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Not bothering to separate colours

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Trunkybum · 06/06/2024 08:40

I’m just read a reply on another thread where someone mentioned OP should pick similar shades of colour for her child’s clothing so she can wash them all together.
Cant you just wash it all together anyway? I literally bung everything into the machine, including really light stuff and it’s all fine. If I’ve got something dark I’m washing for the first few times lll shove a colour catcher in (yes I’m aware they are the produce of satan). I might keep white stuff separate if it’s really lovely, but white towels are fair game and I hardly have any white clothing.

really who can be arsed with doing so many separate washes? BTW, we’re not talking about high end, delicate garments. Poster was talking about Primark clothes and most of our wardrobe is Next or supermarkets.

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Inertia · 06/06/2024 18:54

I separate - it’s not onerous at all as we have stacking laundry baskets, so it’s already sorted - just wash a basket load as it gets full.

We can’t afford to ruin and replace clothes/ towels/ bedding,so take care of them . .

Tarantella6 · 06/06/2024 18:50

Lights, darks and red/pink here, yes we have enough red and pink stuff to make its own wash. And these are sub divided into things that can be spun at 1200 and things that can only be spun at 800.

And clothes have fabric conditioner but towels don't so obviously they are separate.

Also branded washing powder because otherwise I can hear my Mum's voice in my head saying own brand just isn't as good and will make all my clothes look grubby!

fieldsofbutterflies · 06/06/2024 18:47

I don't separate colours but I also don't own anything white that isn't socks, lol.

FuckTheClubUp · 06/06/2024 18:44

Can I ask why you care what others do? I seperate into whites, colours and dark when it comes to my children’s clothes. I just do light and dark with mine but I’m not really bothered what other people do. It doesn’t impact me at all

TheKeatingFive · 06/06/2024 18:42

God no, definitely not spending my time separating laundry. I don't wear a lot of white however.

Auburngal · 06/06/2024 18:37

With my bedding, I put the sheet and top pillowcases in one wash and every fortnight I wash the above and the duvet cover and bottom pillowcases which are all similar colours.

Auburngal · 06/06/2024 18:34

I own no white clothing (bar undies) as white makes me look ill. I wear bright colours and throw everything in the same cycle.

Katemax82 · 06/06/2024 18:31

I separate everything but my husband doesn't, and he does a much washing as I do. Luckily nothing had run yet except my sons red neckerchief he wears to catering college

Whereissummer24 · 06/06/2024 15:51

I never used to until my spendy t-shirts went a bit grey!! Not its darks and mids on a 30 and whites on a 40 with a Dr Beckman white sachet, far cheaper than replacing them!

Growlybear83 · 06/06/2024 15:40

I wash all my whites separately, and usually do a separate load for jeans or black things, and then wash other coloured things together but on a cool wash so that colours don't run. I wash almost every day so it's not an issue doing lots of separate loads.

RampantIvy · 06/06/2024 15:40

DD works in healthcare, and her tunics are white, but they are all now a dingy grey.

Beezknees · 06/06/2024 15:38

I do 3 lots. Whites/lights, darks, and everything else.

Eggbuttie · 06/06/2024 15:37

I do:
Whites
Lights (cream and beige)
Darks
Yellows
Red/pinks
Green/blues

I'm aware this is overkill 🫣 we have multiple coloured school uniform that runs and several football kits

RampantIvy · 06/06/2024 15:32

GalileoHumpkins · 06/06/2024 13:23

No, we don't have white sheets or white towels. Is that hard to believe?

No need for the sarcasm. Most people I know have white sheets, which is why I asked.

I am aware that other colours exist.

I'm not separating lights and darks, I'm too busy working and having fun

Clearly, my life is not as exciting and fun filled as yours Hmm

yikesanotherbooboo · 06/06/2024 15:28

I am careful about separating but there are usually only two of us to wash for now and no baby whites or endless school shirts so the occasional white garment might have to wait a few weeks until there are enough sundry white items to go in together.

ouch321 · 06/06/2024 15:28

I'm perplexed at people's whites going grey, never had that happen. Maybe you need to buy higher quality detergent.

I separate into whites + lights and dark + brights but only if there is enough in total for 2 loads.

CutthroatDruTheViolent · 06/06/2024 15:15

We're a family of five so a separated wash is still big enough for a full load. I do tend to separate out colours and whites, only because I have a couple of red/pink items that stubbornly bleed.

School uniforms I used to be really vigilant about - until I discovered colour catchers and now they all get bunged in together. I just have to be careful because they seem to quite often get sucked into the outlet pipe which is a pain to sort out.

RedPony1 · 06/06/2024 14:24

i do mixed colours and whites. But it can take 5-6 weeks to have enough to put a white wash on as we don't wear white much at all.

I'm not separating lights and darks, I'm too busy working and having fun, i don't want to extend how long it takes to do chores.

bugaboo218 · 06/06/2024 14:12

I separate everything!

White polo shirts, school shirts and white tee shirts.

white towels, sheets, white socks duvet covers on a hot wash

Dark colours

Bright colours

colours with white in them ( e.g navy and white stripes) with a colour catcher

Football and sports kit

It doesn't take me any longer

DillyDeclutter · 06/06/2024 14:04

Whites and lights together, darks together. Nobody in my house really wears brights. A single one of DH's black sports socks can dye a full load of whites

However my mum doesn't separate and her things always look OK so I do apportion a lot of blame to the brand of socks DH wears.

SilverHairedCat · 06/06/2024 14:00

I only separate my white bedding and the handful of white linen shirts we have between us.

Everything else goes in together unless it's a boil wash in which case it's only undies, socks, sheets and towels (DH has chronic athletes foot) I don't boil tops, hoodies or jeans.

Jarstastic · 06/06/2024 13:57

Springwatch123 · 06/06/2024 13:22

Just a thought, washing powders (and washing up liquids, dishwater tablets at al) are always boasting ‘best ever’, ‘new improved’ etc, so were the Persil, , Daz, Fairy etc of yesteryear terrible, and did we all go around in grubby or off-colour clothes?

If we are talking say the 80s, whites would have been good with modern powder which contained bleach and more washes done at hotter temperatures, along with hanging out in sunshine. 'Laundry blue' was also still used by some. (and is still available to buy now!).

These days you can wash whites at low temperature with a powder containing bleach, enzymes and optical brightener and they can be a bit day glo!

It's easier to keep colours looking good for longer now.

Cattery · 06/06/2024 13:52

Whites and lights in together. Darks separately. My son’s expensive stuff in separately probs on a cool wash. Towels and bath mat on their own

Isitchill · 06/06/2024 13:37

I always separate.
Whites
Blacks / grey/navy
Reds and pinks
Yellows and beige.

I think it's why my clothes last for so long, that and not tumble drying My gym teacher was amazed I was wearing a race top from 2013 the other day and said it didn't look old.

Trunkybum · 06/06/2024 13:34

PlainChipsandIpads · 06/06/2024 09:11

What’s wrong with colour catchers?

I actually don't know. I just know when I've seen them mentioned on MN previously it's like a swear word. I like them.

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