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Do you still use cash?

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BitchesBeSniffin · 03/06/2024 20:34

Just had a discussion with my DH about this and am wondering which of us is in the minority in the world of Mumsnet.

YABU: I still use cash and make sure I always have some on me

YANBU: I barely ever / never use cash

OP posts:
Blarneytalk · 05/06/2024 20:33

YourPinkDog · 05/06/2024 20:31

Family run restaurants that only take cash do not charge hundreds for meals. They tend to make specific food related to their cultural background extremely well. If I want an excellent Eritean meal I do not go to the restaurant in town that takes cards, but the small family run restaurant that only takes cash whose food is far superior.

I don't do chain restaurants, I also have never found a restaurant that only takes cash.

YourPinkDog · 05/06/2024 20:31

Family run restaurants that only take cash do not charge hundreds for meals. They tend to make specific food related to their cultural background extremely well. If I want an excellent Eritean meal I do not go to the restaurant in town that takes cards, but the small family run restaurant that only takes cash whose food is far superior.

NewName24 · 05/06/2024 19:52

Jc2001 · 05/06/2024 13:05

Maybe but I've never been to a restaurant that don't take cards and they're not all chains.

In some cases you'd needs hundreds in cash. And you'd have to be checking all the time you have enough cash to cover your meal.

Edited

In some cases you'd needs hundreds in cash

You are aware that most people don't spend "hundreds" for a meal in a restaurant ?

And you'd have to be checking all the time you have enough cash to cover your meal.

Well I would do that anyway. I'd never order food / drink without being aware of what it cost.

PCController2 · 05/06/2024 18:24

I only use cash to tip my hairdresser. I keep some in my phone though, in case card systems fail at a vital moment.

Blarneytalk · 05/06/2024 18:14

maximist · 05/06/2024 16:40

I haven't used cash for years - I only take my phone and watch out with me, no purse, and use Applepay for everything. Much easier, and if I lose my phone it can't be used to pay with, unlike debit/credit cards.

Agreed and I also use my Apple Watch to pay, so even if my phone malfunctioned, I've other options.

maximist · 05/06/2024 16:40

I haven't used cash for years - I only take my phone and watch out with me, no purse, and use Applepay for everything. Much easier, and if I lose my phone it can't be used to pay with, unlike debit/credit cards.

Blarneytalk · 05/06/2024 16:06

@CasperGutman yes I do as well, now I think about it.

YourPinkDog · 05/06/2024 15:32

You can usually only open a free bank account if you regularly pay money in. So most people can not get multiple cards.

YourPinkDog · 05/06/2024 15:31

You do not need much cash in case of network failure. A £20 note will get you through the few hours/half a day if the network goes down. But it is sensible to keep some cash.

CasperGutman · 05/06/2024 15:26

Blarneytalk · 05/06/2024 14:53

I've a number of cards on my phone.

Good point, so have I. The device itself is still a single point of potential failure though, so I'd take at least one physical card if travelling far away from home.

YourPinkDog · 05/06/2024 15:21

@Jc2001 card network did go down in my local high street for an afternoon. Chains could not sell anything. Independents still accepted cash. It meant I could get milk and some salad for tea.

Jc2001 · 05/06/2024 14:54

Beowulfa · 05/06/2024 13:18

What's your backup plan for if your phone is lost, stolen, stops working?

Maybe the nation is split into those who have a Plan B mentality and those who
assume everything will always be ok. I know who I'd rather have in charge.

Are you afraid of a zombie apocalypse or something? There are thousands of things we need to rely on in modern society. And if card network went down, where are you getting your cash from? So unless you're keeping thousands under your bed, just in case, you'll be at the mercy of the flesh eating zombies like the rest of us.

Blarneytalk · 05/06/2024 14:53

CasperGutman · 05/06/2024 14:03

My MIL gives me cash (for gifts, or paying me back if I buy bits and pieces to do DIY for her etc). It just ends up sitting in my wallet, unspent - partly because I usually leave it at home and just pay for things with my phone. I realised recently that I had almost £400 in there, so I finally banked it.

I can't remember the last time I went anywhere that required payment in cash only. I regularly buy from places that only accept card payments, though. I don't have a payment 'back up plan' from day to day. If travelling a long way from home I do make sure I take a few different cards though, in case one bank or payment network has an issue.

Edited

I've a number of cards on my phone.

CasperGutman · 05/06/2024 14:03

My MIL gives me cash (for gifts, or paying me back if I buy bits and pieces to do DIY for her etc). It just ends up sitting in my wallet, unspent - partly because I usually leave it at home and just pay for things with my phone. I realised recently that I had almost £400 in there, so I finally banked it.

