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To think parents of private education school children will be fine

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Bluewhitered · 06/06/2024 21:04

I’ve seen lots of threads on this topic recently. It would be great to have it’s own section so those who want to chat about it with fellow parents , can without an argument.

But private school parents and their children!! We will be just fine. There’s so much smugness and bitterness and hate coming from people who think it’s great the VAT will be added and force some out. In fact I don’t disagree - add VAT on ! Great, and then we can take either our state places up … win win we have more money to spend on holidays, deposits for houses for our kids, private tutors, extra cirricular activities etc and we can probably move to better areas with the outstanding state schools or OR we pay it it we can afford to keep our children there.

On some of the independent school committees they are working out how to charge the fees differently so the actual fees we will pay 20% on are low and the rest of the money is on stuff that’s exempt from VAT. They are also looking at changing the nature of the schools so the children get their state education allowance and then pay extras on top- like you would nursery extras.

The chance of labour implementing it is low. There are solicitors looking at it now and whether they can change the law to allow it.

So either way we’re not in a bad position - as most of the threads argue we are the wealthiest in The UK- some can’t afford food bills etc so we are incredibly lucky to have choice and it is true we must have money to
even contemplate spending £25k on each child in school.

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Thepinkyponkc · 06/06/2024 22:04

Bluewhitered · 06/06/2024 22:02

Also I thoroughly begrudge it when people say we all work hard. I’m a prime example that that is not the case. I work in a government level job , and do a very mediocre job at best- yes I get up each day and do the school run, go to work (put in minimal effort in wherever possible) and go home and do the house and tea. My husband however is a CEO and he works much harder and more hours than me - he flies round the world working, taking phone calls all hours of the day- sleeps for 5 hours a night and missed out on a lot so he definitely earns his salary compared to my lazy half arsed self 🤣

I mean at least you’re honest 👀

Bluewhitered · 06/06/2024 22:02

Also I thoroughly begrudge it when people say we all work hard. I’m a prime example that that is not the case. I work in a government level job , and do a very mediocre job at best- yes I get up each day and do the school run, go to work (put in minimal effort in wherever possible) and go home and do the house and tea. My husband however is a CEO and he works much harder and more hours than me - he flies round the world working, taking phone calls all hours of the day- sleeps for 5 hours a night and missed out on a lot so he definitely earns his salary compared to my lazy half arsed self 🤣

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Bluewhitered · 06/06/2024 21:50

Hoppinggreen · 06/06/2024 21:39

I sent my DC Private so they could avoid the offspring of lower class oiks

This has made me laugh so much…. Some happily complain and call us names so hilarious to be honest and say it back … bravo darling bravo 👏

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Hoppinggreen · 06/06/2024 21:39

SadAct342 · 06/06/2024 21:16

And you wonder why its such a contentious topic.
For the record I can afford to send my children to Private school but I shudder at the thought that they would have to be surrounded by the offspring of such entitled arseholes.

I sent my DC Private so they could avoid the offspring of lower class oiks

Bluewhitered · 06/06/2024 21:35

MsFogi · 06/06/2024 21:21

OP has it occurred to you that many parents at state schools already have money to spend on holidays, deposits for houses for our kids, private tutors, extra curricular activities etc - we're not all rubbing our two pennies together you know (and that's just at the comprehensives, if you go to the grammars many parents are very wealthy). I don't think anyone has an issue with your child taking up a space in a state school and you may be surprised that you are not in some wealth league of your own!!

I didn’t think we were but I was reading posts today saying we are very wealthy and most will just be able to pay the 20% so they must be correct- we need to suck it up and move on! I agree with them we are extremely wealthy , I don’t have to worry about buying food or turning lights on- so no need to get upset over some posts ranting on saying we are wealthy- I fully agree! That money we earn is still going to spent on something other than basics either way school or champagne I see it as 🤣 . We are privileged. Whether that’s by being able to afford it or moving to state and using the money elsewhere

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ghostyslovesheets · 06/06/2024 21:25

Nah I send my 13 kids to the local failing comp and spend my money on huge cars, fancy holidays, takeaways and wine - I'm winning

Thepinkyponkc · 06/06/2024 21:24

StormingNorman · 06/06/2024 21:20

Sneaky way to put across the point that social inequality will continue by different means. I agree with you so I’m just here for the rabid ranting 😜

Edited

I think this is what the OP is trying to do 😆 I think it’s a jokey post tbh! I’ll get the popcorn 🍿

CoralQueef · 06/06/2024 21:24

Tbh I agree, individuals will be fine (and are - our DD goes to a private school and we will just find the extra money)

The issue is the £60 million that local authorities will need to find since nearly 20,000 SEN pupils are in Independant schools as they’re not able to remain in mainstream education for a myriad of reasons.

The policy will cost more than it ‘makes’

In addition to this it also means all education is impacted. That’s holiday clubs, after school clubs etc.

MsFogi · 06/06/2024 21:21

OP has it occurred to you that many parents at state schools already have money to spend on holidays, deposits for houses for our kids, private tutors, extra curricular activities etc - we're not all rubbing our two pennies together you know (and that's just at the comprehensives, if you go to the grammars many parents are very wealthy). I don't think anyone has an issue with your child taking up a space in a state school and you may be surprised that you are not in some wealth league of your own!!

Bluewhitered · 06/06/2024 21:21

SadAct342 · 06/06/2024 21:16

And you wonder why its such a contentious topic.
For the record I can afford to send my children to Private school but I shudder at the thought that they would have to be surrounded by the offspring of such entitled arseholes.

I agree with you! We aren’t entitled to the VAT so add it on. That’s exactly what I’m saying , we don’t have an entitlement. Add it on and also to private healthcare, nurseries and universities. Let’s get rid of the entitlement and live in the real world! Stop moaning and either stay at the school because you can afford it or move to a state - sorted ✌️😎

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StormingNorman · 06/06/2024 21:20

Sneaky way to put across the point that social inequality will continue by different means. I agree with you so I’m just here for the rabid ranting 😜

SadAct342 · 06/06/2024 21:16

And you wonder why its such a contentious topic.
For the record I can afford to send my children to Private school but I shudder at the thought that they would have to be surrounded by the offspring of such entitled arseholes.

Hoppinggreen · 06/06/2024 21:13

We will be fine too. If we couldn't affford an extra couple of hundred £ a month then we probably can't really afford Private school anyway - in any case we only have 1 year left. We would rather fees didn't go up but I am not going to whinge about it
I really do hope that any if any extra money IS raised from VAT on fees it is ring fenced to help State schools.
Our school isnt a charity by the way.

Jessforless · 06/06/2024 21:12

I’m not in the position for this to affect me (no kids in private school)… but I do worry about a few people I know who don’t have a massive disposable income or aren’t really wealthy, but have scrimped and gone without to just about afford to send their kids when circumstances dictated (terrible school experience so had to find an alternative etc). The 20% will make it impossible. Feels really unfair on them.

Thepinkyponkc · 06/06/2024 21:12

lol 😂 I do like this thread . Guessing it’s a joke to wind people up. I don’t disagree though - it will all be fine either way . And yes , if children leave their school parents can spend the money on other nice things instead, so either way it’s not an awful position to be in!

MyKidsAreTooNoisy · 06/06/2024 21:07

Not quite sure what the point of this thread is, or what makes it special compared to all the others. But your comment about how private schools are scheming to find a way round the tax tells you a lot about these ‘charitable’ institutions…

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