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Eating on Trains

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likepebblesonabeach · 07/06/2024 14:42

I travel on the train daily to work, 30 mins each way. I've just came back from a 3 hour train journey and was shocked that a family of 4 got on with fish and chips. The whole carriage was stinking of fish and chips and the majority of passengers were on the train the whole journey so had to put up with this for 3 hours.
AIBU that if you travel on public transport you should be aware of those around you?

OP posts:
CormorantStrikesBack · 08/06/2024 08:15

Octavia64 · 07/06/2024 21:37

The menu changes regularly

MarthaDunstable · 08/06/2024 08:09

EverythingYouDoIsaBalloon · 07/06/2024 20:43

Okay so you got 100s of different passengers on public transport - so who gets to decide what is considered considerate or inconsiderate? As I said, if it bothers someone so much then the other alternative is to use your own transport. You can't dictate what others can or can't do on public transport.

Dictate, no. Hold an opinion, yes.

If people were more public-spirited instead of espousing the cult of the individual, there would be fewer conversations like this, though. Because, as this thread demonstrates, there are some foods that are more or less universally deemed as too antisocial to eat on a train, so if more people were considerate of others the world (or at least trains) would arguably be a nicer place for everyone.

It's not universally agreed though.

Some people have strong random distastes for the smells of random foods. Some people don't care at all. Some people have a mild dislike but shrug it off.

Some foods are more disliked than others perhaps, but I'd bet if you started a poll there'd be a big split on whether eating eg smoked salmon sandwiches, next to a random customer was fair enough or a massive breach of the social contract.

TheBloatedMiddle · 08/06/2024 07:58

Oh this thread was not what I expected. Hot food - hmm not good. But years ago i commuted to London from Portsmouth harbour daily. Once i saw a couple who did the same commute unpack an entire picnic of baguette, pate, fruit and red wine and followed their lead from that day on.

spriots · 08/06/2024 07:48

yumyumyumy · 08/06/2024 07:40

They wouldn't really smell contained to a lunchbox, even though I have been able to smell them through containers before. I do have a dog nose though. I doubt it's a problem if you have them at lunch unless you're peeling and eating them at your desk!

Err... Yes that has definitely happened

I will take them somewhere else to eat now.

I think everyone has a different sense of smell. I honestly can't smell eggs at all. But I find the smell of tuna totally overpoweringly awful.

AfterDinnerIDrinkASoda · 08/06/2024 07:47

PuttingDownRoots · 08/06/2024 07:40

What's the consensus on Scotch eggs then?

They smell like sausage and egg.

PuttingDownRoots · 08/06/2024 07:40

What's the consensus on Scotch eggs then?

yumyumyumy · 08/06/2024 07:40

spriots · 08/06/2024 06:48

I just feel bad about the egg thing because I take hard boiled eggs to the office all the time in my lunchbox as I honestly can't smell them at all

They wouldn't really smell contained to a lunchbox, even though I have been able to smell them through containers before. I do have a dog nose though. I doubt it's a problem if you have them at lunch unless you're peeling and eating them at your desk!

AfterDinnerIDrinkASoda · 08/06/2024 07:38

Eggs smell regardless of how they're cooked.
I can only assume the eaters get immune to the pong, like those who are adamant their pets don't whiff.

spriots · 08/06/2024 06:48

I just feel bad about the egg thing because I take hard boiled eggs to the office all the time in my lunchbox as I honestly can't smell them at all

Bringbackthebeaver · 08/06/2024 05:13

ZiriForGood · 07/06/2024 22:37

There is no rule like that. It is totally normal to buy something on the train station and take it to the train.

It's a suggestion in response to the previous quote - maybe read the thread?

ButWhatAboutTheBees · 08/06/2024 00:52

Eggs definitely stink

But Egg sandwiches are a classic part of an Afternoon Tea so hardly antisocial

DdraigGoch · 08/06/2024 00:32

MaybeSmaller · 07/06/2024 15:29

On long distance trains you can often order hot food to your seat, or at least you could pre-Covid. Or you can buy it from the buffet counter on trains that still have them.

In the good old BR days (and early days of privatisation) of course they still had dining cars with 3 course meals and silver service. Wonderful cooking smells wafting through the carriage.

There is clearly a tradition of eating hot food on long distance trains. People want a decent feed if they're travelling for hours, and it can't be compared to wolfing down a KFC during a 15 minute journey on the bus or Tube.

Still got full dining on some Welsh trains. No reheated rubbish, proper food cooked fresh: https://tfw.wales/ways-to-travel/rail/food-and-drink/first-class-dining/first-class

First Class menu | Transport for Wales

Transport for Wales | Buy Cheap Train Tickets and Check Train Times

https://tfw.wales/ways-to-travel/rail/food-and-drink/first-class-dining/first-class

Coffee45 · 07/06/2024 23:35

TwattyMcFuckFace · 07/06/2024 14:59

Blimey, you should try living here in London when the schools finish around 3pm.

