Hello
Sometimes I struggle judging what is socially normal behaviour.
My friend can't meet with me today because her friend (let's call her Sally) is staying with her in an emergency circumstance.
I have never met Sally but apparently she got involved with a man recently who turned physical and attacked her. Hence she is staying with my friend for a short while.
When I heard this I felt so sad for Sally although I have never met her.
Is it weird if I buy Sally a bunch of flowers and a little note to say I don't know her but if she is a friend of my friend then she must be a good person, and she deserves good things and good people in her life. And leave that with my friend for Sally?
Is that okay? Is that weird? I just feel really bad for her and I don't want to just not do anything about it 😕