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Friend not invited

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HumphreyCushionintheHouse · 02/06/2024 01:28

I’m having a big gathering tomorrow at my house, for my daughters sports team and all their parents.

DD was just invited to one of the team mates bday party next weekend. After receiving the invite, we also got a message saying “I hope none of the bday invitees talk about the invite tomorrow, because Renee hasn’t been invited’. Renee is one of the team mates and a good friend of my daughter.

Do you think the bday parent is hoping I tell my daughter to keep the party a secret? I’m not very comfortable about handling it like this and would hate to tell my DD to lie. Maybe tell her to not mention it,but also not lie. Ugh.

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HumphreyCushionintheHouse · 02/06/2024 01:30

Don’t know how to word the AIBU.

Maybe
YABU to fuss about a little white lie
YANBU to tell ask DD to not mention it, but also not lie about it.

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