I can't remember the last time I went anywhere that required payment in cash only. I regularly buy from places that only accept card payments, though. I don't have a payment 'back up plan' from day to day. If travelling a long way from home I do make sure I take a few different cards though, in case one bank or payment network has an issue.

Blarneytalk · 05/06/2024 13:55

Blarneytalk · 05/06/2024 13:54

@Beowulfa what's your back up plan do you have if you lose your purse?

Or it's stolen

Or jammed shut?

Blarneytalk · 05/06/2024 13:54

@Beowulfa what's your back up plan do you have if you lose your purse?

Blarneytalk · 05/06/2024 13:54

@Beowulfa not got one and at 59 never had a issue!

I suppose if the unlikely event one shop went down I'd go to the next.

No big deal.

Beowulfa · 05/06/2024 13:18

Blarneytalk · 05/06/2024 13:10

Never carry cash and never had an issue where they could only accept cash.

I use my contactless on phone only.

What's your backup plan for if your phone is lost, stolen, stops working?

Maybe the nation is split into those who have a Plan B mentality and those who
assume everything will always be ok. I know who I'd rather have in charge.

OvernightOatsAgain · 05/06/2024 13:14

Yes, definitely. I always have around £50 - 100.00 in cash in the house or on my person and pay often pay cash, especially on market stalls and small shops (lots where I live - middle England market town). That said, I do use a credit card or my phone to pay as needed.

Blarneytalk · 05/06/2024 13:10

Beowulfa · 05/06/2024 12:43

I use cash wherever possible. I have changed my weekly shop to a supermarket that has staffed checkouts and accepts cash. I actively avoid card only places.

I have twice been in situations recently where it was cash only (wifi issues and a local power cut) and couldn't believe the amount of people who didn't have an emergency tenner on them.

Interestingly, a local pub that's been card only since lockdown has a new landlord who now also accepts cash.

I find it alarming how reliant people are on their phones, given we've had high profile cyber attacks this week, and the ongoing Post Office enquiry in which the stubborn insistence that technology couldn't be wrong resulted in massive injustice.

Never carry cash and never had an issue where they could only accept cash.

I use my contactless on phone only.

Jc2001 · 05/06/2024 13:05

YourPinkDog · 04/06/2024 22:42

The best family run restaurants here tend to be cash only. The chains love cards though.

Maybe but I've never been to a restaurant that don't take cards and they're not all chains.

In some cases you'd needs hundreds in cash. And you'd have to be checking all the time you have enough cash to cover your meal.

SOxon · 05/06/2024 13:04

BarcardiWithGadaffia · 05/06/2024 10:49

Where in the country are you, I've never ever seen notes in the street but if you're nearby it might be worth me popping over

On the other hand I've never lost any money when getting it out of my purse so I can't say I'm surprised not to have found any

I have lost a new bouncy fiver bouncing out of my bag on a windy high street
and surely cannot be the only one. The streets here are paved in platinum so
no one bothered.

SamW98 · 05/06/2024 12:45

I never carry cash in the UK and only draw money out if I need it and rarely more than £20

However when Im on holiday I always carry cash so it’s probably a strsnge contradiction. I’ve just always used cash abroad

Beowulfa · 05/06/2024 12:43

I use cash wherever possible. I have changed my weekly shop to a supermarket that has staffed checkouts and accepts cash. I actively avoid card only places.

I have twice been in situations recently where it was cash only (wifi issues and a local power cut) and couldn't believe the amount of people who didn't have an emergency tenner on them.

Interestingly, a local pub that's been card only since lockdown has a new landlord who now also accepts cash.

I find it alarming how reliant people are on their phones, given we've had high profile cyber attacks this week, and the ongoing Post Office enquiry in which the stubborn insistence that technology couldn't be wrong resulted in massive injustice.

Ginkypig · 05/06/2024 12:35

I suppose I mostly use my card but I do also use cash.

i take £50 and put it in my purse for emergencies or if cards crash for the day or for the times I use cash. when it gets down to the last note I top it back up again. Sometimes it gets used quickly but other times it goes down quicker.

off the top of my head I always use cash to do the following.

i tip in restaurants with cash so I know it’s actually going to the person who is coming to the table.
i tip at the door in cash if I get a takeaway on a Saturday night.

I take a taxi a few times a year (if that) that I normally pay in cash

I put money in some of the birthday cards I send to nieces and nephews.

dp very rarely uses cash or carries it which is annoying if he finds himself needing some and I’m with him. although he pays his hairdresser in cash and mostly remembers to take it out the machine or get it out to pay me back if he’s forgotten

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