I'm not sure where to start here considering it's not about me but my H... so he has a group of friends, whose wives have become my friends.
But it seems that the men have formed a WhatsApp group with everyone one else except him. He has known about this with a little whilr but recently it's become more prominent for example plans have been made a couple of weeks in advance and my DH only finds out a day or two.
Tonight, it came to a head where 3-4 of them were going out but the details were discussed in this other group and he just had to roll with it.
My heart is breaking for him because he's good to every one of them and is being deliberately isolated. He broke down to me this evening but still went out, which I think he needed to do. But it feels like playground mind games even though we're in our 40s!
I really want to bring it up with the women, even though I know it's not my circus but I've just reached the point where I cant do nothing.
I'd appreciate any advise on how to deal with grown adults! Thanks all x