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Why do people say ‘all the parties are as bad as each other’ ?

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Diefrausagtnein · 07/06/2024 08:38

‘I can’t choose between them’
’Lesser of two evils’
It’s just so flipping cynical and pessimistic. And also lets the current lot off the hook who really have been terrible. Ed Davey and Keir Starmer for example seem fairly sensible and above all honest. Current lot haven’t been. Brexit, Covid corruption, austerity. Really how can other parties that haven’t been in power for 14 years, or ever for that matter, be as bad.

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Asiatoyork · 07/06/2024 09:34

It is an actual campaign strategy of the Conservatives this time round to land this message, particularly on scandals and propriety issues - because they can’t defend their record. I think it is terrible for democracy to court apathy, but there you go.

atotalshambles · 07/06/2024 09:34

The conservatives have been horrendous but really the electorate is completely mad - Boris Johnson etc.. what did people think was going to happen? Rishi Sunak has had enough. Labour were not much better when in government. Gordon Brown sold off the gold and pensions, PFI was a horrendous expensive cost to the NHS sold under the guise of shiny new buildings. Iraq war etc... I like Keir Starmer but am not convinced by the Labour party. I have no idea what their policies are except the VAT on private school fees. I feel so despondent generally. I wish we had PR so could have seats from a wide variety of parties so at least together they have less chance of making things worse.

Diefrausagtnein · 07/06/2024 09:33

@MathiasBroucek big aspirational policies are often expensive and risky. And get cancelled.
Since Thatcher and her obsession with free market economics and a small state the country has become wary of anything that costs money because its a drain on the public ‘purse’. No one wants higher taxes to pay for big ideas because they believe the mantra that the state is always bad. And yet when Blair and Major implemented PFI to improve investment it was also bad.

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beguilingeyes · 07/06/2024 09:32

Most of the people I work with are Tory/Brexit voters who are in denial about the sheer level of criminality this lot have engaged in.
Say what you like about Keir Starmer but he wouldn't have moved his pregnant mistress into no.10 or given his American shag £100,000-odd of public money.

crackofdoom · 07/06/2024 09:32

MisterMagnolia · 07/06/2024 09:07

But there really are no good parties right now imo. I'm a floating voter and very central in my views. So I read the manifestos in detail and use 'fact checker' online before making a vote. This year their manifestos are all over the place and ill judged. Both parties are chucking in random things and both seem to lack clear vision. I like Kier Starmer, but he does seem to be a bit of a puppet. Labour have failed to support women imo, and have suddenly done a bit of a U turn following the Cass Report. Lowering the voting age to 16 seems a ploy to catch more votes for themselves as research has consistently shown younger voters to be more liberal in their views and more likely to vote for them. It seems rather self serving. Conservatives have had a tricky time in office re Covid, the economy and Brexit. But then Brexit was of their own making and Boris couldn't lie straight in bed. They have run the NHS further into the ground (although Labour increased costs through outsourcing under Tony Blair, which have continued). They don't seem to have made it a priority. And they have some deeply repugnant out of touch politicians. My personal view is that it's time for a change and that switching between parties every few years is a good thing as it refreshes and rebalances. I would absolutely love to see the NHS depoliticised and run by an independent non political body comprising medical staff with experience and with long term financial plans, in the same way as The Bank of England is more independent and has greater clout. I would also like to see the parties put forward and publish clear specific policies backed up by realistic strategies which can be properly interrogated. I do feel as though both parties could do a lot better. It's a shame that the lib dems have become a non entity and that The Green Party have become a woke infighting party, instead of having clear sensible and achievable policies. I feel that politics was better when there were 3 parties in the mix.

No manifestos have been released yet, as far as I know.

Magnastorm · 07/06/2024 09:31

BringMeSunshineAllDayLong · 07/06/2024 09:28

I remember it clearly. Short NHs waiting lists, minimum wage introduced, Surestart centres, more teachers, TAs introduced, more police, less divisive politics, no Brexit it was hugely better than now. Things they could have done better though was no Iraq war, started building council houses again and no arms length companies.

I do too.

Things are much, much worse under the current tory government.

To be honest, I think we have reached the point where anyone - bar a select few who have done very well out of the tories - who looks at the shit show of the last few years and goes "yeah, but the other lot can't do any better" has to be considered a bit insane.

BringMeSunshineAllDayLong · 07/06/2024 09:30

WishIMite · 07/06/2024 09:26

Exactly this. This Tory party have realised that they can just siphon off public funds in plain sight. I find it baffling that people think it's okay. Cameron was a saint in comparison and he happily fucked a pig.

I had to explain to my 17 year old that the pig fucking was a) real b) done by someone I respect more than the last 3 prime ministers.
Is face was 😱🤢😱

BringMeSunshineAllDayLong · 07/06/2024 09:28

ImCamembertTheBigCheese · 07/06/2024 09:21

Some of us lived through the last Labour Government and remember what they were like.

I remember it clearly. Short NHs waiting lists, minimum wage introduced, Surestart centres, more teachers, TAs introduced, more police, less divisive politics, no Brexit it was hugely better than now. Things they could have done better though was no Iraq war, started building council houses again and no arms length companies.

MariaVT65 · 07/06/2024 09:28

They all have policies that i strongly disagree with.

Diefrausagtnein · 07/06/2024 09:27

KnittedCardi · 07/06/2024 09:20

If there were an MP standing in my area who'd say, been a nurse for 20 years full time, then started with union or politics stuff, I'd probably vote for them

We had one of those locally. She was awful.

