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WWYD if you recieved an anonymous message about the guy you are dating?

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trekking1 · 05/06/2024 19:58

The message is from the person who used to date him who claims he infected her with an STD and I should be careful. Do I tell him about this message?

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Fatotter · 05/06/2024 20:02

You should both have STI tests before having sex/unprotected sex.

Get tested both of you.

STI’s are common and nothing to be ashamed of but if left untreated can have devastating effects on your health.

The only reason why STI’s spread so easily is because of the secrecy and shame.

StrawberriesandMango · 05/06/2024 20:02

He's just going to deny it obviously isn't he, I would just take it as truth and a major red flag.

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trekking1 · 05/06/2024 20:02

I should have clarified, I'm not sleeping with him, we have just been on two dates

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VickyEadieofThigh · 05/06/2024 20:01

TeaKitten · 05/06/2024 19:59

I’d book an sti test personally.

This (if you've already slept with him).

GreekVases · 05/06/2024 20:00

Are you using condoms?

TeaKitten · 05/06/2024 19:59

I’d book an sti test personally.

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