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If you were gifted this would you consider it to have a big impact on your life?

203 replies

Bextespisod · 07/06/2024 19:27

50k. Life changing? Helpful? Bit extra savings? What would it actually mean to you?

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MuggleMe · 07/06/2024 20:20

It might mean we could scrape together enough to get DD1 in the private special needs school the LA don't think she needs, at least for Y10 & 11. So potentially life changing for her.

DisforDarkChocolate · 07/06/2024 20:17

Definitely life changing, especially if it was a gift not a bequest.

I wouldn't be packing in work or anything but the mortgage would be lower and we'd feel so much more comfortable.

EC22 · 07/06/2024 20:17

It would pay off all my debts, which would change my life.

Icanwalkintheroom · 07/06/2024 20:15

Useful but just a nice bit of extra saving really - it would most likely go into the dc’s investments earmarked for dc for their later life (uni, house deposits etc). Certainly nowhere near life changing (I need millions for that lol)

justmyluck1234 · 07/06/2024 20:12

It would definitely have a big impact, especially with the expense these days. I however wouldn't consider it life changing but it would be a good start and would be beyond grateful to ever run into that sort of money.

LondonFox · 07/06/2024 20:12

Depends on wherr you live and what income you have.
Central London and senior management in big company/bank?
Nice treat.
Up north in cheap area and low income job/retired/without property?
100% life changeing.

I received aroumd £30k when I was young and made great financial decisions with it so I am forever gratefull to my parents.
Now that amount of money would be just side investment

hattie43 · 07/06/2024 20:11

Helpful but not life changing

LauderSyme · 07/06/2024 20:10

I'd be extremely grateful to get it but whether it was life changing would depend on what I chose to do with it.

If I was brave and used it as seed money to start a business or retrain in a new career, then it would be life changing.

If I was less brave I'd use it to get some work done on my house, which isn't desperately needed but would be a sensible investment.

DanceMumTaxi · 07/06/2024 20:04

It would be for me. We’d be able to do work in the house and garden that would make the house perfect for us. There’s no way we’ll be able to do what we want.

IbizaToTheNorfolkBroads · 07/06/2024 20:03

It would let me retire a year or two earlier!

WitchyWay · 07/06/2024 20:03

It would be life changing for me.

I'd keep it as savings. It's financial security, knowing if I lost my job, divorced, became unwell etc, I'd still have decent reserves to pay the bills for a while.

That peace of mind is priceless to me.

Elphame · 07/06/2024 20:01

I would buy the 7 acres of land I have my eye on. That would just make the difference

WiddlinDiddlin · 07/06/2024 20:01

Would absolutely change my life.

I could put in a wider front door and ramp at the front so I can get out of my house without some precarious and scary (and painful) switches of chair.

I could put a workshop type shed in at the back that I can actually get in and do some of the sculpture and 'big art' I can't do inside the house.

Naran · 07/06/2024 20:01

I definitely wouldn’t spend £50k on a luxury car or holiday. That’s essentially flushing it down the bog. I would have thought the most sensible thing to do would be to pay it off the mortgage. Not fun, I’ll grant you.

Happiestathome · 07/06/2024 19:59

In our current position, it would be welcome extra savings to retire earlier or give to our children. The only amount that I would consider life changing to us is one that enables my husband or I not to work.

GhostSpider68 · 07/06/2024 19:59

Absolutely life changing. This amount was an inheritance for us, and it means we were able to put a nice deposit down on a house and afford the repayments on one wage. Our quality of life has changed dramatically. We don’t live in a palace, only have one bathroom but it’s ours and we are happy.

lightsandtunnels · 07/06/2024 19:58

Be lovely but not life changing for me. I'd share it with my grown up DCs as they need it more than me though it still wouldn't be life changing for them. Pay for weddings and some travel and perhaps a bit off their mortgage. I'd squirrel a bit away and have a lovely holiday.

Luminousalumnus · 07/06/2024 19:57

We don't need it ourselves, but I would love to set it aside to pay for DS masters degree or wedding.

Alarae · 07/06/2024 19:56

Not life changing, but a very nice safety net. If anything I would quite enjoy slapping it in a savings account and seeing the free returns- £2,500 isn't something to turn your nose up at!

Furrydogmum · 07/06/2024 19:53

It would pay the mortgage and car finance off and leave some for a holiday. Not life changing, but definitely helpful in streamlining our outgoings in prep for retirement..

gannett · 07/06/2024 19:50

There have been many times in my life where it would have been life-changing but weirdly not right now. It would go some way to paying off the mortgage but nowhere near all the way. Either DP or I could quit our job and have a year or so breathing room to work towards getting into our dream industries but... we're there now! (Would've been life-changing when I was trying to get into it, ha.) I suppose we could have the kind of holiday/experience we wouldn't be able to afford otherwise but nothing actually springs to mind.

Bluevelvetsofa · 07/06/2024 19:46

It would be a massive help. We’re struggling to keep up with increases in everything and it would mean being able to replace things that need it, pay off things and give us a bit of a buffer against more rises. I’d be extremely grateful.

RichPetunia · 07/06/2024 19:46

I was given around 35k from my Dad. It changed my life in that I have a cushion and don't feel skint. I'm not in a fancy house and my car is 14 years old BUT I feel very happy with my lot. The money, for me, made a very big difference and I am so very grateful for the gift I was given.

WhatsitWiggle · 07/06/2024 19:43

Life changing.

My parents did actually gift me this much earlier this year. It was the difference between being able to buy my ex out of the house, or not. Providing stability for my autistic child, or not. The mortgage repayment being affordable and not running until I'm 70 (I'm 50 now), or not.

That meant so much more than a new car, fancy holiday or home improvements. It's made my life that bit easier every day. I could have done it without the £50k but I'd be living hand to mouth and this gave me breathing space.

CassandraWebb · 07/06/2024 19:43

Bextespisod · 07/06/2024 19:30

I don’t see this as a huge sum really. But when I actually think about that it’s crazy isn’t it? 50k… it’s loads in some ways but in other ways it’s peanuts as one fancy car and one luxury holiday and it would be gone

But unless you were already filthy rich why would you spend it on those items?

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