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Would you go out with hairy legs?

109 replies

Winniethepoohisactuallyquitedeep · 05/06/2024 15:04

In shorts/skirt/dress?

I think I’ve reached a new low.
Since having my Dd I’ve had less time to
spend on myself as I previously did and I’m
less bothered. The other day it was hot, I was short of time and went out in shorts…with hairy legs. I’m a brunette so have quite dark, hairy legs, part of me thought eurgh, but then, ahh cba

OP posts:
MaryFuckingFerguson · 05/06/2024 21:33

No. I wouldn’t dream of it.

Alalalalalongalalalalalonglonglilong · 05/06/2024 21:32

I really really want to say yes. I reset how women are raised to despise our own bodies but I probably wouldn't. If I was exercising I'd wear 3/4 leggings unshaven and I'd go swimming unshaven but otherwise no. I have really ugly legs so I don't show them anyhow it would be just cropped trousers or long skirts with a slit.

Kokomjolk · 05/06/2024 21:30

Yeah sure. And I do have dark hair so it's noticeable.

I'm not stupid, I know some women will be thinking how gross/slovenly I am. But I don't care what they think and frankly I think the sort of women who judge that kind of thing are vapid idiots, so it's a silent tit for tat I suppose.

britinnyc · 05/06/2024 21:26

I wouldn’t but I don’t care what others too. I have pale skin and thick dark hair and hate the feel of leg hair so I lasered it off, best money I have ever spent, I used to have to shave daily and got really irritated skin from the stubble.

imnotwhoyouthinkiam · 05/06/2024 21:25

Yep. Sometimes I go out without removing my PCOS beard too.

LimeCookie · 05/06/2024 21:24

Honestly I think people rarely notice these things as much as we think they do. And personally if I were to notice someone out unshaven and confident, the only thing I would think would be Yes Queen, go for it.

Oblomov24 · 05/06/2024 21:23

I do, but then have very little blonde leg hair and only need to shave occasionally.

IndigoIsMyFavouriteColour · 05/06/2024 21:19

I haven't shaved/plucked/waxed my legs since I met my husband.

I have no urge to look prepubescent.

I go to the gym regularly and swim/sauna with very hairy legs and armpits. I don't know if anyone notices and I wouldn't mind if they did and questioned me about it.

For me its as simple as looking at the basis for the social norm and then not adhering to it as I just don't believe women should be working to look like they've not gone through puberty and adult humans all have hairy legs. I also find my armpits far, far cleaner and not smelly when they are hairy.

beefmassaman · 05/06/2024 21:16

Never, I like smooth tanned legs and hide them away otherwise. But that's my own insecurity.
If I saw a well groomed woman out and about with her hairy legs on proud display I'd be in awe of her. I'd think she was cool.

But if I saw an unkempt disheveled woman out with hairy legs I'd feel a bit 🤢
Sorry, but I'd think she was lazy rather than a feminist.

ByGrabtharsHammarWhatASaving · 05/06/2024 21:15

I havent shaved my legs or armpits in 5 years now. I have very dark, thick hair and pale skin so it's very noticeable. I wear shorts and dresses out all the time and have never had anyone say anything, never noticed anyone staring etc. If you want to do it then just go for it, nothing bad will happen.

RickyGervaislovesdogs · 05/06/2024 21:07

I don’t mind if YOU don’t, but I shave the lot.

WhySoManySocks · 05/06/2024 21:07

I wish I had the courage. But I don’t.

I went to the gym with hairy armpits though.

SammySays · 05/06/2024 21:06

I couldn’t and actually have a recurring dream that I am out in shorts and have forgotten to shave my legs. The panic in the dream is terrible whilst I try to hide my legs from view and search for a way to get a razor. Clearly I’m uptight about body hair 😂

doublec · 05/06/2024 21:00

Lost most of my hair (inc. body hair) undergoing chemotherapy. Although I have now finished this treatment, and although the hair on my head has started to regrow, I totally forgot about the hair on my legs. Have been out several times recently with bare legs, and only noticed the other night while having a bath how long and dark my leg hair now is. I know I should probably shave it off, but just don't care enough. IIRC, last time I shaved them was last October. Before cancer, I only ever used to shave whichever bits of my legs were on show anyway!

Seriously though, if you're not bothered OP, no-one else should be either. Life's too short to worry about this kind of thing.

StormingNorman · 05/06/2024 18:43

No.

Sapphire387 · 05/06/2024 18:42

After giving myself a massive nasty cut shaving a couple of weeks ago (now almost healed, thankfully), I am giving up shaving. My husband doesn't shave his legs, so why should I? (Just to be clear, pressure is not coming from DH - he couldn't care less!)

So I will be joining you soon, OP.

PCController2 · 05/06/2024 18:36

Absolutely not, though I don't have to worry about it now as I had laser hair removal.

I absolutely agree with a lot of the comments made above about how it is absolutely fine to, but it's just not for me.

positivewings · 05/06/2024 18:32

I only wear leggings or half way bottoms so no I don't shave my legs.
However I went a whole year without shaving plucking ect.
And what I found out was my skin had healed.
After a long year I shaved my armpits and legs with the razors I've always used.
And my god I was sore itchy blotchy I scratched so much I bleed.
So stopped again and got a charger shaver for my armpits it's a close shave but nothing scrapes my skin.
I only do my legs if I wear shorts not very much.

Isitchill · 05/06/2024 18:29

No, pre laser treatment I wouldn't. I had thick dark hair, it was incredibly obvious.

YetAnotherSpartacus · 05/06/2024 18:28

Always. Life is too short to be arsed shaving.

Wexone · 05/06/2024 18:26

I wouldn't - for me i hate my body hair, its long dark and gorilla like. i actually didn't shave as it made my skin feel horrible, i used hair removing cream then moved to waxing. I have had it lasered off now and i love that there is not hair any more. My armpit hair made me smelly and uncomfortable so i waxed that off too now lasered off. In the past i would have worn trousers, tights or long skirt to hide it, not because of what other people would say but because of how it made ME feel.
But if you don't want to hsvae wax etc go right ahead

Wishingitwaswinter · 05/06/2024 18:21

No. But I'm the type that won't even jave hairy legs in the house. I can't stand the feeling of it, it makes me feel unclean and I have an illness so I fel like I have to be ready to the point if I need to gonto hospital, I'm clean or if I need to ozone an ambulance, they arnt going to find someone who's not washed with hair legs.

weegiemum · 05/06/2024 17:57

I don't shave. But I don't wear shorts or short skirts/dresses either!

People would be too busy looking at the extensive scarring on my legs to notice the hair, which doesn't grow over the scars anyway!

Chanelbasketballandchain · 05/06/2024 17:55

Howtonamechange · 05/06/2024 16:47

Absolutely not I wouldn't.

I wonder if those that would have lighter/ blonder hair.

I personally have thick dark hair and for me I would feel way too self conscious to do so but good for you if it doesn't bother you.

Also to me, armpit hair is a definite no no even on men.

I haven't done any actual research about it, but I can't say I have ever noticed a man without armpit hair?

On one I fancy, I like it. On one I don't fancy, I just don't want to be anywhere that area anyway.

I do find men with shaved legs weird - it's usually sport related, and not a turn off, but I just find it a bit odd looking. Not that I would every say anything, they are usually pretty fit anyway!

EmmaGrundyForPM · 05/06/2024 17:53

Can't remember when I last shaved my legs. I'm going swimming shortly and I couldnt care less who's staring at my hairy legs on the beach. Although it's so flipping cold today I'm not sure there will be anyone on the beach!

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