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If state grammar schools were for only state educated children…

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Rosaluxemberg · 01/06/2024 23:54

Do you think it would help social mobility ? And that children on FSM or from very disadvantaged backgrounds who showed academic promise could gain entry with contextual 11 plus marks (like Unis).
To me the fact that privately educated children can benefit from 7 years of great education, with small classes, lots of attention, and to cap it all, preparation towards the 11 plus just seems so unfair and defeats the whole objective of it. Maybe there’d be more mixing of kids as middle class parents had to decide which path to take.
Who knows ? Any thoughts ?

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SabrinaThwaite · 02/06/2024 10:13

Naran · 02/06/2024 10:06

Yes, sure they tried to do something about a barrier to socioeconomic mobility. But what actually happened when they did it was that overall, education started on its path deep down the shitter.

Other opinions are available.

Naran · 02/06/2024 10:11

Vinorosso74 · 02/06/2024 10:04

I think grammars/selective schools should be consigned to the past. Others have mentioned this but properly funded comprehensives with appropriate support for kids of all abilities within them.

Yes.
But you must see that this is idealistic and not realistic.

Scarletttulips · 02/06/2024 10:11

It will never be a level playing field for all children, as wealthier parents would still be able to pay for tutors etc.

Bad schools don’t get better with brighter children, you just move kids down stream.

sparklychair · 02/06/2024 10:09

Vinorosso74 · 02/06/2024 10:04

I think grammars/selective schools should be consigned to the past. Others have mentioned this but properly funded comprehensives with appropriate support for kids of all abilities within them.

But surely comprehensives are still selective since the children are in streams, just all on one campus instead of separate ones?

ExasperatedManager · 02/06/2024 10:09

I would prefer to just get rid of grammar schools altogether, personally.

It will never be a level playing field for all children, as wealthier parents would still be able to pay for tutors etc.

I would make all state schools comprehensive. I would get rid of state-funded faith schools as well.

Menomeno · 02/06/2024 10:07

I went to our local Grammar and I was the only child in my class on FSM in an area where 1/3 of all pupils qualify. It was almost exclusively middle-class kids who had been tutored through the 11+. I didn’t know anyone who’d attended a private primary, they were all from local state primaries. What really struck me was the amount of pupils that really struggled. I had friends who had “failed” the 11+ who were hands down more academic than many of the tutored kids who passed. It’s a grossly unfair system.

Naran · 02/06/2024 10:06

SabrinaThwaite · 02/06/2024 10:04

Labour abolished it [grammar system], probably the biggest blow to education ever struck in this country in the 60s.

You mean Labour considered the evidence that the grammar system was a barrier to socioeconomic mobility and did (or at least tried to do) something about it?

Yes, sure they tried to do something about a barrier to socioeconomic mobility. But what actually happened when they did it was that overall, education started on its path deep down the shitter.

Vinorosso74 · 02/06/2024 10:04

I think grammars/selective schools should be consigned to the past. Others have mentioned this but properly funded comprehensives with appropriate support for kids of all abilities within them.

SabrinaThwaite · 02/06/2024 10:04

Naran · 02/06/2024 09:56

We used to have the grammar/secondary modern system. It worked well. Once in it, a move was possible. One of my parents moved secondary modern to grammar. Labour abolished it, probably the biggest blow to education ever struck in this country in the 60s. It was when the rot set in.

in the 90s, labour struck another blow to poor kids who had free places in private - abolished assisted places. My dh was an assisted place kid.

private schools are sort of a grammar replacement in many areas - so now labour are bashing these as well.

seems whatever education system we have, labour try to rip the top down, rather than pulling the bottom up.

and the irony is that Starmer was at a grammar that turned private. He’s been educated in both the sectors that labour either destroyed or want to destroy.

Labour abolished it [grammar system], probably the biggest blow to education ever struck in this country in the 60s.

You mean Labour considered the evidence that the grammar system was a barrier to socioeconomic mobility and did (or at least tried to do) something about it?

