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UPF.... WTF - I knew it was addictive but didn't realise...

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PaminaMozart · 10/06/2024 10:38

... how quickly things can fall apart!

I'm a self-confessed health nut. Love exercise, lots of walking, and my diet is normally supper healthy. Lots of vegetables, lean protein, a smattering of complex carbs, healthy fats and dairy/mostly yoghurt.

It has stood me in good stead. At 70 I am really fit and my health-MOT suggests a biological age of 53 or thereabouts.

BUT...... for the past 10 days I have had relatives staying with me who seem addicted to UPF, carbs and sugary 'treats'. They sleep till 10, so I've given my usual morning workouts a miss so as not to disturb them. No point cooking stuff they won't eat. Or we eat out at places with limited/no healthy options.

Slowly but surely I've fallen into a pattern of eating what they eat, drinking wine daily (as opposed to a glass once or twice a week), and taking the bus instead of walking.

And, even after such a short time I have gained weight, my belly is definitely more prominent, and my lovely muscles seem sadly diminished.

A salutary lesson. Use it or loose it. I wonder how long it'll take me to get back to where I was...?!!

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Ifyoucouldreadmymindlove · 12/06/2024 12:34

beergiggles · 12/06/2024 12:24

People underestimate the damage caused by physical inactivity.

People also underestimate how much they eat and their true size.

beergiggles · 12/06/2024 12:24

People underestimate the damage caused by physical inactivity.

VoteHappy · 12/06/2024 12:22

Although, I have to say none of them is adverse to a scone or slice of lemon drizzle with their cuppa at the end of the service!

That's the thing though, it's fine as an occasional treat, every week
Eating cake / biscuits/ pastries every day doesn't work for your average sedentary brit.

WhatI noticed when I lived in France was that they ate plenty of bread/ pastries etc but they were way more active

MaGueule · 12/06/2024 12:01

LazyGewl · 12/06/2024 11:49

This thread reminds me of when I temped in the hospital of a clinic. A lot of elderly people presented with a lot of problems related to overweight and lack of exercise. And then you'd get the odd person of that age who was fit and healthy and guess what? They didn't smoke, drink or eat junk food. They were also active. That was a long time ago, but it stayed with me.

For those who say that a healthy lifestyle is boring well, when we all get old it will be a hell of a lot more boring to be stuck indoors in front of the telly than out and about like the elderly fifties.

I agree. We attend a local village church with an older congregation. There are a number of healthy, active older members living very full lives. One of the notable things about those that are out and about and attending services into their eighties is that they tend to be slim, or at least not significantly overweight. I presume those who are not are either not in good enough health to regularly attend these events or sadly have not made it to that age.

Although, I have to say none of them is adverse to a scone or slice of lemon drizzle with their cuppa at the end of the service!

LazyGewl · 12/06/2024 11:49

This thread reminds me of when I temped in the hospital of a clinic. A lot of elderly people presented with a lot of problems related to overweight and lack of exercise. And then you'd get the odd person of that age who was fit and healthy and guess what? They didn't smoke, drink or eat junk food. They were also active. That was a long time ago, but it stayed with me.

For those who say that a healthy lifestyle is boring well, when we all get old it will be a hell of a lot more boring to be stuck indoors in front of the telly than out and about like the elderly fifties.

NewNan21 · 12/06/2024 11:33

I know what you mean, even after a day eating food I know is not good I feel bloated and unhealthy. Sometimes it’s hard to get decent food when you’re out and about. I too need my daily half hour exercise or a long walk just to feel well. I’m definitely with you.

TrustPenguins · 12/06/2024 11:28

MaGueule · 12/06/2024 11:26

Well said!

The ultra processed food that is presented as a ‘normal’ diet in this country is a disgrace. So many of us have lost sight of what a normal, healthy diet that nourishes our body looks like, and it is having desperate consequences on the nation’s health.

Good on the OP for continuing to live a healthy, active lifestyle into older age, I find people like her inspirational.

This 👆

MaGueule · 12/06/2024 11:26

shadylane · 12/06/2024 09:45

Everyone is so bitter and mean on here. If I have muscles at 70 I will be extremely proud of them. UPF are not something one can ‘enjoy as part of a balanced diet’, they’re mass marketed shite labelled as convenient or as ‘treats’, and the reason that the western world has increasingly suffered from
childhood obesity, diabetes and other health related problems. People get so weird about defending their right to eating shit.

Well said!

The ultra processed food that is presented as a ‘normal’ diet in this country is a disgrace. So many of us have lost sight of what a normal, healthy diet that nourishes our body looks like, and it is having desperate consequences on the nation’s health.

