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To think parents of private education school children will be fine

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Bluewhitered · 06/06/2024 21:04

I’ve seen lots of threads on this topic recently. It would be great to have it’s own section so those who want to chat about it with fellow parents , can without an argument.

But private school parents and their children!! We will be just fine. There’s so much smugness and bitterness and hate coming from people who think it’s great the VAT will be added and force some out. In fact I don’t disagree - add VAT on ! Great, and then we can take either our state places up … win win we have more money to spend on holidays, deposits for houses for our kids, private tutors, extra cirricular activities etc and we can probably move to better areas with the outstanding state schools or OR we pay it it we can afford to keep our children there.

On some of the independent school committees they are working out how to charge the fees differently so the actual fees we will pay 20% on are low and the rest of the money is on stuff that’s exempt from VAT. They are also looking at changing the nature of the schools so the children get their state education allowance and then pay extras on top- like you would nursery extras.

The chance of labour implementing it is low. There are solicitors looking at it now and whether they can change the law to allow it.

So either way we’re not in a bad position - as most of the threads argue we are the wealthiest in The UK- some can’t afford food bills etc so we are incredibly lucky to have choice and it is true we must have money to
even contemplate spending £25k on each child in school.

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Aladdinzane · 01/07/2024 17:30

Seasaltlady · 01/07/2024 17:28

“Because these don't convey privilege on the recipients in the same way as private education”

oh yes they do! I have a few high earning friends who use state schools and then tutor like mad at home and have gotten their children into top grammars or back into private education for secondary school. So like it or not, high earners using state education (in primary especially) also have a very significant privilege over other children in their same class!

Mental gymnastics right here.

So they use the state system at some point? Fine.

Private? VAT.

Easy.

Seasaltlady · 01/07/2024 17:28

Aladdinzane · 01/07/2024 17:24

It's a tax break.

Almost every other discretionary purchase of the same value would carry VAT, it's a tax break.

"There is no VAT on tutors or afterschool clubs and extra curricular activities"

Because these don't convey privilege on the recipients in the same way as private education.

"This is a special tax dreamt up for private school users and them only!"

Who can pay tax for the privileges they are buying their kids.

Simple.

“Because these don't convey privilege on the recipients in the same way as private education”

oh yes they do! I have a few high earning friends who use state schools and then tutor like mad at home and have gotten their children into top grammars or back into private education for secondary school. So like it or not, high earners using state education (in primary especially) also have a very significant privilege over other children in their same class!

Seasaltlady · 01/07/2024 17:26

5128gap · 01/07/2024 17:19

Why indeed? If all Labour care about is 'punishing the wealthy' and 'penalising success' because...ENVY!!! Then surely it would be even more effective to charge them for something everyone else gets for free? If you object to the policy on economic grounds, fair enough, but to suggest KS dreamed it up due to jealousy of the wealthy is beyond ridiculous.

It does not make sense on economic grounds because, as I mentioned above, it will end up generating very little net for net once there is the inevitable shift of students from private to state. If it was simply made for economic reasons, they would have gone with means testing the higher earners using state education as was suggested to Starmer by economists but very much ignored for the less income generating policy of (further) taxing private school users.

Aladdinzane · 01/07/2024 17:24

Seasaltlady · 01/07/2024 17:22

It is not a tax break if there is absolutely no tax on any form of ‘private education’ in existence in this country! There is no VAT on tutors or afterschool clubs and extra curricular activities…..! This is a special tax dreamt up for private school users and them only!

It's a tax break.

Almost every other discretionary purchase of the same value would carry VAT, it's a tax break.

"There is no VAT on tutors or afterschool clubs and extra curricular activities"

Because these don't convey privilege on the recipients in the same way as private education.

"This is a special tax dreamt up for private school users and them only!"

Who can pay tax for the privileges they are buying their kids.

Simple.

Seasaltlady · 01/07/2024 17:22

Aladdinzane · 01/07/2024 17:19

They aren't asking for tax breaks on a discretionary purchase.

It is not a tax break if there is absolutely no tax on any form of ‘private education’ in existence in this country! There is no VAT on tutors or afterschool clubs and extra curricular activities…..! This is a special tax dreamt up for private school users and them only!

