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To think that caffeine & sugar are drugs?

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dieselKiller · 10/06/2024 06:27

The mood altering effects of caffeine & sugar are pretty obvious, I think, and both positive (more energy) & negative (anxiety, aggression). AIBU to think that we should be more explicit as a society that caffeine and sugar are mood-altering drugs?

Do you talk to your kids about the effects of caffeine and sugar so they’re not caught unawares by them?

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sixtyandsomething · 10/06/2024 09:46

dieselKiller · 10/06/2024 09:31

I think the whole thread answers this question. Please also look at the current stats on the AIBU poll.

well, I voted YABU because you are! as I said, no one is ever taught that caffeine isn't a drug? It comes up in KS2. KS3 and KS4 - so what exactly is your issue?

And of course sugar isn't

SchoolQuestionnaire · 10/06/2024 09:42

I cut out alcohol and caffeine in the few year. It’s been far more difficult giving up my morning coffee and it took several attempts whereas the booze was pretty easy to drop. The withdrawal headaches were indescribably painful. I now have one cup of decaf per day and this seems to be my sweet spot. Since quitting I’ve noticed a huge improvement in my moods and my peri-menopause symptoms so it’s been worth it.

dieselKiller · 10/06/2024 09:35

I have made a mistake including both sugar and caffeine in the same post. It is difficult to find time to make specific comments addressing both substances, so I’ll just concentrate on caffeine in my responses. Sorry about that.

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dieselKiller · 10/06/2024 09:31

sixtyandsomething · 10/06/2024 09:24

I don't get why you don't see this is completely the norm anyway? Caffeine is a drug, children are taught it is a drug, what exactly is your issue?

Sugar is not a drug, it is harmful in excess, children are taught so, what is your issue here?

I think the whole thread answers this question. Please also look at the current stats on the AIBU poll.

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Singleandproud · 10/06/2024 09:28

Children are taught this in school.
They are taught the differences between legal, illegal, medicinal and recreational drugs.

sixtyandsomething · 10/06/2024 09:24

dieselKiller · 10/06/2024 09:19

BringBackTheBeaver, I’m talking about teaching people, including children, that caffeine is a mood altering chemical with both positive and negative effects. I would compare it to alcohol primarily. If discussing with teenagers, I might also compare it to pot. No one is saying that caffeine is as harmful as heroin. Just like no one is saying that the body doesn’t need carbohydrates. Not sure why you would assume people are saying that.

I don't get why you don't see this is completely the norm anyway? Caffeine is a drug, children are taught it is a drug, what exactly is your issue?

Sugar is not a drug, it is harmful in excess, children are taught so, what is your issue here?

Whowhatwherewhenwhy1 · 10/06/2024 09:23

Not worried about either in the way I worry about all the artificial crap and sweeteners in most food especially the so called healthy options these days. My kids drink tea with sugar but not often and tbh I will always give them sugar rather than sweetener, butter rather than spreads etc.

BogRollBOGOF · 10/06/2024 09:22

Caffeine is a drug, but doesn't have the social and personal impacts of "drugs" like heroin, canabis or cocaine. Most people consume it moderately with few ill effects and it tends to occur naturally in foods. Some forms such as green tea or freshly ground coffee are considered beneficial to health. Healthy adults rarely cause themselves harm with regular levels of consumption.

Sugar is a food not a drug. Our bodies break foods down into sugars to survive. Eating excessive quantites and too many heavy processed forms of it can cause harm. Artificial sweetners are not consequence free either.

Many things can be addictive without being drugs. Even exercise can be addictive and exercise addicts can cause themselves physical harm when they overload their body and don't rest to recover over a prolonged period. It's common for exercise addicts to have disordered eating patterns too.

I talk to my children about nutrition and healthy lifestyles. I don't demonise individual foods, I go for a more holistic approach of looking if their diet is balanced between plants, proteins and different forms of carbs.

Framing sugar as a drug is not helpful at promoting realistic, healthy levels of moderation and caffeine isn't a major problem or something little known about.

foghead · 10/06/2024 09:20

@Bringbackthebeaver our bodies can break down protein into glucose, which is how people survive on these diets.
I'm not encouraging this or a fan of it but it seems we can survive without consuming sugary foods.

dieselKiller · 10/06/2024 09:19

BringBackTheBeaver, I’m talking about teaching people, including children, that caffeine is a mood altering chemical with both positive and negative effects. I would compare it to alcohol primarily. If discussing with teenagers, I might also compare it to pot. No one is saying that caffeine is as harmful as heroin. Just like no one is saying that the body doesn’t need carbohydrates. Not sure why you would assume people are saying that.

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Bringbackthebeaver · 10/06/2024 09:06

foghead · 10/06/2024 09:00

I'm not sure we need sugar (I'm not talking about any small amount of naturally occurring sugars). We enjoy sugar and I suppose we're programmed to recognise sweet natural taste being safe and bitter tastes being harmful.
There are people thriving on keto diets and many on carnivore diets, which seems to consist of mainly meat and butter with some salt.
It doesn't sound enjoyable but people are certainly surviving.

Your body needs sugar. It needs glucose and carbohydrates to function. This is very basic biology and I'm a bit concerned at the people on this thread claiming we don't need sugar.

We don't specifically need "added sugar" or UPFs.

But sugar is a requirement of your body. You can't live without it.

