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To use one makeup brand? (Lighthearted)

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allwiredup · 04/06/2024 16:16

Oddest conversation just happened at lunch today with a few friends. Talking about New Year’s resolutions and where we were with ours. Our group takes them as seriously as we can (which isn’t much) 😂 For context, my resolution was to declutter and go “minimalist” in an effort to save money.

I mentioned I’d put up all my expensive makeup brands (Charlotte Tilbury, Armani, Dior, etc) for special occasions and had adopted a more simpler makeup look using just 5 ELF products for my everyday, which had saved me a lot more money as the brand is more affordable (think the most expensive thing if like £20). I felt quite proud of myself for this as I’ve been known to purchase makeup I don’t need as a guilty pleasure, and since adopting this new routine, I’ve saved loads of money that honestly would have been wasted. Or at least, I did feel proud until a friend turned around and said it was “weird” of me to only use ONE brand. That it was boring and “elitist”…

Cue confusion from everyone else at the table 🙈

Ive been giggling about it all afternoon. This friend is known for being a bit eccentric but this was a new one for us all. So mumsnet, tell me, am I weird to use just ONE makeup brand? (The horror….)

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OneFrenchEgg · 04/06/2024 19:01

@allwiredup kind of, I was favouring their glow stuff and not replacing the others, started to try their other products like lip stuff and voila a full house!

VeryStressedMum · 04/06/2024 18:33

I am the opposite and while I don't use that many products I use the ones I like everyday. The ones I happen to like are quite expensive but life is too short to save the good stuff for only special occasions.

NippyCrab · 04/06/2024 18:30

@allwiredup ooo I will try it as a lip stain. I get the look fantastic beauty box but there's not been much in the way of cosmetics. I have too many mascaras so give them away now.
I don't know if I'm lucky to have extreme mood swings or not, I would absolutely not cope being in a black hole for weeks/months.

allwiredup · 04/06/2024 18:25

NippyCrab · 04/06/2024 18:03

MH is pants, I'm up and down like an Alton Towers roller coaster at times! With meds 😄
Anyway, ELF is brilliant, I have a liquid blush and a powder and love it. I will try the eye crayons now that they've been mentioned above. Xx

As is the way this lovely rollercoaster goes! I will say I’m a bit sensitive still today, but after years of mental health treatment, I bounce back quite quickly thankfully. I do understand how it must look like I’m in need of a section one day, and oddly fine the next but we roll with the waves don’t we? 😂

I just got the liquid blush about a month ago and it’s brill! Using it as a lip stain as well 😂

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allwiredup · 04/06/2024 18:24

OneFrenchEgg · 04/06/2024 17:51

Oh no I feel like I am The Elitist as I was popping on to say I've started only using Charlotte Tilbury 😂
Also relate to OCD and good/bad days and general shite MH which fluctuates.

Woohoo join me in the horrible elitist club!! 😂😂 Idk about you but did you notice your switch to one brand was unintentional? That’s how mine was!

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millennialprobs · 04/06/2024 18:22

Someone call the police, we have a crime to report...😂

NippyCrab · 04/06/2024 18:03

MH is pants, I'm up and down like an Alton Towers roller coaster at times! With meds 😄
Anyway, ELF is brilliant, I have a liquid blush and a powder and love it. I will try the eye crayons now that they've been mentioned above. Xx

OneFrenchEgg · 04/06/2024 17:51

Oh no I feel like I am The Elitist as I was popping on to say I've started only using Charlotte Tilbury 😂
Also relate to OCD and good/bad days and general shite MH which fluctuates.

erinaceus · 04/06/2024 17:31

Come and join us over here?

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/style_and_beauty/5088722-if-you-could-choose-only-one-makeup-brand-which-would-it-be

ELF gets multiple mentions.

BakedTattie · 04/06/2024 17:30

I used to love ELF when it first came out. Everything was £1. Ah the good ol’ days

allwiredup · 04/06/2024 17:29

extrawhite · 04/06/2024 16:58

op i too read your thread yesterday and it was very distressing

I suppose I can understand why. I was not in the best headspace yesterday, very frustrated with my OCD. However I’ve had it for over 20 years now, so I’m used to it. Completely understand though how it seems distressing from the outside looking in

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allwiredup · 04/06/2024 17:28

Claricestarling1 · 04/06/2024 17:18

Im like you OP and I have my “second tier” makeup stash which I use every day in order to stretch out the life of my expensive stuff! Elitist is a bizarre way to describe this..unless Elf is the new Chanel?! It is good!! 😆

Elf is very good but no, it is definitely not the new Chanel!! NYX is a good brand very similar to elf as well I feel but I don’t think I’d describe either as elitist 😂😂😂

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VolvoFan · 04/06/2024 17:24

I've been getting back into makeup after so many years. I keep seeing ELF in my Amazon suggestions. I might give it a look.