5128gap · 01/07/2024 17:19

Seasaltlady · 01/07/2024 16:56

Then why not go for the bigger income generator that is the high earners using the very free state schools that are in such dire need of extra funding? The current ‘policy’ will end up generating pittance by the time you net out the extra funding needed to educate those leaving private schools to move into the state sector! And all the ‘extra’ income not spent on school fees Labour think is suddenly going to be spent on lots of extra niceties that apparently couldn’t be afforded before, will only go into ISAs (junior ISAs have a 9k allowance a year) and junior SIPPs not spent on imaginary VAT generating frivolities (this is generally how these people hang on to their wealth in the first place!!)

Why indeed? If all Labour care about is 'punishing the wealthy' and 'penalising success' because...ENVY!!! Then surely it would be even more effective to charge them for something everyone else gets for free? If you object to the policy on economic grounds, fair enough, but to suggest KS dreamed it up due to jealousy of the wealthy is beyond ridiculous.

Aladdinzane · 01/07/2024 17:19

Seasaltlady · 01/07/2024 17:17

“protect your privilege“ ?! Wouldn’t high earners, wherever they choose to send their children to school, have the same ‘privilege’ you refer to?

They aren't asking for tax breaks on a discretionary purchase.

Seasaltlady · 01/07/2024 17:17

Aladdinzane · 01/07/2024 17:06

Because this is a very silly idea from you designed to attempt to convince others to protect your privilege.

Also most schools get contributions for parents.

“protect your privilege“ ?! Wouldn’t high earners, wherever they choose to send their children to school, have the same ‘privilege’ you refer to?

Aladdinzane · 01/07/2024 17:06

Seasaltlady · 01/07/2024 16:56

Then why not go for the bigger income generator that is the high earners using the very free state schools that are in such dire need of extra funding? The current ‘policy’ will end up generating pittance by the time you net out the extra funding needed to educate those leaving private schools to move into the state sector! And all the ‘extra’ income not spent on school fees Labour think is suddenly going to be spent on lots of extra niceties that apparently couldn’t be afforded before, will only go into ISAs (junior ISAs have a 9k allowance a year) and junior SIPPs not spent on imaginary VAT generating frivolities (this is generally how these people hang on to their wealth in the first place!!)

Because this is a very silly idea from you designed to attempt to convince others to protect your privilege.

Also most schools get contributions for parents.

Seasaltlady · 01/07/2024 16:56

5128gap · 01/07/2024 16:26

Yes. I'm absolutely convinced that Sir Keir drew up that policy motivated entirely by his envy of Nigel and Janet from Milton Keynes and their ability to pay fees at the local prep school. I'm surprised he could see to write it, blinded as he was by jealousy. He must sit there literally fuming at the injustice that denied him the same lofty heights of success in life.

Then why not go for the bigger income generator that is the high earners using the very free state schools that are in such dire need of extra funding? The current ‘policy’ will end up generating pittance by the time you net out the extra funding needed to educate those leaving private schools to move into the state sector! And all the ‘extra’ income not spent on school fees Labour think is suddenly going to be spent on lots of extra niceties that apparently couldn’t be afforded before, will only go into ISAs (junior ISAs have a 9k allowance a year) and junior SIPPs not spent on imaginary VAT generating frivolities (this is generally how these people hang on to their wealth in the first place!!)

5128gap · 01/07/2024 16:26

Seasaltlady · 01/07/2024 16:04

Haha! But I bet they they would! It’s all down to envy at the end of the day, otherwise Starmer would means test the high earners using state schools and have them contribute a small sum termly or yearly to help fill this funding void in the state sector. He would raise more funds that way rather than simply going after the dwindling 7% of private school parents!

Yes. I'm absolutely convinced that Sir Keir drew up that policy motivated entirely by his envy of Nigel and Janet from Milton Keynes and their ability to pay fees at the local prep school. I'm surprised he could see to write it, blinded as he was by jealousy. He must sit there literally fuming at the injustice that denied him the same lofty heights of success in life.

