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Bluewhitered · 06/06/2024 21:04

I’ve seen lots of threads on this topic recently. It would be great to have it’s own section so those who want to chat about it with fellow parents , can without an argument.

But private school parents and their children!! We will be just fine. There’s so much smugness and bitterness and hate coming from people who think it’s great the VAT will be added and force some out. In fact I don’t disagree - add VAT on ! Great, and then we can take either our state places up … win win we have more money to spend on holidays, deposits for houses for our kids, private tutors, extra cirricular activities etc and we can probably move to better areas with the outstanding state schools or OR we pay it it we can afford to keep our children there.

On some of the independent school committees they are working out how to charge the fees differently so the actual fees we will pay 20% on are low and the rest of the money is on stuff that’s exempt from VAT. They are also looking at changing the nature of the schools so the children get their state education allowance and then pay extras on top- like you would nursery extras.

The chance of labour implementing it is low. There are solicitors looking at it now and whether they can change the law to allow it.

So either way we’re not in a bad position - as most of the threads argue we are the wealthiest in The UK- some can’t afford food bills etc so we are incredibly lucky to have choice and it is true we must have money to
even contemplate spending £25k on each child in school.

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MyNameIsFine · 29/06/2024 22:08

AnotherNightAnotherName · 29/06/2024 11:10

The £100k VAT (over their whole education) is after income tax so we’d need to earn £180k of extra salary over this period.

That’s many, many months of us both slogging away for zero money.

No thanks, will move to a grammar area instead.

We're in a similar situation. We've worked so hard to get to this point, but, with frozen tax thresholds and inflation, we are actually worse off than we were a few years ago and our work life balance has dived. Now we'll have to pay the equivalent of another 2 years of school more than we were expecting. It'll be years before we can start saving up for anything else. What's the point?

AnotherNightAnotherName · 29/06/2024 11:10

MyNameIsFine · 20/06/2024 16:14

I was wondering what day school was charging 50k per year 😂

The £100k VAT (over their whole education) is after income tax so we’d need to earn £180k of extra salary over this period.

That’s many, many months of us both slogging away for zero money.

No thanks, will move to a grammar area instead.

MyNameIsFine · 20/06/2024 16:14

AnotherNightAnotherName · 19/06/2024 12:46

No the £100k is the approximate cost of the new VAT over the course of my children’s education.

I was wondering what day school was charging 50k per year 😂

Onomatofear · 20/06/2024 15:53

It’s just to distract voters from asking real, hard questions about the state of schools and what the government intends to do about them.

It's fairly obvious that the reasons why state schools are broken is that they don't have enough money going into them. What do you expect to happen if you cut council budgets by 50%??

I should imagine that if a school expels a student with really bad and disruptive behaviour, they lose a lot of money.

It does not take a rocket scientist to figure out that if you stop funding a service, it breaks. That is this government's fault.

If a new government promises to fund state schools again then people will expect them to explain how they will fund it, the same Tory supporters who accuse Labour of 'pissing money up the wall'. Which is actually a load of bollocks when you look at what Labour did for state schools when they were in power.

It would not surprise me if the people harping about how unfair VAT is and aiming their victimhood at everyone else also feel irritated by the idea of social mobility.

coupdetonnerre · 20/06/2024 15:48

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Chipsforteaagain · 20/06/2024 15:39

The VAT that will be raised will be less than 1% of the education budget. That’s nothing. I have my reasons for choosing private and the VAT doesn’t bother me, but let’s face some facts. There are many schools where kids are running absolutely riot each and every day (and you from the naice state schools have no idea, you really don’t do we don’t need your opinion). Kids cannot learn in such noisy, violent environments and neither should they be expected to. State school SEN provision is utterly disgraceful. In order to ‘level up’ the opportunities kids have the government need to spend an unfathomable amount of money sorting these schools out. The VAT on private schools is chicken feed. It’s just to distract voters from asking real, hard questions about the state of schools and what the government intends to do about them.

Seasaltlady · 20/06/2024 15:05

ElizaDoolittleAndOften · 20/06/2024 12:16

I am so over this argument now. I actually don’t care about paying more if we decide to stay.

This isn’t the real issue though, although it is a nice distraction for some.

There is a thread on MN right now where someone is talking about the mental strain on their DH teacher, so much so that they are leaving teaching, along with most of his teacher training group. I think he was verbally and physically abused and had no support from his school. This isn’t an isolated incident apparently as other teachers joined in and said how awful their experiences are.

So the real issue here is that a lot of our schools are just awful and the teachers are leaving in droves, not that private schools have been given a tax break.

Personally I think that piss poor parenting has gotten us to this point, and a couple of extra grand spent on your school from VAT on independents isn’t going to change the attitude of students, parents and depressed teachers.

