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What do normal sized people eat?

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phonetedt · 01/06/2024 16:23

Posting for traffic and I'm being deadly serious.

Always had issues with food (abusive childhood and neglect started it I think)

I'm on a weight loss journey, doing well.

What do people normally eat? Those who are average sized and not gaining weight?

I feel like my portion sizes are insanely large but I also don't know what people would eat for lunch and stuff? I feel like porridge, sandwich, crisps, fruit and then tea (dinner) would be a lot of calories for me.

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Justleaveitblankthen · 01/06/2024 21:47

A handful of nuts this morning (Pecans, Almonds, Walnuts & Brazils) then, just realised.. A massive Mumsnet salad for me' Tea 🥗😂
Added king size prawns, eggs & Mozarella.

This evening watching Netflix, a large box of strawberries, 2 clementines and a glass of ice cold filtered milk 🥛😋

Jojobees · 01/06/2024 21:43

I have a bmi of 23, wear a size 10 so pretty average sized I’d say.
weekdays I eat breakfast usually toast with either jam or marmalade or a croissant with jam.
lunches are varied from omelettes, salads sandwiches or jackets
standard family dinners, chicken fish pasta curries stir fries bbq etc
I have a sugar in my coffee and milk.
I drink water, and occasionally a fizzy drink,
I am active but I don’t go to the gym or do any sort of organised exercise.
I would say it has to be genetic as a work colleague eats similar to me and is very overweight

mumzof4x · 01/06/2024 21:36

Eggs or high protein homemade soup for brunch around 12-2
At least 4 big mugs of tea before with semi
Dinner usually chicken or fish with green veg or rice
Usually have pre dinner nibbles .... homemade dio or hummus with veg to dip
Red wine
Maybe cheese and port if a weekend

CharlotteBog · 01/06/2024 21:21

JacketPotatoFoodOfTheGods · 01/06/2024 21:07

This is like my diet & I'm 3 st overweight.

It's so frustrating.

Which is why there is SO much more to our size, weight, and what our bodies need.
You have to look at height, build, exercise and general daily movement, sleep, hormones, weight history, underlying medical conditions.

Lilmaubetden · 01/06/2024 21:13

Breakfast - nothing
Lunch - nothing
Snacks - nothing
Dinner - 100g of sweet potato fries, 4 onion rings, one brioche roll with some M&S spicy pineapple chutney and two mini chicken fillets in it, with about 10 slices of cucumber and a tomato. Then because I’ve been good, I have a M&S chocolate tiffin or a pineapple tart for dessert.

JacketPotatoFoodOfTheGods · 01/06/2024 21:07

Girloutdoors · 01/06/2024 16:30

I'm probably a very average weight. BMI of around 21.

I eat porridge 40grams with semi skimmed milk topped with berries. The plain porridge oats not the syrup sachets.

Lunch - a bread roll with chicken/salmon/cheese/egg and salad and a yoghurt

Dinner - something like chicken breast with rice and veg, a baked potato with cheese and beans, a homemade curry, a roast dinner. I don't have big portions.

Greek yoghurt with berries and nuts for dessert

Don't really snack but if I do it's a handful of nuts, a slice of toast, some fruit and Greek yoghurt.

This is like my diet & I'm 3 st overweight.

It's so frustrating.

RM2013 · 01/06/2024 20:56

I have a BMI of 25 so I’m fairly average. I do have a difficult relationship with food and I can binge and overeat easily if I don’t rein myself in.
on a typical day I’d eat

breakfast - overnight oats (made with plain oats, Greek yoghurt, raspberries and a splash of honey

lunch - chicken, ham or tuna salad with some fruit or soup and fruit. Occasionally I have a roll but try to limit how much bread I eat

dinner varied but try and eat fairly healthy

try not to snack on crisps, chocolate and biscuits as this is my downfall

weekends I usually relax my eating

I track my food on MyFitnessPal as it helps me see when I’m not eating enough or too much

CharlotteBog · 01/06/2024 20:55

GingerPirate · 01/06/2024 20:53

Eh?
This is what I have to do, to remain "normal" size at 45, while managing an underactive thyroid.
Obviously everyone is different.
Oh, and no booze after 40. 😁

You said "Very little of everything they want." so I thought you were talking about how everyone who is a healthy weight eats.

You have now explained you were talking about yourself.

GingerPirate · 01/06/2024 20:53

CharlotteBog · 01/06/2024 20:45

Hasn't this thread shown you that this is far from the truth?

