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To still be really sad and angry about Brexit

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OptimismvsRealism · 03/06/2024 17:27

It really reduced the opportunities in my future and has achieved absolutely nothing of benefit for anyone else (besides disaster capitalists who made a mint off the financial manipulation effect). We haven't even avoided those stupid fecking tethers on the bottle lids!

When the extra immigration checks come in in October it's going to make every holiday a tiny bit upsetting.

And the new government won't even try to fix it.

Don't get me wrong I'm not one of those idealists singing ode to joy before breakfast but on a personal level it bloody sucks and seems likely it always will.

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Lonelycrab · 03/06/2024 19:47

Justcallmebebes · 03/06/2024 19:44

Well if you'd travelled extensively throughout Europe, Greece and Turkey, you'd see prices have rocketed, not just in the UK. Its very xenophobic to think the UK should be protected from all the forces that are affecting the rest of the world

Xenophobic?!? Nonsense. The entire Brexit vote was founded in xenophobia!

Has quality and choice of food plummeted across EU? It has here but only if you’re paying attention.

PennySc · 03/06/2024 19:46

Someone said recently we are all remoaners now. If only Brexit voters had a decency to accept that they were wrong/misled/lied to, instead of saying that the failed Brexit is someone else's fault, our children might stand a chance to see the UK rejoining the EU

Justcallmebebes · 03/06/2024 19:46

So everyone is now leaving the post because they don't like a balanced argument?

Lassi · 03/06/2024 19:45

I think the other point to make @J2os is that I don’t believe Brexit would have happened without the LibDem/Tory austerity policies. You can’t treat poorer communities abominably then except them not to react. Unfortunately nobody seemed to realise that and even worse the communities who did vote Leave are now demonised.

Justcallmebebes · 03/06/2024 19:44

Lonelycrab · 03/06/2024 19:39

Are you completely unaware of the changes in law carried out by this (very brexy) govt to allow sewage dumping and general degradation of our waters?!?!

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/sep/06/uk-safe-water-brexit-tories-environmental-standards-michael-gove

And as to quality food… let’s just say, if you were the EU and you had a close neighbor really quite dependent on their food supply coming from them (we are) and that neighbor had ZERO IMPORT OR QUALITY CONTROL…. Where would you flog all your rotting, substandard food?🤔

Cos I know if I was the EU, I’d send it to that neighbor. Which is why the food in the average local Tesco is now shite.

Slowly boiled frogs don’t notice it’s getting hot, though.

Well if you'd travelled extensively throughout Europe, Greece and Turkey, you'd see prices have rocketed, not just in the UK. Its very xenophobic to think the UK should be protected from all the forces that are affecting the rest of the world

cakecoffeecakecoffee · 03/06/2024 19:43

I’m still upset and angry about Brexit too, I don’t think I’ll ever get over it. I don’t dwell on it daily or anything but whenever the topic crops up I feel furious.

J2os · 03/06/2024 19:43

Actually leaving this now because I can't stand the "rattled a few cages" nonsense. Sneering at people for worrying about the state of their country and its poorest is really shitty behaviour.

wibblywobblywoo · 03/06/2024 19:43

Hesma · 03/06/2024 18:24

Yep! My new European passport arrives at the end of the month. No point in renewing my British one

I've got to know, how do you get a "European" passport if you currently have a British one?

Corinthiana · 03/06/2024 19:42

It's not quite as simple as that. Many on the Left have always been opposed to the EU, (eg Tony Benn, Jeremy Corbyn) and many on the right have been supporters (eg Margaret Thatcher)
It's really not that clear cut left/right.

Lassi · 03/06/2024 19:42

I don’t see anywhere near the same level of anger on here about austerity @J2os

Justcallmebebes · 03/06/2024 19:41

fungipie · 03/06/2024 19:36

Please, surely you must know. For one reason only, because the Referendum was not legally binding, but only advisory. They could not cancel and 'advisory' Referendum as it had no legal, political status.

So why did we leave if it was only "advisory"?

J2os · 03/06/2024 19:39

Lassi · 03/06/2024 19:36

Ok. I can see I have rattled a few cages. this is a genuine question. Seeing as someone has mentioned public services, why don’t you all care about austerity? It has destroyed this country. I would take the Brexit thing more seriously if you also all spoke up against this as well.

Why do you think the people on this thread don't speak up against austerity? Most of us on the left are also Remainers- opposed to both austerity (economically illiterate and ideologically driven) and Brexit (economically illiterate and ideologically driven).

Lonelycrab · 03/06/2024 19:39

Justcallmebebes · 03/06/2024 19:31

That has nothing to do with Brexit. The price of reasonable quality food has rocketed worldwide, not just in the UK. Sewage dumping also has nothing to do with Brexit

Are you completely unaware of the changes in law carried out by this (very brexy) govt to allow sewage dumping and general degradation of our waters?!?!

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/sep/06/uk-safe-water-brexit-tories-environmental-standards-michael-gove

And as to quality food… let’s just say, if you were the EU and you had a close neighbor really quite dependent on their food supply coming from them (we are) and that neighbor had ZERO IMPORT OR QUALITY CONTROL…. Where would you flog all your rotting, substandard food?🤔

Cos I know if I was the EU, I’d send it to that neighbor. Which is why the food in the average local Tesco is now shite.

