suggests a biological age of 53 or thereabouts.

BUT...... for the past 10 days I have had relatives staying with me who seem addicted to UPF, carbs and sugary 'treats'. They sleep till 10, so I've given my usual morning workouts a miss so as not to disturb them. No point cooking stuff they won't eat. Or we eat out at places with limited/no healthy options.

Slowly but surely I've fallen into a pattern of eating what they eat, drinking wine daily (as opposed to a glass once or twice a week), and taking the bus instead of walking.

And, even after such a short time I have gained weight, my belly is definitely more prominent, and my lovely muscles seem sadly diminished.

A salutary lesson. Use it or loose it. I wonder how long it'll take me to get back to where I was...?!!

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drspouse · 10/06/2024 21:32

Livinginaclock · 10/06/2024 10:45

In 10 days you've lost your muscles?
Don't be ridiculous.

If I don't swim for 10 days (and I'm not all that fit, though a regular swimmer) my shoulder muscles tell me all about it.

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 10/06/2024 21:31

marshmallowfinder · 10/06/2024 18:31

It's not jealousy at all. It's the sanctimonious self absorption and the implication that she's so much better than her visitors.

What a spiteful person you are in your postings. There's no sanctimony from the OP, she's pleased with her physique. I doubt I'd ever achieve it but hats off to her.

I've reported your nasty SPaG post as well.

I hope you feel less bitter soon.

Sunnyandsilly · 10/06/2024 21:22

Applesonthelawn · 10/06/2024 21:14

On mumsnet most posters who feel motivated to answer you will do so because you have made them feel inferior about their health and lifestyle choices. You may be exaggerating how quickly it has affected you but you are otherwise not wrong. But lots of people don't want to hear it. The costs of obesity-related conditions to the NHS and to GDP are massive and governments will have no choice but to act soon, so it's a feeling that people will probably have to deal with.

Well ehrm, not sure slagging everyone off is prudent. Or your statement is accurate, 😂

of course the op has a point, if you do a few days Eating crap and drinking, yes you feel less than healthy. Do you become addicted, no. Not normally in that time frame, and do you lose your “lovely” muscles, no. You wouldn’t. Thsts what folks are reacting to , the hyperbole.

if the op had simply said I’ve been eating shit and drinking too much for the last few days, feel a little bloated and crap. Everyone would have agreed.

instead she indulged in’s little hyperbole, hence the thread has gone as it has.

Applesonthelawn · 10/06/2024 21:14

On mumsnet most posters who feel motivated to answer you will do so because you have made them feel inferior about their health and lifestyle choices. You may be exaggerating how quickly it has affected you but you are otherwise not wrong. But lots of people don't want to hear it. The costs of obesity-related conditions to the NHS and to GDP are massive and governments will have no choice but to act soon, so it's a feeling that people will probably have to deal with.

TennisLady · 10/06/2024 21:07

Agree with everyone talking about weight lifting. Do proper, heavy weight lifting and it’s amazing what it does for your body.

ShinyPebble32 · 10/06/2024 21:06

Tighginn · 10/06/2024 19:51

Thank goodness they are not heroin addicts with you being so susceptible to peer pressure!

🤣🤣🤣

Might help OP get rid of that unsightly bloated tummy she’s developed though!

IrnBruLolly · 10/06/2024 21:06

gamerchick · 10/06/2024 21:01

It really does. Sustaining muscle takes pure effort eating wise.

I'm eating almost 2800 cals a day! 😎

Newsenmum · 10/06/2024 21:02

PaminaMozart · 10/06/2024 10:39

To add - about the addictive part: I never missed all the UPF and sugar........ but now I'm actually craving it...

It’s true! But you’ll get back to it.

Papyrophile · 10/06/2024 21:01

Actually, because DH walks Ddog at the weekend, I notice Mondays and Tuesdays are harder walking. Deconditioning happens much faster than we'd all like to think. I really notice three days slowing down.

ActivePeony · 10/06/2024 21:01

betterangels · 10/06/2024 20:58

Yeah, come on.

Are you 70?

gamerchick · 10/06/2024 21:01

IrnBruLolly · 10/06/2024 20:53

Seriously, though, lifting heavy weights allows you to eat so much more. A lot of women I used to work with in my previous job were always on diets but I was eating loads more than them and staying slim.

