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To think that people who spend £45 on a Stanley cup need their heads examined?

209 replies

empee47 · 07/06/2024 12:49

More specifically for a primary aged child who is likely to lose or damage the cup? £45? Absolute madness. Some parents just can’t seem to see their kids go without the latest trend.

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StarlightLady · 07/06/2024 14:57

There are lots of things that people do that l have no interest in. Likewise l do things that others have no interest in. As long as these things don’t impact on others, why worry.

We seem to be in a world where people increasingly try and police what others do. Even to the extent of who they should have sex with.

Pickingmyselfup · 07/06/2024 14:57

Depends on the child I suppose. I would be mad to spend that much for my kids because it wouldn't last 5 minutes. Also no good for me because I can't chuck it in a bag and I don't like straws.

For people who can leave it in one place and can easily carry it from a-b I can see the appeal, it's meant to keep things cold for ages.

GentlemanJohnny · 07/06/2024 14:56

Am I the only person who thought this thread was going to be about Ice Hockey?

FriendlyNeighbourhoodAccountant · 07/06/2024 14:54

Are you sure they're all real Stanley cups? I bought my niece one that looks very similar for a tenner for her birthday

BobbyBiscuits · 07/06/2024 14:52

I was walking behind two schoolgirls, probably about 8, and overheard them chatting. The conversation seemed to entirely consistent of 'Stanley cup this, Stanley cup that. Such and such broke theirs, such and such doesn't have one etc'
This was a 30 second snippet but I couldn't help but laugh. I'm sure we wouldn't have been that obsessed with a bloody cup/flask at that age!

buffyslayer · 07/06/2024 14:52

Oh the smaller ones I get
I was thinking of the big ones with a straw

Bignanna · 07/06/2024 14:49

Itllfalloff · 07/06/2024 14:06

We drank from our out door tap, and from nanna and grandads garden hose 😀

You were well off, then! We drank from dirty puddles!

Caspianberg · 07/06/2024 14:49

@buffyslayer - ours are actually the 0.25l ones, not the 0.35l. So the smaller mug of tea size

EnglishBluebell · 07/06/2024 14:48

Dramatic · 07/06/2024 13:31

I bought my 3 kids one each for Christmas, they were £12 from tiktok shop, genuine Stanley's. I wouldn't have paid £45 though. To be fair they still use them every single day 6 months on

Those ones on TikTok are NOT genuine! 😂 I have one direct from Stanley and you can see the differences. The logo is slightly off and not in the same place. Also the handle is a slightly different shape

ShorterWorkingYear · 07/06/2024 14:45

Dartmoorcheffy · 07/06/2024 14:06

I don't know how us old gits survived the 80s and 90s without dying from dehydration.

And still somehow managing fine without carrying water around everywhere. Trends come and go, am obsession with "hydration" is a current one, no science behind it at all, just a fad. Pretty harmless though.

EnglishBluebell · 07/06/2024 14:45

Mercurial123 · 07/06/2024 12:57

It was a fleeting trend. People have moved on. Influencer Insanity did a good commentary on YouTube a few months ago. It's extremely ugly and overpriced.

Well no it's not. They're a very long established and loved brand in the US for decades and these cups have been popular over there for a long time

EnglishBluebell · 07/06/2024 14:43

I have one and it's fantastic. Also I think you might be overlooking the fact that it has a LIFETIME warranty. So if it fails in 10 years time you get a brand new one. So £45 and you've got one for life.
Also, it keeps your drink chilled for about 18 hours.

buffyslayer · 07/06/2024 14:40

I don't get taking it out on a walk. Doesn't it get annoying carrying it?

Caspianberg · 07/06/2024 14:39

Stanley are great. But they sell all sorts not just massive water cups.

We have the Stanley trigger thermos cups. Excellent. They only hold 250-300ml so a normal hot drink size. They fit in my bag easily, or car cup, or pram. Saved dh and I so much money and time the last 4 years since we bought. We often take Ds out now for walks or on bike, before in pram and would be no where open to get hot drink ( we live remote).
Also take travelling, far safer getting coffee shop to put drink in this and use on plane/ train, than a paper cup spilling hot liquid over toddler

whataloadofhotair · 07/06/2024 14:38

Would everyone saying people can spend their money however they want also have the same view on school fees? There seems to be a lot of spite against parents who pay school fees and yet someone can't say you need your head examined for paying £45 on a water bottle???

Fulshaw · 07/06/2024 14:38

I don’t object to people buying them but I don’t really get the point of them over and above any other water bottle or travel mug. Plus they’re so huge! Must be really unwieldy to carry around all day.

dreamstates · 07/06/2024 14:35

As always with these things they start off cool. Then before you know it certain types are using it. And customising them with pink diamanté lids and LV logo and leather boot. It's a bit of a weird one as it's just a water bottle.

It's the same as Burberry.

I hate the need to follow like sheep. People love to be sheep though.

thanKyouaIMee · 07/06/2024 14:35

@Zonder

The original ones did leak if not kept up right (I've got some that are a good few years old!) the newer ones have little plastic seals around the straws + with a straw topper they don't leak when tipped about.

19lottie82 · 07/06/2024 14:34

Dramatic · 07/06/2024 13:31

I bought my 3 kids one each for Christmas, they were £12 from tiktok shop, genuine Stanley's. I wouldn't have paid £45 though. To be fair they still use them every single day 6 months on

Yeah…….. they’re not real Stanley’s.

There are fakes everywhere.

Pigeonqueen · 07/06/2024 14:33

I really want one. But I think I’m just suckered into it all via the shiny happy people on Instagram who have one 🙈🤣 There are tons of dupes on Amazon that have excellent reviews and are probably just as good for a fraction of the price.

Ripleysgameface · 07/06/2024 14:30

I have a £3.50 dupe from The Range. I love it so so much and use it every day.
I can't see how the £45 one would be any better.
I had some ice and water in mine recently on a day out. There was still ice in it the next day when I washed it out.

MaryBeardsShoes · 07/06/2024 14:29

I always thought this, but then I saw someone put a margarita (or several, I suppose) in one and take it out on a walk so my mind has been changed.

CammyChameleon · 07/06/2024 14:27

It's their money, they can spend it how they want. I've looked at some of the cheap versions - I do think they look nice - but as I walk rather than drive, I appreciate something that can be closed properly and chucked in a bag.

@Elodea , I do wonder if part of the appeal is making yourself look "teeny-tiny" due to an oversized accessory, sort of like when oversized handbags were a big thing? No judgement, I loved my oversized bag for just that reason!

Upallnight2 · 07/06/2024 14:17

ChiefEverythingOfficer · 07/06/2024 14:09

Beats paying for plastic water bottles.

I have a Frank Green - it's amazing. 1200ml capacity. I love it.

Oh they're pretty, hadn't heard of them