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The neighbours at my holiday let are giving me the rage.

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thorneyislanddoris · 02/06/2024 14:35

I've recently lost my parents and wanted to get away for some peace and quiet.

I've booked a self catering cottage deliberately chosen because it's right in the countryside. Lovely and quiet.

It's one of two. The neighbours are a group of 4 adults and 4 small kids.

I've been trying to relax in the garden and for the last 5 hours they've been shouting, laughing and being extremely noisy.

It's noisier than my neighbours at home.

AIBU to be irritated?

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testing987654321 · 03/06/2024 23:57

Oh I do hope you enjoy some peaceful days now.

LlynTegid · 03/06/2024 18:59

Glad it is quiet now, I am sure if you book a cottage again you will completely avoid any weekend near a school holiday.

Sorry for your loss.

NeilTayloriscatwit · 03/06/2024 18:54

Sorry for your loss, you know you are bu, I hate other people and have just come back from a holiday where my caravan was plonked in the middle of nowhere not near anyone else, that's the only way to guarantee peace. I have come back to screaming kids and noise cos that's Life in a terraced house,vsame if you go on holiday in a house near other people they will make noise, if it's within reasonable hours not a lot you can do.earphones are good

Ilovecleaning · 03/06/2024 18:16

Some less than sympathetic posts on here. OP has recently lost her parents FFS. It makes me think these people have never lost anybody close and they have no idea how it feels.
Your tolerance levels will be lowered,OP and your sensitivity will be heightened.
I am so terribly sorry for your loss. Do you have headphones so you can listen to peaceful music? Or earplugs?

RickyGervaislovesdogs · 03/06/2024 13:19

I’m sorry for your loss OP.

What about some head phones? Or go for a walk. Not ideal I know but there’s not much you can do about the noise in this case.

mitogoshi · 03/06/2024 13:07

That's good news op.

sprigatito · 03/06/2024 12:18

Oh brilliant, they've gone! Great news.

sprigatito · 03/06/2024 12:12

I'm so sorry about your parents Flowers. It's rotten luck that your quiet getaway is being spoilt, I would be gutted too. You're extra sensitive to the noise because you're grieving and because you specifically wanted peace and quiet. I agree with others that there probably isn't much you can do about it, but you're not unreasonable to be upset. Hopefully they bugger off home soon and you can get a bit of tranquility.

Silvers11 · 03/06/2024 12:05

That's good to see your update @thorneyislanddoris Enjoy the peace and quiet now. Take care

ButterCrackers · 03/06/2024 11:54

thorneyislanddoris · 03/06/2024 11:27

Update

They've gone home!

And holiday cottage owner told me nobody else is coming in this week.

And she apologised that they were so noisy.

Anyway. I can now relax on my own in the peace and quiet

Perfect. Enjoy the peace and quiet.

Original poster
thorneyislanddoris · 03/06/2024 11:27

Update

They've gone home!

And holiday cottage owner told me nobody else is coming in this week.

And she apologised that they were so noisy.

Anyway. I can now relax on my own in the peace and quiet

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MarkWithaC · 03/06/2024 09:26

ButterCrackers · 02/06/2024 18:25

There might be no noise from 10pm to 7am in the cottage holiday conditions. Nothing wrong with asking the family if they’re going out for the day so that you don’t go out on the same day. Instead you can enjoy the quiet and go out at another time.

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It's daytime noise that's bothering the OP, not night-time.

PorridgeEater · 03/06/2024 01:28

Sorry OP but they are not to know you are feeling fragile are they? And it's not their fault. Can you find somewhere nearbye that is quieter?

ManchesterLu · 02/06/2024 23:17

Sorry for your loss. In the future you'd be better booking a hotel room/B&B as it's less likely that guests will want to be there during the day, so you can have the space and peace you need, and get out and about whenever you want to.

LightandAiry · 02/06/2024 23:11

No empathy from some posters on here....

LightandAiry · 02/06/2024 23:08

I'm sorry for your loss. I've lost my parents too, I completely understand 💐

I don't have anything to add to the replies here, it's usual for me to feel irritated by less than this!

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 02/06/2024 23:00

Our school has 2 weeks off for this half term, as does one of the schools my neighbour's children go to.

other schools around here, including the most local have 2 weeks off for the Oct half term

Flatulence · 02/06/2024 22:58

Sorry, bur you're being extremely unreasonable.

So long as the noise isn't super early/late and isn't them screaming blue murder at each other then they've every right to enjoy their holiday by laughing, playing, chatting etc. in the garden.

If you wanted silence then unfortunately you do need to book somewhere more isolated or somewhere not next to another holiday let.

parttimeweddingplanner · 02/06/2024 22:57

I'm sorry for your loss. I hope they leave soon.

JohnSt1 · 02/06/2024 22:53

You are not being unreasonable.

You haven't confronted them and demanded they be quiet. That would be unreasonable. You're not unreasonable to feel the way you feel.

Kickstartplease · 02/06/2024 22:37

Sorry for your loss, but I hate to break it to you but it's still half term for primary children for another week depending on where in the country they have come from

landofgiants · 02/06/2024 20:47

I’m at home, but the holiday let neighbours are also giving me the rage. 😤

(For context, I’m in a popular holiday area but not in a village that I would not consider ‘touristy’. There are 3 houses on my estate:- ours, a second home and what is now a holiday rental.)

I didn’t realise that children could be that noisy, or for that long!!! It’s winding my pets up too! I know that I’m being somewhat unreasonable, but still. The problem with living next to a holiday let, is that it is one slightly annoying event after another. Grrrr.

JaneAustensHeroine · 02/06/2024 20:37

I can empathise OP. So sorry for your loss and understand all too well the peace you crave. 💐

Silvers11 · 02/06/2024 20:30

@thorneyislanddoris YANBU to be irritated when you wanted peace and quite and I am so sorry about your loss. I don't know why so many people are saying YABU to you being irritated. It would irritate a lot of people

You Would be Unreasonable if you said anything to them, because they are on their holidays, but you know that and haven't said you intend to do anything about it. Unfortunately, that is always the risk when booking holiday accommodation near other holiday accommodation

goneaway2 · 02/06/2024 20:15

My youngest has an inset day tomorrow, it might be the same for them.

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