Someone I've been 'seeing' if you can even call it that.
In the beginning he was good at texting, now doesn't reply to lots of them or takes over a day.
It's not that I mind, it's just that he didn't used to. I did ask him about it and he said 'oh I'm just rubbish at texting' but like I say he didn't used to.
Not saying at all that someone has to text constantly and reply immediately, not in the slightest. But when they ignore almost 50% of your texts, it's hard to feel special.
So I stop texting for a bit then he's friendly/flirty again.
We've been out a few times for drinks and to a film etc. I was going on a day trip to a city about an hour and a half from where we live. I casually asked him if he wanted to come and he looked at me like I had two heads or something. Made me feel embarrassed tbh.
I feel like it's mainly me initiating tbh. He's never said anything sweet or really bought me much other than a drink.
It's only been around 6 weeks, but it's just not making me feel special at all, quite the opposite. He's 31, you'd think he'd be a little more mature but maybe not.
He said 'i'll try and get better and texting you back ' , wow I can see where I am on the priority list.