Also, any makeup you have that is 6 months old, you might want to toss it out. I never knew how much bacteria lives in makeup, particularly liquid eyeliners. Eye infections? No flippin' thank you.

Grazyna80 · 04/06/2024 17:23

Hmmmm, must try Elf now.

Claricestarling1 · 04/06/2024 17:18

Im like you OP and I have my “second tier” makeup stash which I use every day in order to stretch out the life of my expensive stuff! Elitist is a bizarre way to describe this..unless Elf is the new Chanel?! It is good!! 😆

allwiredup · 04/06/2024 17:07

Back21970 · 04/06/2024 16:55

I don’t think it’s odd at all or having a conversation about it with female friends/colleagues is either.

If you were saying you would only use one brand, for example Chanel, then I would maybe get the elitist comment.

From what I gather you have pared down your daily routine, which sounds good to me 😀

Didn’t see the deleted posts so don’t know where the mental health comments are coming from.

Basically I posted yesterday about how my ocd flares up sometimes and the latest obsession was feeling like certain initials were contaminated, and that my makeup brands were unsanitary because of the initials they started with (it’s mad, I know but such is the way of OCD). I was decluttering my large makeup supply when this triggered, and feeling a bit down, popped on here.

the conversation with my colleagues today actually had nothing to do with it, though I understand how it seems an odd coincidence. I obviously woke up with a clearer head this morning, as is the way with mental illness not being linear, and my changing my makeup routine occurred months ago, so wasn’t anything to do with yesterday’s obsessions.

apparently though a poster thought that quoting my post yesterday back at me was some sort of “gotcha!”. What they were trying to “catch me” for though, I’m not sure. Basically acted as though I was being nefarious or needed a welfare check called??? 😂😂😂

The lovely mods took care of it

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henlake7 · 04/06/2024 17:00

I dont think its elitists....also ELF is damned good!

Also if wearing one brand is so elitist then I am a complete snob....
my entire wardrobe today comes from House of Primark!!😄

extrawhite · 04/06/2024 16:58

allwiredup · 04/06/2024 16:54

Yes 😂😂😂

op i too read your thread yesterday and it was very distressing

Back21970 · 04/06/2024 16:55

I don’t think it’s odd at all or having a conversation about it with female friends/colleagues is either.

If you were saying you would only use one brand, for example Chanel, then I would maybe get the elitist comment.

From what I gather you have pared down your daily routine, which sounds good to me 😀

Didn’t see the deleted posts so don’t know where the mental health comments are coming from.

allwiredup · 04/06/2024 16:54

extrawhite · 04/06/2024 16:47

are you ok OP?

Yes 😂😂😂

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KreedKafer · 04/06/2024 16:52

OnlyFoolsAndHamsters · 04/06/2024 16:27

Your decision to use one brand of makeup isn't boring or odd

But the entire conversation surrounding sounds boring and odd.

Why? Sounds like a really normal conversation to me. Just a general chat about lifestyles and resolutions and stuff. My colleagues and I were talking about similar stuff the other day around saving money and decluttering, prompted by someone complimenting me on my jacket and me saying that I'd got it second-hand because I'm trying to buy less stuff new these days.

OP, your colleague sounds nuts. Apart from anything, what's elitist about using ELF makeup? It's a budget brand. It's not like you'd suddenly announced that you've decided that no makeup product will ever grace your face unless it's Tom Ford!

(Also, not the point I know, but ELF is sooooo good, isn't it? Their eye crayons are honestly better than my Bobbi Brown ones and are about a quarter of the price.)

extrawhite · 04/06/2024 16:47

as in… seriously?

extrawhite · 04/06/2024 16:47

are you ok OP?

allwiredup · 04/06/2024 16:42

OnlyFoolsAndHamsters · 04/06/2024 16:27

Your decision to use one brand of makeup isn't boring or odd

But the entire conversation surrounding sounds boring and odd.

It was tbh, though I should have added these friends are mostly work colleagues (so the term friend is probably too much). It was about 5 mins of just talking about New Year’s resolutions and if we’d kept to them. All I said was that I’d saved loads of money cutting back on makeup & switching to multi use products from one brand. That’s it, that was the whole sentence. The reaction from my colleague seemed a bit out there though.

So yes, a boring conversation, and definitely an odd reaction!!!

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allwiredup · 04/06/2024 16:36

Ok so this lighthearted post has been derailed by someone who apparently doesn’t believe those with mental health issues can have good and bad days 😂😂😂 mods have been contacted because apparently my posting is so egregious

Thanks to everyone who commented though ❤️ Nice to know I’m not odd (although…)

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