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 02/06/2024 10:03

I feel like whatever we did somebody would be complaining.

If we did the vocational skills secondary thing, the government would be accused of limiting working class children and funnelling them off into less academic routes so their own middle class DC don’t have extra competition or whatever

Naran · 02/06/2024 10:01

Againname · 02/06/2024 09:14

I know several parents who use state comprehensives (not grammars) but also pay for private tutoring. It's not something specific to grammars.

Also sometimes family finances change, after a divorce or redundancy or something else. The parents don't always have the option to stay with private schooling and I can understand why, if there's a local grammar and it's the most suitable school for the child, the parents move them there.

I don't know if things have changed but I have a couple of friends who went to grammars when they were kids. None went to private primaries. It was some time ago though so perhaps less common now?

I realise this is perhaps an unpopular opinion but I would support an expansion of grammar schools but with changes from how it used to be. In the past not passing the 11+ was seen as a 'failure' and secondary moderns were looked down on. That was the problem imo.

I'd like something similar to the German system. Equally valued secondary options but aimed at providing an education matched to each child's different abilities and skills. They have academic secondaries, but also vocational ones that are seen as an apprenticeship in craft or industrial trades. As long as each option is valued equally (because vocational skills and training are as important as academic ones) I think it's a good system to model on.

We had it and labour destroyed it in the 60s.

grammar/secondary modern system

so long dead that people don’t remember it.

S0livagant · 02/06/2024 10:00

StormingNorman · 02/06/2024 00:38

Grammar schools giving contextual offers would be disastrous for those children. The teaching moves at a faster pace and the children who don’t have the capacity quickly fall behind and struggle. Even those who get in on appeal after narrowly missing the 11+ are more likely to end up struggling, with mental health issues, absenteeism and being terrified to go into their classrooms. I saw it all the time working in a grammar school.

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Children are already ranked based on their birth month though aren't they? Even though the August born children will be in the same classes as the September born children. I don't see how it would hurt to similarly adjust scores by comparing private school children to other private school children?

Naran · 02/06/2024 09:58

Mellville · 02/06/2024 09:52

Any school which receives state funding should be available to everyone. I cant believe we still have selective grammar schools and faith schools when in many areas the most deprived children only have the option of a failing high school.

Even that won’t be enough. How will you stop the house price rises in the tight catchments of fabulous state schools? some are already private by house price.

Naran · 02/06/2024 09:56

Againname · 02/06/2024 09:41

Here's some information on the German system (note there's the option for 'late bloomer' academic kids to move from a vocational school to an academic one at a later stage

(The one failing with the German system is perhaps it's SEN provision. Although it depends on what people consider is best for them. Germany has specific schools for children with SEN. That might be seen as good, if they're better tailored to cater for needs. The downside though is, as the link says, disabled children are less integrated.)

https://www.simplegermany.com/german-school-system/

We used to have the grammar/secondary modern system. It worked well. Once in it, a move was possible. One of my parents moved secondary modern to grammar. Labour abolished it, probably the biggest blow to education ever struck in this country in the 60s. It was when the rot set in.

in the 90s, labour struck another blow to poor kids who had free places in private - abolished assisted places. My dh was an assisted place kid.

private schools are sort of a grammar replacement in many areas - so now labour are bashing these as well.

seems whatever education system we have, labour try to rip the top down, rather than pulling the bottom up.

and the irony is that Starmer was at a grammar that turned private. He’s been educated in both the sectors that labour either destroyed or want to destroy.

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 02/06/2024 09:55

YANBU it totally defeats the point of grammars. I went to one and at least half the kids either came from private or could’ve easily afforded it. It’s sort of unenforceable though

dottiedodah · 02/06/2024 09:54

My Son (always bright and good at Maths) failed the 11 plus.He went to our local all boys Secondary.He passed all his GCSEs and A levels .Now has a Masters in on Physics from a RG uni! As his teacher said at the time ,its just how they perform on the day! Not an indication of future ability.One of his friends who went to the same school is now a Doctor,another on FSM a teacher !

