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To think this is disgusting

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Bearface28 · 09/06/2024 08:49

Was in bed last night, DH visibly scratched his bum then put his hand under my nose. Immediately lost my shit and left the room. He thought he was being funny but I can't even look at him.

Aibu to think there's no coming back from this?

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Bearface28 · 09/06/2024 09:29

LadyLolaRuben · 09/06/2024 09:20

How fkn disgusting and disrespectful. And that's what he does that you know about!

No idea how you can have sex with that. What is he like generally?

Overall he's great. More than pulls his weight around the house, amazing Father and he's generally really thoughtful & kind. It's why this has really thrown me off.

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LadyLolaRuben · 09/06/2024 09:20

How fkn disgusting and disrespectful. And that's what he does that you know about!

No idea how you can have sex with that. What is he like generally?

WaltzingWaters · 09/06/2024 09:13

Yuk. Just vile. How immature is he to think that’s a funny thing to do.

Ferrymerseymo · 09/06/2024 09:11

I feel repulsed just by the fact he thought it was ok to get into bed beside you with his butt hole stinking 🤢

Morechocmorechoc · 09/06/2024 08:58

I can't imagine it being done by my dh, but it's made me laugh quite a lot! Pretty gross and very odd behaviour from an adult. I really hope he washed thoroughly before he touched anything

1ittlegreen · 09/06/2024 08:55

That's the least sexy thing I have ever heard and would put me right off.

My legs would absolutely clamp together and we would have to separate.

Snappers3 · 09/06/2024 08:54

So grim.
How are you supposed to find him attractive again?

GoodnightJude1 · 09/06/2024 08:53

🤢 oh god no.

pictoosh · 09/06/2024 08:53

Yuck. You're not his little brother...jesus. What a dolt.

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Bearface28 · 09/06/2024 08:53

LaPalmaLlama · 09/06/2024 08:51

For clarity, he scratched his buttock or his actual butthole?

Pretty sure from the smell, it was the hole. Vile.

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Keepthosenamesgoing · 09/06/2024 08:52

Well it's gross but not sure it's divorce territory if it's a one off !

LaPalmaLlama · 09/06/2024 08:51

For clarity, he scratched his buttock or his actual butthole?

Funkyslippers · 09/06/2024 08:50

That really is gross. Does he have form for this sort of thing?

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