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UPF.... WTF - I knew it was addictive but didn't realise...

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PaminaMozart · 10/06/2024 10:38

... how quickly things can fall apart!

I'm a self-confessed health nut. Love exercise, lots of walking, and my diet is normally supper healthy. Lots of vegetables, lean protein, a smattering of complex carbs, healthy fats and dairy/mostly yoghurt.

It has stood me in good stead. At 70 I am really fit and my health-MOT suggests a biological age of 53 or thereabouts.

BUT...... for the past 10 days I have had relatives staying with me who seem addicted to UPF, carbs and sugary 'treats'. They sleep till 10, so I've given my usual morning workouts a miss so as not to disturb them. No point cooking stuff they won't eat. Or we eat out at places with limited/no healthy options.

Slowly but surely I've fallen into a pattern of eating what they eat, drinking wine daily (as opposed to a glass once or twice a week), and taking the bus instead of walking.

And, even after such a short time I have gained weight, my belly is definitely more prominent, and my lovely muscles seem sadly diminished.

A salutary lesson. Use it or loose it. I wonder how long it'll take me to get back to where I was...?!!

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MsLuxLisbon · 13/06/2024 10:42

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 13/06/2024 10:40

41 is young in body ageing terms! I can’t believe how many people on this thread are assuming that a 70 year old doesn’t know her own body when she says it has taken very little time for her fitness to diminish. For many women menopause is a watershed after which the timings of these things are completely different. I am 52 and it has recently taken me about 5 weeks to get back to running 5k after not doing it for a while. Just 5 years ago it would take me a fortnight. Same with weight, it becomes very much harder to lose where in my 40s I just had to cut down alcohol and it would fall off.

That may be true for some but it isn't true for everyone. For all the whining about menopause, the women in my family didn't really have an issue so I doubt I will, either.

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 13/06/2024 10:40

MsLuxLisbon · 13/06/2024 10:11

I am 41, so not 'young'. Don't get me wrong, I have a fairly healthy diet and I exercise a lot as well, I'm not some couch potato. But I also eat the odd Krispy Kreme. On here, people think that makes you some sort of Frankenfood devotee, which is bonkers to me.

41 is young in body ageing terms! I can’t believe how many people on this thread are assuming that a 70 year old doesn’t know her own body when she says it has taken very little time for her fitness to diminish. For many women menopause is a watershed after which the timings of these things are completely different. I am 52 and it has recently taken me about 5 weeks to get back to running 5k after not doing it for a while. Just 5 years ago it would take me a fortnight. Same with weight, it becomes very much harder to lose where in my 40s I just had to cut down alcohol and it would fall off.

PaminaMozart · 13/06/2024 10:20

MsLuxLisbon · 13/06/2024 10:11

I am 41, so not 'young'. Don't get me wrong, I have a fairly healthy diet and I exercise a lot as well, I'm not some couch potato. But I also eat the odd Krispy Kreme. On here, people think that makes you some sort of Frankenfood devotee, which is bonkers to me.

Oh my goodness, but sorry - at my ripe old age, 41 seems very young indeed. At 41 I spent my days running after 3 young children, forever up and down stairs, never gave it a second thought.

Believe this old bat would like to tell you..... it doesn't last, and the sooner you act to stem the inevitable tide of aging, the better you will feel. Not just when you hit 'old age' but also in the here and now.

NB: I have been know to eat a weekly occasional ice cream. And enjoy it - not feel guilty.

Here endeth the sermon 😇

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MsLuxLisbon · 13/06/2024 10:11

PaminaMozart · 13/06/2024 10:03

How old are you? You can get away with a lot of unhealthy stuff and lack of exercise when you are young......... but it'll catch up with most people at some point.

For the record, I am 70, normally work out an hour a day, eat a healthy Mediterranean style diet (lots of vegetables, moderate amounts of lean protein, plus small quantities of complex carbs, healthy fats and dairy/yoghurt. Which I really enjoy - it is not in any way a 'sacrifice'!

I walk a lot, I ski in the winter , I swim in the summer, I paint, mostly do my own DIY, meet friends and/or go to the theatre, ballet, opera, exhibitions etc most days. No one knows what's around the corner - viz. Michael Mosley RIP... - but I love my normal life and look forward to getting back to it once my relatives leave.

I am 41, so not 'young'. Don't get me wrong, I have a fairly healthy diet and I exercise a lot as well, I'm not some couch potato. But I also eat the odd Krispy Kreme. On here, people think that makes you some sort of Frankenfood devotee, which is bonkers to me.

MonsteraMama · 13/06/2024 10:09

MsLuxLisbon · 13/06/2024 09:17

You are being ridiculous and you sound orthorexic to me. I am so tired of all the nonsense about UPF. I am a fit, shapely size 8 who eats a lot of 'junk'. It's all about balance.

Honest to fuck only on Mumsnet would a healthy diet with no UPFs and daily exercise be considered an eating disorder.

The OP is seventy years of age, I can only hope I'll still be as fit and healthy as she is when I reach my 70's.