If there is some more cash to spend I am sure Labour will piss it up the wall before it even gets to the schools, and even if it does reach them, will be in the form of another layer of management or some new woke, never before thought of position, to make sure the school is ramming the latest brainwashing agenda down the poor kids throats, rather than actually erm….teaching them something useful.

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So very well said!! Thank you!!

Aladdinzane · 20/06/2024 12:36

ElizaDoolittleAndOften · 20/06/2024 12:16

I am so over this argument now. I actually don’t care about paying more if we decide to stay.

This isn’t the real issue though, although it is a nice distraction for some.

There is a thread on MN right now where someone is talking about the mental strain on their DH teacher, so much so that they are leaving teaching, along with most of his teacher training group. I think he was verbally and physically abused and had no support from his school. This isn’t an isolated incident apparently as other teachers joined in and said how awful their experiences are.

So the real issue here is that a lot of our schools are just awful and the teachers are leaving in droves, not that private schools have been given a tax break.

Personally I think that piss poor parenting has gotten us to this point, and a couple of extra grand spent on your school from VAT on independents isn’t going to change the attitude of students, parents and depressed teachers.

If there is some more cash to spend I am sure Labour will piss it up the wall before it even gets to the schools, and even if it does reach them, will be in the form of another layer of management or some new woke, never before thought of position, to make sure the school is ramming the latest brainwashing agenda down the poor kids throats, rather than actually erm….teaching them something useful.

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THings mentioned in that thread are ALL linked to funding.

Funding for TAs, teachers, support staff all links in with the overall standard that a school can provide.

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If there is some more cash to spend I am sure Labour will piss it up the wall before it even gets to the schools, and even if it does reach them, will be in the form of another layer of management or some new woke, never before thought of position, to make sure the school is ramming the latest brainwashing agenda down the poor kids throats, rather than actually erm….teaching them something useful"

Ah, you're one of those. Instantly can be disregarded then.

ElizaDoolittleAndOften · 20/06/2024 12:16

I am so over this argument now. I actually don’t care about paying more if we decide to stay.

This isn’t the real issue though, although it is a nice distraction for some.

There is a thread on MN right now where someone is talking about the mental strain on their DH teacher, so much so that they are leaving teaching, along with most of his teacher training group. I think he was verbally and physically abused and had no support from his school. This isn’t an isolated incident apparently as other teachers joined in and said how awful their experiences are.

So the real issue here is that a lot of our schools are just awful and the teachers are leaving in droves, not that private schools have been given a tax break.

Personally I think that piss poor parenting has gotten us to this point, and a couple of extra grand spent on your school from VAT on independents isn’t going to change the attitude of students, parents and depressed teachers.

If there is some more cash to spend I am sure Labour will piss it up the wall before it even gets to the schools, and even if it does reach them, will be in the form of another layer of management or some new woke, never before thought of position, to make sure the school is ramming the latest brainwashing agenda down the poor kids throats, rather than actually erm….teaching them something useful.

Dibblydoodahdah · 20/06/2024 12:13

CurlewKate · 20/06/2024 11:19

Yep. Private school parents and private school children will be perfectly fine, I am very glad to say.

No they all won’t. That’s the point. And you can keep saying that they will but it’s utter rubbish. You have zero evidence for that.

Dibblydoodahdah · 20/06/2024 12:11

Onomatofear · 20/06/2024 11:28

It is not a published fact that all private school parents have quadrupled their wealth under the last Government.

That's clearly not what I said.

Well why use it as your justification for charging VAT on private school fees then?

Dibblydoodahdah · 20/06/2024 12:09

5128gap · 20/06/2024 11:49

Indeed. It was you who likened this particular highly privileged minority to migrants, and set up a false equivelence between the treatment of these two groups in campaigns, not I.
I understand the 'tax break' reference to be talking about the schools who have been able to exploit a loophole and avoid their particular form of luxury service being subject to VAT, not the people paying the fees. The government to be have been pretty much silent about people who pay school fees, with all comments referencing the schools themselves as far as I'm aware. So in what way are parents being demonised?

It’s nothing to do with exploiting a loophole or being a luxury service. Education is currently VAT exempt, all education. VAT will not be paid by the schools, it will be owed by those that pay the fees (i.e. the parents). Yes, Labour have been pushing it back on to the schools and saying it is up to them to swallow the cost. But, of course, the biggest outgoing to a school is its staff so what Labour are actually doing is telling schools to cut jobs. Ultimately it will be the parents that have to pay and yes it has been interpreted by many people as “rich” people getting tax breaks. Labour know exactly what they are doing by using this language.

It is exactly the same kind of nasty politics as was used during the Brexit campaign and Labour know that it appeals to the same type of people.

5128gap · 20/06/2024 11:49

Dibblydoodahdah · 20/06/2024 11:25

Why all the mention of “tax breaks” if they are not trying to demonise private school parents? We all know that the tax break point is a load of rubbish and that private school parents save the taxpayer billions every year by not using State schools. It is absolutely demonising a group of people for political gain.

