Yesterday my partner sent a video of baby crying to get some advice from his mother whilst I was napping. For context our baby just had his 8 week.jabs day prior, has reflux and is very windy.
His mum said he might have hydrophalus and then we need to see a gp ASAP as he is in pain.
I've been woken to my partner xoming in saying we need to see a gp because baby is crying really badly and his mum say its might be fluid on the brain.
I'm completely baffled and said we'll have you winded him etc.
For context I have really bad anxiety and have mentioned it to HV when they came about how I'm worried about things being wrong with baby so this resllly isn't helpful or nice to have pushed on you from someone who's seen the baby once and seen a 30 second video.
I mentioned it to her that it's not helpful and she's caused me even more anxiety now by saying he has this disease. Anyway its caused huge argument now between all of us because of this. She's also not sorry for mentioning it even though its caused my anxiety to come back worse. She also messaged me saying my baby is in pain so I need to go to gp. Any ops?