Bringbackthebeaver · 10/06/2024 09:02

dieselKiller · 10/06/2024 06:53

It’s also important to recognise that people metabolise caffeine at different rates so the effects are specific to an individual (beyond the obvious issue of large people and small people handling different doses differently).

I think the point that talking about sugar and caffeine as drugs with doses somehow negatively affects our understanding of classified & hard drugs is interesting, but ultimately disagree with that.

I also disagree with the point that there is a danger to having sensible discussions with kids about the effects of the substances they consume.

So you would teach a child that sugar is a "substance" in the same way as nicotine, cocaine or heroin?

You don't think that might cause any kind of confusion?

Of course you need to teach your child about sensible diets and yes, sugar can be addictive and habit forming. I agree.

But it's not a "substance" or a "drug". It's something to be aware of and cautious about, in the same way as food additives and UPFs.

Teaching children that basic, everyday foods containing sugar or caffeine are in the same league as harmful drugs is likely to increase the risk of eating disorders and anxiety.

Teach them to be sensible, not to be paranoid and anxious.

foghead · 10/06/2024 09:00

I'm not sure we need sugar (I'm not talking about any small amount of naturally occurring sugars). We enjoy sugar and I suppose we're programmed to recognise sweet natural taste being safe and bitter tastes being harmful.
There are people thriving on keto diets and many on carnivore diets, which seems to consist of mainly meat and butter with some salt.
It doesn't sound enjoyable but people are certainly surviving.

Bringbackthebeaver · 10/06/2024 08:56

birdling · 10/06/2024 06:49

Sugar is not essential for us. Our body doesn't need any added sugar. That's what is making people fat.

Of course our bodies need sugar. Carbohydrates are our primary source of energy. Glucose is essential to the function of the central nervous system.

OP didn't specify they were talking about added sugar. Sugar is not a drug.

NattyTurtle · 10/06/2024 08:55

MagpiePi · 10/06/2024 06:54

Let’s go through life without any lows or highs, let’s not do anything that might give us joy; a good laugh with a friend, a delicious meal, belting out your favourite power ballad in the shower, or cause us grief; making friends or falling in love, having a pet, watching a sad film.

Food, particularly, must be carefully policed and monitored to be nutritionally balanced at all times and nothing should ever be eaten in excess.

There do seem to be a lot of joyless types on MN.

Pin0cchio · 10/06/2024 08:55

Sugar is something which i do caution my children that too much can damage teeth etc.

I don't like making foodstuffs "forbidden". Friends i know tried to ban all sweet stuff - those are the kids who desperately take more than their share at parties. One who's mum is especially strict stole and ate a load of christmas sweets from a cupboard at house on a playdate, after my kids had already offered some.

Pin0cchio · 10/06/2024 08:53

Sugar is not a drug.

We need it. Our brains require it. We have evolved to seek it out and enjoy it because getting enough of it increased our likelihood of survival as a species for thousands of years.

Caffeine i do explain to my children (in an age appropriate way) is something which we need to monitor and not have too much of. My children know i only have one drink containing caffeine, in the morning, then i only have decaffeinated coffee etc if at all later on.

sixtyandsomething · 10/06/2024 08:50

caffeine is a drug, sugar isn't.

Wheredidileavemycarkeys · 10/06/2024 08:48

Caffeine is a drug yes though I don’t know if it’s addictive (I mean if it was I’d know about it) Sugar causes cravings but I don’t know if that makes it a drug. Alcohol on the other hand…

MissingMoominMamma · 10/06/2024 08:43

Since I’ve only started drinking decaf, my mood is consistently better; my IBS has calmed, and I sleep like a log. Been off caffeine for two years now, and I’m never going back.

helpontheheys · 10/06/2024 08:40

Processed sugar IS addictive.

I should know. I've tried giving it up and get horrific withdrawal symptoms

It's like my brain is constantly nagging me for it until I have it

It's awful and has taken a lot of hard, tedious work to get under control

bergamotorange · 10/06/2024 08:33

CaptainHaddocksPychotherapist · 10/06/2024 07:18

Not a proper research paper

No one said it was Hmm

It gives a basic summary of what is being discussed. The key point is whilst caffeine isn't formally listed as an addiction, some people struggle to give the drug up, they have withdrawal symptoms, they have negative physical and mental symptoms from consuming the drug.

Cerialkiller · 10/06/2024 08:06

lljkk · 10/06/2024 07:16

being aware that coffee & cake aren’t completely neutral to your mood and that there are both positive and negative effects (which are dose-dependent).

That statement is entirely true of all foodstuffs and water, too.

I think this is key here. Anything we consume could have an effect on our bodies and brain and yes caffeine and sugar probably more then other food stuffs but I think it should be in that context rather then lumping them in with illegal or dangerous drugs (like alcohol).

Sugar and caffeine are only 'harmful' to the consumer unlike others which is why they are treated differently. I think the only way to reduce them is to normalise that in society but we are pretty hedonistic as a species really and that's the thing to get over.

Armyofrock · 10/06/2024 08:03

Why stop with sugar and caffeine? We should ban everything, just be to on the safe side.

Synergies · 10/06/2024 08:01

Of course we should teach children about nutrition and well-being. Including by advising (and demonstrating) moderation in consuming caffeine and sugar and explaining why that's important. And by sugar I mean both naturally occurring sugars and refined/added sugars.