There's more chicken and chips on the bus than actual passengers.

😂😂Totally agree!

EastEndQueen · 07/06/2024 23:13

Hard boiled eggs do smell yes: I love them and they are my go-to breakfast but if I’m out of the house I eat them whilst walking along the road to work/ sitting on a bench outside rather than in an enclosed room. In the same category as re-heating fish in the work microwave.

I think you are being very precious OP about eating on trains. People travel long distances, have busy lives, health conditions, children to feed, get caught out by the great British summer when they were hoping to have an outside picnic etc, etc. Part of public transport I’m afraid, babies cry, luggage gets in the way, bacon sandwiches smell. Such is life.

No time at all for the poster earlier calling people enjoying a McDonalds on the way home ‘disgusting pigs’. Horrid way to talk about people enjoying a few chips after an enjoyable evening. Live and let live.

yumyumyumy · 07/06/2024 23:10

SunriseSunsets · 07/06/2024 23:07

Can't believe people think eggs have no smell they are literally one of the smelliest food especially hard boiled, as someone said they can have quite a farty smell hence "eggy farts" 😂 or saying something smells of rotten eggs. Horrible things. My son likes hard boiled eggs but I'd never allow him to take them to school for lunch because they stink and he would be made fun of, same for eggs sandwiches they are very antisocial!

Edited

I know, apparently it's your own fault for over cooking them too! Any boiled eggs stink. As soon as you open an egg sandwich or a boiled egg the farty smell wafts out.

SunriseSunsets · 07/06/2024 23:07

Can't believe people think eggs have no smell they are literally one of the smelliest food especially hard boiled, as someone said they can have quite a farty smell hence "eggy farts" 😂 or saying something smells of rotten eggs. Horrible things. My son likes hard boiled eggs but I'd never allow him to take them to school for lunch because they stink and he would be made fun of, same for eggs sandwiches they are very antisocial!

yumyumyumy · 07/06/2024 23:03

@ZiriForGood I'd say most boiled eggs are "overcooked" by definition. They all smell. Soft boiled/fried etc aren't as pungent but you can't really take them in a lunchbox.

ZiriForGood · 07/06/2024 22:51

yumyumyumy · 07/06/2024 22:31

@ZiriForGood yeah it's not just eggs I make. Any shop bought ones/hard boiled eggs have a smell to them. You're likely nose blind to it and offending people next to you.

Hm.. I don't buy hard boiled eggs, so that might explain it. Thanks for the tip I will continue not buying them.

I googled the chemical process of the smell and it still seems the normal non-overcooked eggs should be fine.

missshilling · 07/06/2024 22:44

Ap42 · 07/06/2024 20:48

I mean, at most I would have a sandwich on a train, but not fish and chips, that smell lingers!
I was on a long haul flight some years ago, and another passenger started painting her nails... stunk the plane out! So inconsiderate.

That might have been me. Sorry.

ZiriForGood · 07/06/2024 22:37

Bringbackthebeaver · 07/06/2024 18:08

Well that's not complicated.

You can buy hot food on the train if it's a long enough journey for them to serve it, but you don't bring it on. The same as on a plane.

There is no rule like that. It is totally normal to buy something on the train station and take it to the train.

Bluemonkey2029 · 07/06/2024 22:35

Love eating on the train. Find it bizarre some people saying the people eating are being antisocial and thinking their needs trump everyone else's when you are thinking your need to not have any smells on board trumps everyone else's needs to eat. Since when does fish and chips smell bad anyway. Live and let live.

yumyumyumy · 07/06/2024 22:31

@ZiriForGood yeah it's not just eggs I make. Any shop bought ones/hard boiled eggs have a smell to them. You're likely nose blind to it and offending people next to you.

ZiriForGood · 07/06/2024 22:26

yumyumyumy · 07/06/2024 22:07

I love hard boiled eggs but it's a no no on public transport. They can be quite pungent and stinky especially if you aren't keen.

Strange. I have never noticed hard boiled eggs to have any distinctive smell at all.

I googled it now and it seems overcooked eggs can develop a smell, but that is easily preventable by cooling them down when the cooking time is over. It doesn't seem that normal boiled eggs would be a problem.
Maybe stop overcooking your eggs and they will be fine?

TheHateIsNotGood · 07/06/2024 22:26

"Hard boiled eggs should be contained within 2 heavily buttered/mayonnaised bread slices (or similar), seasoned/green herbed to taste to reduce any offence to fellow train passengers."

According to my Good Passenger Bible - happy to provide any other 'passenger' tips but maybe you should just buy my Passenger Bible (that I haven't written yet) instead.

yumyumyumy · 07/06/2024 22:18

@spriots interesting, they can smell quite pongy/farty especially when you peel them! You're not missing anything by not being able to smell them anyway Grin