PaminaMozart · 13/06/2024 10:03

MsLuxLisbon · 13/06/2024 09:17

You are being ridiculous and you sound orthorexic to me. I am so tired of all the nonsense about UPF. I am a fit, shapely size 8 who eats a lot of 'junk'. It's all about balance.

How old are you? You can get away with a lot of unhealthy stuff and lack of exercise when you are young......... but it'll catch up with most people at some point.

For the record, I am 70, normally work out an hour a day, eat a healthy Mediterranean style diet (lots of vegetables, moderate amounts of lean protein, plus small quantities of complex carbs, healthy fats and dairy/yoghurt. Which I really enjoy - it is not in any way a 'sacrifice'!

I walk a lot, I ski in the winter , I swim in the summer, I paint, mostly do my own DIY, meet friends and/or go to the theatre, ballet, opera, exhibitions etc most days. No one knows what's around the corner - viz. Michael Mosley RIP... - but I love my normal life and look forward to getting back to it once my relatives leave.

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MaGueule · 13/06/2024 10:02

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 13/06/2024 09:44

Our attitude to food has been so warped by the processed food manufacturers over the last decades that some people think wanting to eat only real food rather than UPFs made with non food items constitutes an eating disorder.
Balance means eating healthy quantities of different nutrients, not that you have to eat both food and non food.

Exactly!

It is all very well someone saying they are fit, healthy and strong and eat plenty of junk and therefore to dismiss concerns about ultra processed food. Perhaps they are fortunate with their genes and physiology, perhaps they’re just young and it will come back to bite them. Who knows?

However, on a population level there is no denying that the processed, commercialised nature of much of the western diet is doing people a great deal of harm.

Personally, I find it difficult to understand why, armed with the research knowledge we have and appropriate financial resources, an individual would not choose to give themself the best chance of a healthy life by eating the best diet they can. That’s simply what the OP is trying to do.

TheCountessofFitzdotterel · 13/06/2024 09:44

MsLuxLisbon · 13/06/2024 09:17

You are being ridiculous and you sound orthorexic to me. I am so tired of all the nonsense about UPF. I am a fit, shapely size 8 who eats a lot of 'junk'. It's all about balance.

Our attitude to food has been so warped by the processed food manufacturers over the last decades that some people think wanting to eat only real food rather than UPFs made with non food items constitutes an eating disorder.
Balance means eating healthy quantities of different nutrients, not that you have to eat both food and non food.

MsLuxLisbon · 13/06/2024 09:17

You are being ridiculous and you sound orthorexic to me. I am so tired of all the nonsense about UPF. I am a fit, shapely size 8 who eats a lot of 'junk'. It's all about balance.

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 13/06/2024 09:11

Papyrophile · 13/06/2024 08:57

The IFS's recent report on the increase in claims for sickness benefit (up 40,000 per month since the pandemic) makes frightening reading. They estimate the cost will require a 4p rise in income tax by the end of this decade. I read it in the Times this morning, but it's probably published elsewhere too, without a paywall.

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This is about waiting lists and Long Covid though.

Its not about UPF’s

This time last year l was healthy and fit. Caught Covid last summer. Bern housebound by severe Long Covid ever since

Papyrophile · 13/06/2024 08:57

The IFS's recent report on the increase in claims for sickness benefit (up 40,000 per month since the pandemic) makes frightening reading. They estimate the cost will require a 4p rise in income tax by the end of this decade. I read it in the Times this morning, but it's probably published elsewhere too, without a paywall.

Alalalalalongalalalalalonglonglilong · 13/06/2024 08:36

Can you imagine the additional strain on the care system when more obese people become ill whether from age or complications. There will be a requirement for 3 or 4 staff to move people, it would really impact the workload and lead to even more delays. I have never thought it through before but its quite scary when you think of it.

LazyGewl · 12/06/2024 22:56

MaGueule · 12/06/2024 12:01

I agree. We attend a local village church with an older congregation. There are a number of healthy, active older members living very full lives. One of the notable things about those that are out and about and attending services into their eighties is that they tend to be slim, or at least not significantly overweight. I presume those who are not are either not in good enough health to regularly attend these events or sadly have not made it to that age.

Although, I have to say none of them is adverse to a scone or slice of lemon drizzle with their cuppa at the end of the service!

Yes, it is noticeable that you don’t see many people who are fat and old - even in care homes.

ShinyPebble32 · 12/06/2024 22:07

It sounds like you’re not eating anywhere enough protein and fat, which is probably why you’re craving carbs.

Papyrophile · 12/06/2024 21:12

Sorry, does any one want me to ask for my diversionary threads to be to taken down?

I'm posting on two threads and may have confused them.

Papyrophile · 12/06/2024 21:07

But in the good news column, the effort has paid off. We're now mortgage free, with a too large house to sell and downsize, and keen to move for a new life where volunteering is likely to be our passport into the next social circle.

VoteHappy · 12/06/2024 21:06

Justrelax · 12/06/2024 11:22

I eat whatever I like including so-called UPFs and I'm slim and healthy.

The obsession with 'UPFs' is just the latest craze. I've seen plenty come and go. It strikes me as a manifestation of disordered eating to latch onto any particular mindset in this way.