Mellville · 02/06/2024 09:52

Any school which receives state funding should be available to everyone. I cant believe we still have selective grammar schools and faith schools when in many areas the most deprived children only have the option of a failing high school.

Naran · 02/06/2024 09:49

I think parents would just tutor if they couldn’t use the private prep school - so it wouldn’t make much difference in terms of social mobility. Even if tutoring was banned/taxed, parents could help kids themselves. There is no way of removing the leg up that having an educated, involved, nurturing and dedicated parent gets you. My ds knows 2 kids with Oxbridge places. #1 - both parents have a degree in the subject, #2 - one parent has a degree in the subject and the other teachers the subject as well.

Besides, I am not sure we should be removing/disincentivising people doing well - very regressive. Yes to more opportunities to those at the bottom, but no to ripping destroying people at the top.

labour abolished the grammar/secondary modern system in the 60s. I don’t understand why any grammars are still about. I don’t live in a grammar area so know nothing about them.

for the person saying this is a small % of kids moving private - grammar, well yes it is, but they’ll be concentrated in particular areas so it makes a difference presumably in those places.

really though, if labour are true to their principles, they should immediately stop all grammars, faith schools and privates. And they should randomise admissions to leafy state schools so that you can’t house price your way in. But this would piss off too many people. And the bottom line is votes.

Spendonsend · 02/06/2024 09:46

I dont live in a grammar school area and they seem absurd to me to be honest.

But I dont think it would help social mobility to ban private school pupils transferring. I think parents would pay for tutoring and prepare their chikdren in other ways.

Againname · 02/06/2024 09:41

Here's some information on the German system (note there's the option for 'late bloomer' academic kids to move from a vocational school to an academic one at a later stage

(The one failing with the German system is perhaps it's SEN provision. Although it depends on what people consider is best for them. Germany has specific schools for children with SEN. That might be seen as good, if they're better tailored to cater for needs. The downside though is, as the link says, disabled children are less integrated.)

https://www.simplegermany.com/german-school-system/

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An Introduction To The German School System

The German school system is very complex and might seem complicated. We explain its structure and the possibilities for students in Germany.

https://www.simplegermany.com/german-school-system

ichundich · 02/06/2024 09:38

Grammar schools create an unfair advantage themselves. They cream off the most academic students and are full of kids from well-to-do families who can spend ÂŁÂŁÂŁÂŁ on private tutors from year 2 and houses in grammar school areas. But it's been at least 1 day since the last private school bashing thread so why not start another one!

mathsAIoptions · 02/06/2024 09:37

I think grammar schools should be means tested.
It has become a free private school experience so rich parents feel morally and socially better about the fact they "aren't privileged" when they clearly are just saving a fortune at the tax payer's expense to spend on increased luxury.

As it is your kid is penalised for SEN, even mild dyslexia, from these places. It is not therefore a level playing field for social mobility in the slightest. Far fewer FSM in the grammars here than get full bursaries at the indies.

Keepthosenamesgoing · 02/06/2024 09:37

That's going to chime really well with the VAT issue haha

Againname · 02/06/2024 09:34

I take issue with the suggestion that being academically able is 'the best'. That's imo one of the reasons why, in the UK but not Germany, the grammar system went wrong and why it was largely abandoned. Germany recognises vocational abilities and education are just as important and valuable as academic ability and education. It's not a failure to be less academic.

ArseholeCatIsABlackAndWhiteCat · 02/06/2024 09:31

UnimaginableWindBird · 02/06/2024 09:28

I'd get rid of the Grammar system and look at funding schools, pupils premium, bring back Sure Start or a similar scheme and look at general social inequality so that children could go to to school warm, fed, housed, clean, with access to healthcare, special needs met, minimal caring/earning responsibilities and with parenting support for families that need it. And teachers can focus on education, and encouraging achievement as development and not have to try to combine that with patching up a broken system.

Why not both?