AIBU to feel upset/uncomfortable or is this normal?
DP and have been together 4 years and have a baby together.
He started a new job last year and met a new male colleague whom he's become good friends with.
DPs new friend has a wealthy gf. I've never met her only seen her in passing. By wealthy I'm talking a lot of family money, drives a Lamborghini, flying first class to lovely holiday destinations etc etc
It doesn't usually bother me what other people have as such, but my DP has taken to bringing up this woman and her wealth/what she has/what they are doing several times a week which I think is excessive and more than just passing convo, especially as I don't know her and she's no one really to our life.
It's stuff like "oh there's a such and such car, that's the same colour as Brian's gfs car"... "can you believe Brian's girlfriend has so and so"... "oh did I tell you Brian's gf got a new fancy watch"... "oh hey look there's a Lamborghini on TV like Brian's gf has".... "did you know Brian's girlfriend has bought them first class tickets to so and so"
Yes DP I do know as you've mentioned it 25 times this week!
I've been smiling and nodding generally but tonight I've asked him if there is any reason he keep talking about this other woman and what she has constantly, is it because he would like these things?
I would say my DP IS materialistic to an extent...
He says that he can talk about this lady as much as he wants and it's my issue if it's making me feel odd, and that I'm insecure and need to look at myself.
Maybe I am?