I'm happy just cracking on with life. You do you.

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We have an epidemic of ill health in the UK, we are heading the same way as America

Have you heard about the huge jump in Colon/ Pancreatic cancer in the young?
Down to UPF and drinks.
It's not a craze,stop being so ignorant

Alalalalalongalalalalalonglonglilong · 12/06/2024 21:03

I think a lot of the issue is snacking, its been normalised by guess who - the same companies that bombard us with tempting ads and promote obesity. I'm not just talking about fatty or unhealthy treats either, often the snacks advertised are healthy enough in terms of fat but still processed and still contributing to the concept of snacking. We cannot deal with hunger anymore. Kids have a quick snack while dinner is being made to 'keep them going', adults snack all the time, I admit I'm bad for this so I need to take my own advice here.

I often think of my Grandad who lived well into his 90s, if you offered him a biscuit at 4pm he would look at you in disbelief, 'but what about my dinner, that would ruin my appetite!'. We need to bring back the idea of a healthy appetite, i.e. feeling genuine hunger in anticipation of a meal. The majority of picky eaters especially children would find themselves suddenly eating previously rejected foods.

I wonder would an information campaign around this work, like the 5 fruit and veg thing we all obsessed with years ago. Never eat 2 hours before your meal, you could ruin your appetite, that sort of thing. The 2 hour rule etc. It won't change all our problems but if would normalise not snacking and particularly make it a lot easier for parents to say no.

Papyrophile · 12/06/2024 21:00

If you are engaged enough in cooking to be making your own stocks, then you probably don't have much to fear. If your idea of making dinner is about tearing a few packs open, then maybe it's time to pay more attention.

I will agree that I am a bit of a foodie, and like to cook, and have a kitchen I have designed to have prep space and all the rest, AND that there are a million people who don't share my privileges. But, I am oldish at 67, and have only arrived at this comfy place after 45 years of work. I did not have what I have now at 25, or 35, and I was only just beginning getting there at 45. I also did not have my DC (only one) until I was 43, because before that I was working to put a roof over my head.

Tooski · 12/06/2024 20:45

SackofSweets · 12/06/2024 19:10

Yes. I did the same. I am of the view of reducing UPF, not entirely removing it from my diet. I just had a big salad with chicken breast, I’m not concerned about the UPF majo/ceasar dressing although I’ll use the least UPF item. I went down a rabbit hole with it a bit and started making my own stock etc. I just couldn’t keep it up, now
i try and assess objectively - my homemade chilli or spaghetti bolognese won’t be null and void of nutrition if I add a stock cube.

I agree, but I have to say homemade mayo or Cesare dressing is easy and really tasty.

SackofSweets · 12/06/2024 19:10

flyingvisit · 12/06/2024 16:18

I recently joined 2 different FB groups about UPFs , for information and recipes. There was lots of really obsessive behaviour and posting of "is this UPF free" whilst holding up sauce bottles, prepared foods, powders and potions. I thought "just cook with as many real and unpackaged foods as you can" rather than just trying to find commercial products that are UPF. I left the groups. They were silly

Yes. I did the same. I am of the view of reducing UPF, not entirely removing it from my diet. I just had a big salad with chicken breast, I’m not concerned about the UPF majo/ceasar dressing although I’ll use the least UPF item. I went down a rabbit hole with it a bit and started making my own stock etc. I just couldn’t keep it up, now
i try and assess objectively - my homemade chilli or spaghetti bolognese won’t be null and void of nutrition if I add a stock cube.

AInightingale · 12/06/2024 17:17

My mother's (geriatric) psychiatrist who diagnosed her with Alzheimers explained to me that vascular dementia more often occurs with co morbidities like diabetes and COPD and alcohol misuse. Also being overweight and having high cholesterol and HBP. I'd never really made the link before, but it's not just the organs you'd think of being directly affected by poor lifestyle choices. Unfortunately Alzheimers is less preventable.

flyingvisit · 12/06/2024 16:18

I recently joined 2 different FB groups about UPFs , for information and recipes. There was lots of really obsessive behaviour and posting of "is this UPF free" whilst holding up sauce bottles, prepared foods, powders and potions. I thought "just cook with as many real and unpackaged foods as you can" rather than just trying to find commercial products that are UPF. I left the groups. They were silly

SackofSweets · 12/06/2024 16:08

Justrelax · 12/06/2024 11:22

I eat whatever I like including so-called UPFs and I'm slim and healthy.

The obsession with 'UPFs' is just the latest craze. I've seen plenty come and go. It strikes me as a manifestation of disordered eating to latch onto any particular mindset in this way.

I'm happy just cracking on with life. You do you.

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Aslong as you’re ok, we can all breathe a sigh of relief.

If you are interested in gaining one knowledge that’s not entirely subjective I’d recommend Chris Van Tulleken’s book.

OooPourUsACupLove · 12/06/2024 13:55

I've seen UPFs referred to as "engineered food" which I think is a helpful concept to distinguish them from food that already exists as food then processed to preserve it.

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