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AIBU to assume you would not used private HC on a one-off etc if needs must??

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DistinguishedSocialCommentator · 09/06/2024 13:37

I've been reading on MN and another forum about more people turning to private HC - this includes dentists as well

Would you use private HC for yourself or a loved one if they were suffering from pain/aneity etc re the long waiting lists in the NHS, EG, as scan, ultrasound scan, kneep/hip relacment/cataracts/etc, blood tests - to put your minds at rests and or get the treatment you require to a point

Even if you are not rich, I know of a few people where their life was miserable due to knee problems and the waiting lists if you got a referral and then the consultant agreed to operate, start to finish is months - via private ins or one off fees you can get the op within a week or so

Therefore - AIBU to assume that most people if you have the money (not rich and or a lot left over after paying) would pay for scans/teeth/knee ops etc to speed up the process of recovery or at least find out, rule out what may or may not be going on??

AIBU = most people that could afford price HC would not go private

I am being reasonable - ie assuming those that could afford, even borrow a few quid would go private for their loved ones

OP posts:
TicTac80 · 09/06/2024 14:10

I've paid for:

-a private GP appt and blood tests, so that I could have a good overall check of my health. I wasn't offered the well-woman check thing at my normal GP, so figured this was a way to get it sorted.

-yearly checks with dentist and optician (but I think many people do this) for myself and the kids.

-private women's physio to address pelvic floor issues.

-private gynae appointments to address really awful peri symptoms (which have been going on for about 5yrs and numerous calls to try and see my GP haven't amounted to a single appointment).

I have saved up money each time to get these things addressed/get checked. If that private GP appt had picked something up, then at least then the problem can be addressed sooner.

jeaux90 · 09/06/2024 14:05

General appointments GP

Everything else I go private.

Ohhownaice · 09/06/2024 14:05

I've taken things private when speed is more important than money. It also relieves the NHS of a little bit of pressure.

GHSP · 09/06/2024 14:03

I tried to get a GP appointment and there is nothing for 16 weeks. This is the first time I’ve thought about going private.

TarantinoIsAMisogynist · 09/06/2024 14:01

Personally, yes, I would. Quality of life is the most important thing in the world, and I would pay whatever I could afford to improve it. I don't think anyone should need to pay for private healthcare, but that's another debate entirely!

However, this isn't the case for everybody. I have older relatives who wouldn't pay for private investigations despite having the money, and despite the fact that they may not have many years left to enjoy (so time is of the essence!). They see it as a luxury, which isn't my view at all.

So it depends on someone's viewpoint, I guess.

Sera1989 · 09/06/2024 13:55

I have a private dentist, physiotherapist and I have used a private GP. A parent very kindly paid for me to have private tests as we had family medical insurance at the time. However I feel like the times when you would really want to go private - degenerative or life-limiting illness, large risky operations etc. would be so expensive that even well-off people would struggle to afford it without insurance

RandomButtons · 09/06/2024 13:52

I’ve paid for a private physiotherapist and a private therapist, because the waiting lists were just too long and it was affecting my ability to work (self employed- no sick leave)

That doesn’t mean I can afford private healthcare otherwise, and I strongly believe in the NHS and healthcare being free at the point of access.

MatildaTheCat · 09/06/2024 13:48

Yes absolutely. I pay privately for consultations with my orthopaedic doctor because if you attend the nhs clinic you see a different person every single time and get possibly 10 minutes after extremely long wait times.

However I am also under the care of the same doctor on the nhs and would probably opt to have surgery with him on the nhs. We are lucky to have quite short wait times here and an excellent orthopaedic centre.

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