And a minority is a smaller group of people than the majority. It doesn’t have to relate to discrimination.

Indeed. It was you who likened this particular highly privileged minority to migrants, and set up a false equivelence between the treatment of these two groups in campaigns, not I.
I understand the 'tax break' reference to be talking about the schools who have been able to exploit a loophole and avoid their particular form of luxury service being subject to VAT, not the people paying the fees. The government to be have been pretty much silent about people who pay school fees, with all comments referencing the schools themselves as far as I'm aware. So in what way are parents being demonised?

Onomatofear · 20/06/2024 11:28

It is not a published fact that all private school parents have quadrupled their wealth under the last Government.

That's clearly not what I said.

Dibblydoodahdah · 20/06/2024 11:25

5128gap · 20/06/2024 06:32

Its hardly appropriate to compare people paying for private education with refugees, merely on the basis they are both minorities. Simply being part of a group of whom there are few, does not afford you victim status just because the majority fail to support your interests, and a failure to support your interests is not the same as demonising you. No more than a change of policy that is going to be more expensive for you means you are a victim of discrimination.

There are all sorts of other things that come into play, comparative advantage, privilege and power, that mean the two things are entirely different.

Not to mention, I've seen no evidence of an attempt to pit anyone against people who pay school fees. As I said before, the majority don't care, and those who disagreed with the VAT exemption or with private education in principle haven't been led there by this campaign. They are typically long held views based on the sort of society people would prefer to see.

Why all the mention of “tax breaks” if they are not trying to demonise private school parents? We all know that the tax break point is a load of rubbish and that private school parents save the taxpayer billions every year by not using State schools. It is absolutely demonising a group of people for political gain.

And a minority is a smaller group of people than the majority. It doesn’t have to relate to discrimination.

CurlewKate · 20/06/2024 11:19

Yep. Private school parents and private school children will be perfectly fine, I am very glad to say.

Dibblydoodahdah · 20/06/2024 11:17

Aladdinzane · 20/06/2024 08:12

Sigh, more "personal experience" to counter general points

I hope you weren't privately educated.

Why would you think I was? I have said plenty of times on here that I was educated in a state comp.

And your sighing and other digs just make you come across as rude. They add nothing to your arguments.

It’s a known fact that there is a teacher retention and recruitment problem and it is impacting many schools, include the top state schools and some private schools.

Dibblydoodahdah · 20/06/2024 11:12

Onomatofear · 20/06/2024 09:28

It's not an assumption - it is a published fact.

It is not a published fact that all private school parents have quadrupled their wealth under the last Government. Your comment shows you have no idea about private school parents. Most of us are taxed PAYE and are worse off. Or are you denying that the tax burden is the highest it’s been for 70 years? As with state school parents, our mortgages, rent, bills etc have increased and our salaries haven’t kept pace with inflation. Those of us that earn above the threshold have lost our child benefit.

Onomatofear · 20/06/2024 09:33

Labtastic · 20/06/2024 08:39

The problem is not the higher rate taxpayers paying large amounts of tax. The problem is the chronic mismanagement of public finances by the government. The wastage has been criminal. Wealthy people who pay their tax are not responsible for disabled people having their support services cut, just as immigrants also aren't the responsible. Blame the people in charge of managing the country's finances - that is who is actually responsible.

But it's their brand of politics to cut money from public services. Anyone else remember the draughty cabins children had to be educated in under Thatcher? This time it's Thatcherism on steroids.

Onomatofear · 20/06/2024 09:30

Also, I don't have any reason to have a chip on my shoulder.

This government has certainly created a culture of people with massively entitled attitudes though.

Onomatofear · 20/06/2024 09:28

It's not an assumption - it is a published fact.

Seasaltlady · 20/06/2024 09:00

Onomatofear · 20/06/2024 07:32

Easy, they quadrupled their wealth under the first four years of the coalition.

What a ridiculous assumption and even more ridiculous generalisation of people using PE! Might want to try getting rid of that chip on your shoulder - not a good look!

Aladdinzane · 20/06/2024 08:54

"Income wealthy people already pay their way through tax - a lot of it. It's mad to suggest they don't."

They pay a lower rate than they would in many other advanced countries, other taxes like CGT and CT etc are lower too.

Labtastic · 20/06/2024 08:39

The problem is not the higher rate taxpayers paying large amounts of tax. The problem is the chronic mismanagement of public finances by the government. The wastage has been criminal. Wealthy people who pay their tax are not responsible for disabled people having their support services cut, just as immigrants also aren't the responsible. Blame the people in charge of managing the country's finances - that is who is actually responsible.

Labtastic · 20/06/2024 08:37

It says a lot that you think rich people having to pay their way is them being shat on.

Income wealthy people already pay their way through tax - a lot of it. It's mad to suggest they don't.

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