Slowly boiled frogs don’t notice it’s getting hot, though.

The UK had safe water. Then Brexit allowed the Tories to flush away our environmental standards | Stella Creasy

Michael Gove, who pledged to boost protections, now plans to scrap them. No wonder natural habitats are threatened, says Labour MP Stella Creasy

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/sep/06/uk-safe-water-brexit-tories-environmental-standards-michael-gove

fungipie · 03/06/2024 19:39

Justcallmebebes · 03/06/2024 19:31

That has nothing to do with Brexit. The price of reasonable quality food has rocketed worldwide, not just in the UK. Sewage dumping also has nothing to do with Brexit

Yes, worldwide, but much much worse in the UK BECAUSE of Brexit, and much higher cost of importing food, labour, fertilisers, etc, etc.

And yes, water treatment too, due to massive increase in cost of importing water treatment chemicals, especially with a failing Pound.

Justcallmebebes · 03/06/2024 19:38

Izzy24 · 03/06/2024 19:34

Rude!

I did vote.

I was asking a genuine question which was ‘did the majority of the population vote for Brexit?’

Did the majority of the population vote for Brexit? Maybe not, but the majority of the population who got off their arses and went out to vote did. Does that answer your question, without being rude?

fungipie · 03/06/2024 19:36

Justcallmebebes · 03/06/2024 19:05

So why wasn't it overturned if it was found to be fraudulent? Your post makes no sense

Please, surely you must know. For one reason only, because the Referendum was not legally binding, but only advisory. They could not cancel and 'advisory' Referendum as it had no legal, political status.

Lassi · 03/06/2024 19:36

Ok. I can see I have rattled a few cages. this is a genuine question. Seeing as someone has mentioned public services, why don’t you all care about austerity? It has destroyed this country. I would take the Brexit thing more seriously if you also all spoke up against this as well.

Izzy24 · 03/06/2024 19:34

Justcallmebebes · 03/06/2024 19:21

Well get off your arse and go out and vote. We live in a democracy. We had a free and fair vote. The majority of those who voted, voted leave. What is your problem with that?

Rude!

I did vote.

I was asking a genuine question which was ‘did the majority of the population vote for Brexit?’

Velvian · 03/06/2024 19:33

Yanbu @OptimismvsRealism . It was and remains devastating. David Cameron took the most reckless gamble. Although, I was as shocked as he was at the result.

All those people that didn't vote. 😭The don't really cares and people that thought the status quo was fine so they didn't need to bother, they really shafted us too.

You should always vote to mitigate against the extremists.

Lassi · 03/06/2024 19:33

do you really want to live in an echo chamber @Haggardandhungry Like I said I voted remain but if you think everything that is wrong in the UK is down to Brexit that’s a huge oversimplification. It’s like the daft people who complain about Spain having better tomatoes (well yes, their climate is more suitable) and the sad faces at empty supermarket shelves (maybe the lorry broke down or the driver was ill?)
I can’t stand Farage and hate how this issue has divided the UK. Just look at the poster who thinks it’s ok to mock Sunderland.

Lonelycrab · 03/06/2024 19:31

Lassi · 03/06/2024 19:27

I quite enjoy tofu and avocado. Not everyone who cares about the future of working-class kids in the UK are plebs.

Nice try at deflecting, 6/10, fair effort.

Justcallmebebes · 03/06/2024 19:31

Lonelycrab · 03/06/2024 19:22

I’ll take cover now as all the middle-class mums who hate queuing in certain lines when arriving for their ski trips take aim

Liberal, tofu munching elite with their avocado on toast is it?

Or perhaps just normal people now paying a lot more for reasonable quality food, energy and many more things that don’t particularly like swimming in shit at their local beach…

That has nothing to do with Brexit. The price of reasonable quality food has rocketed worldwide, not just in the UK. Sewage dumping also has nothing to do with Brexit

J2os · 03/06/2024 19:28

Lassi · 03/06/2024 19:23

If you think for one second that the economic landscape in the UK is as simple as that then I cannot help you.

I don't think it's simple at all, but a drop in GDP inevitably means less money for public services.

Maybe make an actual argument rather than just saying things like "if you think X then I cannot help you". There is compelling evidence that Brexit has made the country poorer https://obr.uk/forecasts-in-depth/the-economy-forecast/brexit-analysis/#assumptions.

Brexit analysis - Office for Budget Responsibility

Since the announcement of the EU referendum we have been producing analysis and writing about the potential effects of Brexit on the economy and public finances. We have compiled our assumptions, judgements and analysis on this page.

https://obr.uk/forecasts-in-depth/the-economy-forecast/brexit-analysis#assumptions

Justcallmebebes · 03/06/2024 19:28

Lassi · 03/06/2024 19:24

Swimming in shit is mainly down to greedy utility companies paying huge dividends to their greedy shareholders.

Which is sod all to do with Brexit. So what's your point?

Lassi · 03/06/2024 19:27

StuffCanDoTwoThings · 03/06/2024 19:26

I won’t get over it either. Anyone who voted Brexit should pay for it through a Brexit tax and be cast out to live in Sunderland for the rest of their days

I think this says it all.

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