Seasaltlady · 01/07/2024 16:04

5128gap · 01/07/2024 15:36

Well, you've convinced me OP. I was only voting Labour because I thought this policy was going to make people who used private schools unhappy because of my deep rooted working class green eyed chip on my shoulder politics of envy. Now I know you're going to be better off...well..I'm going to vote Tory now just to spite you. And I urge all Labour voters to do the same!

Haha! But I bet they they would! It’s all down to envy at the end of the day, otherwise Starmer would means test the high earners using state schools and have them contribute a small sum termly or yearly to help fill this funding void in the state sector. He would raise more funds that way rather than simply going after the dwindling 7% of private school parents!

5128gap · 01/07/2024 15:36

Well, you've convinced me OP. I was only voting Labour because I thought this policy was going to make people who used private schools unhappy because of my deep rooted working class green eyed chip on my shoulder politics of envy. Now I know you're going to be better off...well..I'm going to vote Tory now just to spite you. And I urge all Labour voters to do the same!

Aladdinzane · 01/07/2024 15:34

Bluewhitered · 01/07/2024 15:12

Also it was interesting to speak to the head teacher at the grammar open evening- he said they’d not had this many parents come and visit before and from the independent schools. When asked how they would accommodate everyone moving to get in to the school- had said two ways- larger class sizes and smaller catchment area

You are talking nonsense.

Making up things on the internet to fit a narrative.

" We have done that cliche thing though of moving to a nice small village, with a grammar school and effectively it is similar to their school already"

Hmmm, villages with a grammar school

Talking shite.

Bluewhitered · 01/07/2024 15:19

Euromonkey · 01/07/2024 15:09

So in the time since you last posted you’ve arranged the money to buy another house your 3 children have been allocated places in the local grammar school (without presumably having an address in the area otherwise why move?)
And the private school your DC are currently at has advised it’s closing in the last week.

Calling bullshit on this! I assume you are posting this in a last ditch attempt to bring attention back to the VAT on private education policy prior to the election but I’m afraid nonsense scenarios don’t tend to garner sympathy.

Merging - the school are merging . The governors sent an email out in April when the sign on numbers were low. The larger school are taking over- kids won’t have to move but they are buying the premises and coming under the same umbrella. It’s quite common to take prep schools under a larger wing

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Bluewhitered · 01/07/2024 15:18

@Euromonkey no of course not! They’ve got to do until Christmas term as it’s a terms notice! And yes to the houses . This chat has been on going for 6 months we were ready to make decisions ! As are many other parents - it’s been on the cards for a long time if labour comes in. I’m sure it’ll work out well for us and it’s not something we had considered before the potential VAT increase. But it’s ok! Things change and we are happy to move

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Bluewhitered · 01/07/2024 15:12

Also it was interesting to speak to the head teacher at the grammar open evening- he said they’d not had this many parents come and visit before and from the independent schools. When asked how they would accommodate everyone moving to get in to the school- had said two ways- larger class sizes and smaller catchment area

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Euromonkey · 01/07/2024 15:09

So in the time since you last posted you’ve arranged the money to buy another house your 3 children have been allocated places in the local grammar school (without presumably having an address in the area otherwise why move?)
And the private school your DC are currently at has advised it’s closing in the last week.

Calling bullshit on this! I assume you are posting this in a last ditch attempt to bring attention back to the VAT on private education policy prior to the election but I’m afraid nonsense scenarios don’t tend to garner sympathy.

Bluewhitered · 01/07/2024 14:54

Euromonkey · 01/07/2024 14:52

NB/@Bluewhitered its Sir Keir

What’s your plan for if your DC don’t pass the 11+ for the grammar? You seem incredibly confident they will get places just on the basis of you living in the vicinity.

Yeah they are extremely bright and above national average - no problem with getting in. We wouldn’t move if we thought they wouldn’t get in! They’ve won the Form academic prizes at our annual speech night year on year.

We’ve attended the gramma school open day- many parents either questions about numbers. The school currently take a wider area as they had the capacity to do so- they will just take from the village area now and not outwards from their immediate catchment area like they were able to before.

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Euromonkey · 01/07/2024 14:52

NB/@Bluewhitered its Sir Keir

What’s your plan for if your DC don’t pass the 11+ for the grammar? You seem incredibly confident they will get places just on the basis of you living in the vicinity.