It really does. Sustaining muscle takes pure effort eating wise.

betterangels · 10/06/2024 20:58

Livinginaclock · 10/06/2024 10:45

In 10 days you've lost your muscles?
Don't be ridiculous.

Yeah, come on.

gamerchick · 10/06/2024 20:58

Just go back to normal. You'll be retaining water.

Proper Coco, (not hot chocolate) kills sugar cravings enough to ignore them. They'll die off eventually.

Papyrophile · 10/06/2024 20:54

If you are fat, do you dislike everyone who isn't? It sometimes feels that way.

ActivePeony · 10/06/2024 20:54

Mirabai · 10/06/2024 19:56

Why so many snarky replies? 🤷🏻‍♀️

Because she’s talking to people who are exactly like her relations.

😂

IrnBruLolly · 10/06/2024 20:54

Case in point.

UPF.... WTF - I knew it was addictive but didn't realise...
IrnBruLolly · 10/06/2024 20:53

Seriously, though, lifting heavy weights allows you to eat so much more. A lot of women I used to work with in my previous job were always on diets but I was eating loads more than them and staying slim.

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 10/06/2024 20:50

Why are people being so nasty? I'm merely pointing out how addictive this stuff is and how quickly things can fall apart! I genuinely thought that a couple of weeks of falling in with their ways would be fine - and easier all round - so was surprised that I got 'addicted' to UPF and sugar so quickly.

Falling into a pattern for 10 days and noticing its effect on you is not 'being addicted'.

ActivePeony · 10/06/2024 20:48

GreenShady · 10/06/2024 18:43

I think people are missing the fact that at 70 you're going to notice these changes much more quickly than at 30 or 40.
Heck in my 50s I feel as though I'm seeing a decline every bloody week.

Why so many snarky replies? 🤷🏻‍♀️
It's just needlessly rude and unkind.
How hard is it to empathise with someone for a minute?

OP sounds like you have a fantastic regime and I full understand that getting thrown off it is troubling. You'll get back to where you were I'm sure.

But yes, sugar is very quickly and horribly addictive - I'm a victim! Only when you're free of it do you understand how insidious it is - but it takes very little to fall down the slippery slope again 😂

I had about 6 months of excellent clean eating a couple of years ago - I felt and looked so well! (50s). Then Christmas happened...never recovered!

Yes this could be me. I can go months eating really well and feeling great - then a packet of crisps, a chocolate bar, crusty bread whatever and it is genuinely like a switch flicks in my brain and it's all I want. It's really bloody hard.

IrnBruLolly · 10/06/2024 20:46

Mirabai · 10/06/2024 19:56

Why so many snarky replies? 🤷🏻‍♀️

Because she’s talking to people who are exactly like her relations.

Well, they say 'hell hath no fury like a fat woman scorned'. 🤣

Reading this thread I'm inclined to agree!

Papyrophile · 10/06/2024 20:41

CrispieCake · 10/06/2024 18:55

Gotta be honest, their lives sound more fun.

Really? Their life sounds appalling. You really want to be fat and unfit? It's easy. Pick up your phone and order another takeaway meal. And another tomorrow.

ActivePeony · 10/06/2024 20:40

Olivebrancholivia · 10/06/2024 16:28

I bet you've been a nicer person to be around this week. 🤷🏻‍♀️

What a bloody vile thing to say. Some of the posts on here are revolting.

IrnBruLolly · 10/06/2024 20:40

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Eat less marshmallows and you can have lovely muscles too. 😂

tellmewhenthespaceshiplandscoz · 10/06/2024 20:37

User1979289 · 10/06/2024 16:11

Awwwww your lovely muscles have diminished! Makes me glad I never bothered working out to get any really 😂

If you are female you really should try and work on getting some muscle. We need it as we age.

IrnBruLolly · 10/06/2024 20:35

Isitautumnyet23 · 10/06/2024 16:35

That is specific to you though. Most people are capable of having a few biscuits and putting the packet down. It is called self-control (im not being rude) but as grown adults, we need to know that eating 2 biscuits is not going to kill you. Scoffing an entire packet regularly obviously isnt healthy.

If I was OP, i’d work on learning its ok to have a few treats without going off the wagon.

Hmm, is this true though? We're an incredibly fat nation and there are more obese women than men worldwide.