So to set the scene I have just organised a family holiday for four of us and planned and booked everything to hopefully make it a great holiday. My birthday was due so I planned to come back the day before so the holiday was not about my birthday. I'm not too bothered about expensive gifts or being made a massive fuss of just want to feel appreciated. We got back in early hours of my birthday. We all had a lie in. My partner was offering to go to the shop when we woke up (unusual) and I twigged he hadn't got any cards. I said if he was going shopping for cards on my birthday at 12pm it was a little late and not to bother. Some delivery flowers turned up later (I'm not into flowers which I've told him many times before would rather have a bottle of wine I like). We usually go out for tea or get a takeaway when it is one of our birthdays. There was no suggestion of doing this and the boys went off to cricket training for the night. I was really upset that my partner didn't preplan cards before we all went away (he had plenty of time as doesn't work due to poor health). Am I being unreasonable to be upset? All I wanted was a card and maybe the suggestion of tea out as a treat as im the one that cooks (I would normally pay for tea out so not about the cash)