GreenTeaLikesMe · 01/07/2024 14:51

Grammar schools as they currently work are bad for poor kids, as they don’t usually get in, and being the “secondary modern” option has very negative effects on the quality of education provided (smell of failure hanging around the place, will struggle to attract good teachers etc.).

Ironically, the largest number of grammar schools and secondary moderns converting to comprehensive status actually took place under the administration of Margaret Thatcher. Thatcher didn’t want to de-grammarize the system as she was a big fan of GSs, but she basically had to do it because of demand from parents in these areas - parents were fed up with 11 plus pressures and with the rubbish standard of education provided by the secondary moderns.

Bluewhitered · 01/07/2024 14:46

GreenTeaLikesMe · 01/07/2024 14:40

Hopefully Labour will make a move against grammar schools in the next few years as well. At a minimum, I would like to see GSs focusing on kids from low income family. Given all that piffle about “social mobility” that GSs supposedly provided, they should be privileging kids from poor families, not providing “free private schools” for kids from wealthy families.

But isn’t this exactly what labour want? They want us to have a free education and not choose to pay for private schools? This is exactly what they want , no? Labour seemed to think private schools are elitist and upset we are paying so want to give us free education and for us to spend our money elsewhere. Interestingly those moving kids who we know are putting it into their pensions though so as not to use it now but for when they are older and as a personal benefit to them.

Ans regardless of grammar schools- yes they can take those away but it doesn’t stop it being an affluent area, with parents with similar values and children alike. Higher house prices, less crime in the area, not many children and parents on benefits going into the school. Labour can’t change the socioeconomic status of an area even if they take the Gramma school away

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GreenTeaLikesMe · 01/07/2024 14:40

Hopefully Labour will make a move against grammar schools in the next few years as well. At a minimum, I would like to see GSs focusing on kids from low income family. Given all that piffle about “social mobility” that GSs supposedly provided, they should be privileging kids from poor families, not providing “free private schools” for kids from wealthy families.

Bluewhitered · 01/07/2024 14:37

An update for the thread on our situation!

So we have decided that labour have given us much food for thought in their policy. Kier has pushed us into making a decision we wouldn’t have done previously if this wasn’t coming into place. We would have kept our children in the school they are in as we could afford that but not 3 with a 20% increase.

We have made an offer and had it accepted on a house in a village that has a grammar school. It’s a house we couldn’t have afforded without taking the children out. We have decided to move our children and take the places in state school. We are keeping the house we currently live in and renting it out so it’s an investment for us. We have done that cliche thing though of moving to a nice small village, with a grammar school and effectively it is similar to their school already. I suppose this is what Kier Starmer has with his children- nice affluent area, nice schools so maybe Kier is onto something - he has led the way to copy what he has done.

We feel strangely ok with this as the children will still be in a great school and we will have more money. We are putting the money we save on fees into pensions so it won’t be going into the economy like Labour expect but for our and our children’s future.

Now what’s interesting is we are not alone. The school the children currently attend are now merging with the big private school because numbers of children leaving are too high and the number of children starting the school is down 75% this year cited to the potential VAT increase. Some are waiting to decide what decision to make but we’ve had 7 out of 19 out notice in in DD class, hence why the school will now merge , and 7 state school places will be taken up come September. The school have sent an email out saying they will take of their charitable starts and burseries and scholarships that offer monetary discounts will stop if the policy comes in and also local groups who use the schools facilities will now pay going forward- they’ve done this to reassure those staying at the school that despite a potential increase it will now be ran like a business and they won’t be subsidising others.

So the knock on effects on the policy are now in play - I guess this is what labour wanted though? Everyone in free education and spending their money on pensions instead or houses?

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Aladdinzane · 01/07/2024 14:24

AnotherNightAnotherName · 29/06/2024 11:10

The £100k VAT (over their whole education) is after income tax so we’d need to earn £180k of extra salary over this period.

That’s many, many months of us both slogging away for zero money.

No thanks, will move to a grammar area instead.

100k VAT over what period?

The simple mathematics doesn't work does it?

If its 3 kids across their whole school education it's a lot different to 3 kids just in secondary.

However, those 3 kids just in secondary could be 3 kids across 10 years so again, your simple maths doesn't really add up.

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