My husband and I argue all the time.
My husband is very picky & particular and everything has to be done a certain way. I am the opposite and I’m not particular at all, but I will try and do things as he likes them, but there is always something.
The main issue is that He will literally fly off the handle if things are done in the ‘wrong’ way.
One thing he is mad about is not using metal implements in non stick pans. fair enough, I don’t do this.
He made dinner tonight, and when I went int the kitchen I saw he was using a metal spoon to spoon the food out of the pan. I thought this was really hypocritical, as it’s the sort of thing he has shouted at me for in the past, so I couldn’t resist saying ‘you shouldn’t be using that spoon in there.’
He went mad, swore at me a bunch of times, said it was ok for him to use it but not me because I’m stupid and clumsy. When I stood up for my point he threatened to throw the food at me, swore some more and stormed out of the room. My 10 ye old son was witness to all of this and was upset.
I went to speak to him later and he’s fuming as he sees me as being ungrateful and a nag as he cooked dinner. Another argument escalated and he ended up storming out of the house.
I feel like it’s so over the top. I understand he found my comment annoying but I feel the swearing and storming out is ridiculous & it’s like he has anger problems.
who is being unreasonable??