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Would you live in your IL’s annex?

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Corianm · 09/06/2024 19:59

DH and I bought via help to buy scheme but have weirdly found ourselves in a negative equity situation in London.

ILs live in a very expensive area of Surrey. They have a large garden with an annex and have offered for DH and I to move in. I’m very much considering it as the commute is actually almost identical to what it is now. Plus Dh and I could save up for a year or two.

ILs don’t use garden much and would never enter annex without invitation. The annex has a kitchenette, living area and bedroom with en-suite.

Am I mad?

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SwimmingSnake · 09/06/2024 20:03

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Corianm · 09/06/2024 20:02

ILs are perfectly pleasant. We are all polite people so have never even come close to falling out.

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BingoMarieHeeler · 09/06/2024 20:01

Hell would have to freeze over. But maybe you have nice ILs, you don’t say either way 😄