Good on the OP for continuing to live a healthy, active lifestyle into older age, I find people like her inspirational.

PaminaMozart · 12/06/2024 11:23

I think that it's important to remember that, apart from whole foods and vegetables, most foods are processed in some way, and there isn't always a strict dividing line between processed and ultra-processed - it's a continuum.

My unscientific definition of UPF is food that has been messed aroundwith unnecessarily and contains ingredients that worry me or that I do not recognize: E-numbers, emulsifiers, artificial colourants, flavour enhancers, stabilizers - in other words, ingredients you'd not add if you were making the food yourself. Then there's excessive salt and different forms of sugar (especially if labelled to confuse people and make it seem that the total amount is less than it is).

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/62586003-ultra-processed-people

Ultra-Processed People: The Science Behind Food That Is…

A manifesto to change how you eat and how you think abo…

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/62586003-ultra-processed-people

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Justrelax · 12/06/2024 11:22

SackofSweets · 12/06/2024 08:39

Have you been living under a rock? You do know there’s now more people living with obesity and who are overweight than not. Those figures are rising. It’s undoubtedly a consequence of the industrialisation of food.

1 in 5 children leave primary school obese so they’re likely to be obese adults with significantly decreased life expectancy and all manner of health complications.

Unless you consider type 2 diabetes, early death, high cholesterol, cardiovascular disease, vitamin deficiencies, hormonal imbalances, and increased stress and tension that can affect bone growth “normal” that is. Which it sort of is normal, but it’s not ok and it’s not the future I want for my kids.

I eat whatever I like including so-called UPFs and I'm slim and healthy.

The obsession with 'UPFs' is just the latest craze. I've seen plenty come and go. It strikes me as a manifestation of disordered eating to latch onto any particular mindset in this way.

I'm happy just cracking on with life. You do you.

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 12/06/2024 11:18

shadylane · 12/06/2024 09:45

Everyone is so bitter and mean on here. If I have muscles at 70 I will be extremely proud of them. UPF are not something one can ‘enjoy as part of a balanced diet’, they’re mass marketed shite labelled as convenient or as ‘treats’, and the reason that the western world has increasingly suffered from
childhood obesity, diabetes and other health related problems. People get so weird about defending their right to eating shit.

I don’t find it strange that they defend their own rights to eat the stuff, it’s the passion with which some posters defend the rights of the big food companies to constantly push the stuff at us and our children without restriction that puzzles me. When people suggest banning advertising or maybe restricting availability near schools or in the workplace they get lots of shouts of ‘willpower!’ and ‘it’s my responsibility what I put in my mouth!’ Which it is, but it would be easier for everyone to make healthy choices if it wasn’t quite so ubiquitous.

ErrolTheDragon · 12/06/2024 11:06

I’d have thought the canning process just prolongs food shelf life and freezing 🥶 foods does the same .

Yes, freezing and canning are very useful forms of processing!
I did the Zoe thing a few months ago, iirc baked beans didn't get flagged as 'UPFs' - they're processed but they're still mostly bean and tomato even if they've got a bit of seasoning etc.

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 12/06/2024 10:05

They really do!

shadylane · 12/06/2024 09:45

Everyone is so bitter and mean on here. If I have muscles at 70 I will be extremely proud of them. UPF are not something one can ‘enjoy as part of a balanced diet’, they’re mass marketed shite labelled as convenient or as ‘treats’, and the reason that the western world has increasingly suffered from
childhood obesity, diabetes and other health related problems. People get so weird about defending their right to eating shit.

eastegg · 12/06/2024 09:36

beergiggles · 11/06/2024 23:06

Surely if you live that life of indulgence your health will just fail at an earlier age?
I have relatives (parents generation) in their 80s who are still enjoying life and they are the ones who've stayed active and looked after their health.
Up to you though, you pay your money & take your choice!

Yes, well said.

Also SoLo7, have you asked these ancient relics whether they’d rather be dead, or is it just your opinion they’d be better off that way?

Of course we always think it will be terrible to get old, but when we get there we find it’s generally better than the alternative.

Packetofcrispsplease · 12/06/2024 09:36

ErrolTheDragon · 11/06/2024 22:50

Not all processed foods are 'UPFs' though, @Packetofcrispsplease - I wouldn't have thought all curry pastes would be, nor coconut milk.