Yup Nadine Dories and Maria Caulfield. Both Tories with awful reps, nurses, but doubt involved with the unions…😂

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WishIMite · 07/06/2024 09:26

BringMeSunshineAllDayLong · 07/06/2024 09:25

It's not true though. I was so much better off during the Labour period than Tory. They didn't do everything right (Iraq war was horrific) but it was so much better than the bunch of corrupt narcissists we have. Even the old Tory party of 2010 were better than the rot we have now.

Exactly this. This Tory party have realised that they can just siphon off public funds in plain sight. I find it baffling that people think it's okay. Cameron was a saint in comparison and he happily fucked a pig.

MathiasBroucek · 07/06/2024 09:26

Because governing is hard and it's unlikely that any party will create massive change.

BringMeSunshineAllDayLong · 07/06/2024 09:25

Houseplanter · 07/06/2024 08:42

They've lived through decades hearing the same rubbish recycled and have learnt they really are all the same.

It's not true though. I was so much better off during the Labour period than Tory. They didn't do everything right (Iraq war was horrific) but it was so much better than the bunch of corrupt narcissists we have. Even the old Tory party of 2010 were better than the rot we have now.

Diefrausagtnein · 07/06/2024 09:25

ImCamembertTheBigCheese · 07/06/2024 09:21

Some of us lived through the last Labour Government and remember what they were like.

Fascinated. What were they like ? Certainly not the same degree of blatant corruption.

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Diefrausagtnein · 07/06/2024 09:21

@Naran tbf what did that question have to do with anything ? doesn’t exactly prove anything.
We already know Sunak is loaded and prepared to lie. We don’t suddenly think here’s a politician of integrity because he’s honest about using private healthcare. I mean he actually lied in the next few sentences.
People hated Cameron and Osbourne and Tory austerity. Brexit was a two fingers up at the establishment which right wing grifters like Farage and the ERG exploited.
You know that I’m sure.

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sunflowerdaisyrose · 07/06/2024 09:21

For me, it's because I don't agree with some policies from all parties and agree with others. I can't stand the jeering and mocking that goes on in the House of Commons, or the constant criticism of other parties in the campaigning rather than talking about their own policies and how they will work and benefit the country.

I will vote labour this year but I won't be celebrating any result, I will remain cynical and hope to be proved wrong.

ImCamembertTheBigCheese · 07/06/2024 09:21

Some of us lived through the last Labour Government and remember what they were like.

LoobyDoop2 · 07/06/2024 09:20

Newgirls · 07/06/2024 09:07

We used to have a Tory MP who was never here. Got done for expenses fiddling.

we now have a very popular Lib Dem MP who is so different. Is at every local event. Positive. Helps people. Campaigns on local issues. Works hard.

they are not all the same.

No, they aren’t. There are individual MPs in each party who work incredibly hard, really understand what needs to be done and genuinely do their best for the country. There are also individual MPs in each party who are ill-informed, arrogant and blinded by their own hobby horses and prejudices. And the overall calibre, particularly at the top of the parties (although that presumably reflects the pool lower down it’s drawn from) is embarrassingly poor. Across all parties.

CaptainBarnacleButt · 07/06/2024 09:20

I think sometimes people also say this because they just want a bland/ generic/ dismissive phrase to end the conversation. Not everybody wants to talk about their politics.

KnittedCardi · 07/06/2024 09:20

If there were an MP standing in my area who'd say, been a nurse for 20 years full time, then started with union or politics stuff, I'd probably vote for them

We had one of those locally. She was awful.

RitaFromThePitCanteen · 07/06/2024 09:20

Only really hear it from people who want to vote Tory. They're honest enough to admit that the Tories have done some terrible things while in power, but want to justify why they continue to vote for them, so they like to pretend that the other parties are just as corrupt. The justification isn't really for us, it's for the Tory voters' own peace of mind.

thesmedsandthesmoos · 07/06/2024 09:19

brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 07/06/2024 08:40

They are actually bored by politics so they don’t give it proper attention and actually listen. They just hear what’s filtered through social media. Beige brains.

What they're actually saying is not that the parties are literally the same, but that all politicians are the same - mostly lying, self-serving narcissists that make it very difficult to choose between them.

Dragonsandcats · 07/06/2024 09:17

GinBlossom94 · 07/06/2024 08:53

Because they all talk shit, say one thing and do the opposite - none of them actually care about us peasants as long as they're all ok and making money

This! And because when they’re interviewed they never answer the question. They just dodge it and speak about whatever policy they are lying about.

Nanny0gg · 07/06/2024 09:17

Temporaryanonymity · 07/06/2024 08:45

Because some people don’t have the intellectual capacity to read and distinguish between the parties. It’s easier to whinge and complain.

Nonsense. Patronising piffle

It's said by those who see the good and bad in both, (I am only talking Con v Labour), wonder which one might actually follow through with their proposed policies and which ones outweigh the others.

It might seem a no-brainer to get the Conservatives out after what they've done (and not done) but I'm not convinced by Kier Starmer and I don't agree with some things and I don't trust them on others.

I am genuinely stuck and I've been able to vote since 1965

YouJustDoYou · 07/06/2024 09:17

Naran · 07/06/2024 08:52

Because it’s true?

I didn’t vote in 2019. Bojo or Corbyn. NO THANKS!

Starmer isn’t remotely sensible. He said that he’d let a loved one suffer on a waiting list and not go private, despite having millions. That blind adherence to ideology is extreme and not sensible at all.

Easy to blame conservatives for Brexit, but us turkeys were the ones who voted for it, despite Cameron urging us not to. Whilst Corbyn said nothing at all. Cameron was forced into calling a referendum he didn’t want. He even resigned after the electorate didn’t listen to his recommendation. I voted remain.

Starmer isn't one to actually mean what he says, though, so I doubt he really would let a loved one suffer the NHS when he's wealthier than most of us.

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