Yes I don’t know enough about it really 🤔 I guess if you read the ingredients list and it’s like a chemistry lesson then avoid ?😆 I’d have thought the canning process just prolongs food shelf life and freezing 🥶 foods does the same .
plus those very nice Charlie Bigham’s meals ingredients list read like a homemade dinner

wwyd2021medicine · 12/06/2024 08:41

Packetofcrispsplease · 11/06/2024 22:43

I don’t eat junk food and takeaway food is rare in our house .
I also don’t like fizzy drinks , and don’t drink alcohol.
I like the odd chocolate and homemade cake ( not necessarily made by me 😆)
But I do think it’s really tricky to completely avoid all UPFs if you’re short of time and you're the only person who cooks and cleans up .
Eg I might make risotto but I’d use one of those stock pots , i might make a curry but use a bought paste + tin of coconut milk

Generally upf free here but I give some things a pass.
Mayonnaise, brown sauce, Thai curry pastes as I will never use up the fish paste stuff within date/storage time. Stock cubes. Protein powder.

SackofSweets · 12/06/2024 08:39

Justrelax · 11/06/2024 22:45

Gosh some people have really gone crazy about this 'UPF' nonsense haven't they. I suspect it's people who spend too much time online. The rest of the world are just cracking on eating a bit of whatever they fancy and living normal lives.

Have you been living under a rock? You do know there’s now more people living with obesity and who are overweight than not. Those figures are rising. It’s undoubtedly a consequence of the industrialisation of food.

1 in 5 children leave primary school obese so they’re likely to be obese adults with significantly decreased life expectancy and all manner of health complications.

Unless you consider type 2 diabetes, early death, high cholesterol, cardiovascular disease, vitamin deficiencies, hormonal imbalances, and increased stress and tension that can affect bone growth “normal” that is. Which it sort of is normal, but it’s not ok and it’s not the future I want for my kids.

Allfur · 12/06/2024 08:29

Justrelax · 11/06/2024 22:45

Gosh some people have really gone crazy about this 'UPF' nonsense haven't they. I suspect it's people who spend too much time online. The rest of the world are just cracking on eating a bit of whatever they fancy and living normal lives.

You mean the obesity epidemic?

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 12/06/2024 08:05

Justrelax · 11/06/2024 22:45

Gosh some people have really gone crazy about this 'UPF' nonsense haven't they. I suspect it's people who spend too much time online. The rest of the world are just cracking on eating a bit of whatever they fancy and living normal lives.

Except they’re not stopping at a bit, they are eating far too much of what they fancy and that’s why we have an obesity crisis.
Make your own choices about what you eat but don’t pretend there isn’t a wider problem.

MaGueule · 12/06/2024 06:13

PanimaMozart I feel for you. After two weeks of eating dreadful food, too much booze and not moving as much, I’d look and feel like a lump of raw pastry. What we eat affects our physical and mental health pretty rapidly, maybe some more than others. And maybe some don’t appreciate how much better they’d feel if they made changes.

You sound like one of the amazing women I see at my health club. In their sixties- seventies, active, healthy and looking pretty hot! Don’t worry, it’ll come back soon enough, once life is back to normal.

PaminaMozart · 12/06/2024 04:19

Codlingmoths · 11/06/2024 23:47

Really? I’d rather be healthy, do strength work and maximise my life. My grandpa died at 94 still engaged in his life’s work and that’s what I want. My parents and in laws are all still very happily living a fulfilled life.

Precisely. What is more, I actually enjoy eating healthily and working out! I feel so much better when I do. Hence why I posted this thread LOL...

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Codlingmoths · 11/06/2024 23:47

SoLo7 · 11/06/2024 22:57

I work with old people and it’s utterly shit seeing them age and struggle with their health. Honestly I would rather drink wine every day and eat what I want than live past 80.

Really? I’d rather be healthy, do strength work and maximise my life. My grandpa died at 94 still engaged in his life’s work and that’s what I want. My parents and in laws are all still very happily living a fulfilled life.

Codlingmoths · 11/06/2024 23:45

Johnhasalongmoustache · 10/06/2024 18:33

And I say that as somebody who eats very little processed food, but honestly I just don’t believe the original post

Doesn’t everyone in the western world who has ever celebrated Christmas know that you most definitely absolutely can put on weight in 3 days?? Who are these people saying it’s not possible in 10? What mysterious elite regime are they on?

Redty10 · 11/06/2024 23:11

StaunchMomma · 10/06/2024 20:12

You can tell from the comments who has read 'the book' and who hasn't.

I love a Crunchie and a packet of Monster Munch as much as the next woman, but knowing the tricks played with our food to literally make us addicted to utter shite, many ingredients of which can't even be described as food, and which literally shortens our lives really pissed me off.

I've been overweight most of my life and I now realise I've been a literal slave to UPFs for decades. I fell for all of the tricks.

It's terrifying that we just hand our kids over to McDonalds and Haribo and don't even know what we're doing.

Making the switch is so hard though - it's in EVERYTHING!!

This ☝️

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