Eh?
This is what I have to do, to remain "normal" size at 45, while managing an underactive thyroid.
Obviously everyone is different.
Oh, and no booze after 40. 😁

Anotherparkingthread · 01/06/2024 20:51

I actually enjoy all vegetables so I eat at least 5 a day every day.

I don't eat any fruit or any sweet food really bar the occasional dessert but even then it's rare and minimal. I have been known to split a slice of care with my other half as I won't finish a full one. I don't really like sweet things. I don't put sugar in tea of coffee either or drink any sweet or fruit flavoured drinks. I drink black coffee and herbal tea mostly so I don't tend to drink my calories.

I skip breakfast every day because I'm not hungry when I wake up and if I eat in the morning I feel hungry and kind of rotten all day.

I sometimes just have vegetables in miso broth for dinner, a few nights a week. Maybe with a couple of eggs. I like soups and other light foods.

On other days I'll eat whatever I want eg vegan burger and chips or pizza. I don't have to worry about portion size really as I measure my calories over a week not a day so I've pretty much always got some spare. I find fibre keeps me full for longer than protein so I tend to eat a high fibre diet.

I exercise a lot. Do yoga a lot (advanced yoga). I walk everywhere I don't drive to the shop, I walk because I like it even if the weather is rough. No excuses. I walk my dog. I run sometimes.

LindorDoubleChoc · 01/06/2024 20:50

YABU

BakedTattie · 01/06/2024 20:49

I’m so glad I’m not some of the people on here 😂

MoonBuggyBugBug · 01/06/2024 20:47

I haven’t eaten dinner for the last year. It has been the best I can’t believe the energy I have even with a toddler. I have a good appetite for breakfast and lunch and load up then.

CharlotteBog · 01/06/2024 20:45

GingerPirate · 01/06/2024 20:37

Very little of everything they want.
Very little.
Physical exercise.

Hasn't this thread shown you that this is far from the truth?

Toodleoodleooh · 01/06/2024 20:41

No breakfast ever

salad with chicken falafel or tuna for lunch

proper dinner eg spag bol, chili, risotto

snacks - raw veg or a couple of rich tea fingers / a less than 100 cal snack

crisps on a Friday and Saturday evening

size 10 and age 50

LondonFox · 01/06/2024 20:41

BMI 20-21
No breakfast
Seandwich or soup for lunch
Normal dinner (burger, chicken with salad, pizza, pasta, meat and side etc.)
I drink beer quite a lot tho but no juices etc.
I am tall so always look slimmer than I am.

GingerPirate · 01/06/2024 20:37

Very little of everything they want.
Very little.
Physical exercise.

Franticbutterfly · 01/06/2024 20:33

Not very much as far as I can tell. I've lost 70lb in the last year. To keep it off I don't eat an awful lot, and slim friends have since confided in me that to stay slim they have to be obsessed with what they eat.

OneTC · 01/06/2024 20:28

The small steak plan went out the window and I had:
Soup
Macaroni cheese
Muffin

Because someone offered to make me dinner 😎

I ate it but it was too early so I might have the steak later but probably no sides

S0livagant · 01/06/2024 20:27

NoSquirrels · 01/06/2024 19:46

You don’t have a takeaway much at all. That’s the answer. Maybe once every couple of months? And eat smaller portions of it.

Same, it's expensive. We would normally get an Indian takeaway and I would have a madras or similar with half a rice, half a naan, and an onion bhaji.

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 01/06/2024 20:23

I think it's how much you eat, not what you eat

How can that possibly be true though? 500g of steamed vegetables has a vastly different calorie content to 500g of chips, but they are both the same amount of food!

DazedNotConfused1 · 01/06/2024 20:21

50kg 7st12 5’6”
I start the day with a coffee with milk, often with one sugar.

I either then skip breakfast until lunch or have a bowl of cheerios or similar with skimmed milk or a milkshake with a scope of protein again made with skimmed milk.

Lunch will either be the cereal I didn’t eat at breakfast or be snack of fruit with a brioche or something similar. Maybe a bagel with butter or a croissant or two if I’m hungry.

Dinner is whatever I want, ie curry, fajitas, pizza etc Followed by a big dessert!

I take a lot of vitamins to make up for shortcomings in my diet.

Chocolateorange22 · 01/06/2024 20:13

Depends how much you exercise.

I walk several times a day, run 3 times a week, lift weights twice a week. I live a vegetarian lifestyle and am a size 10 but I do have large portions. I somehow appear to burn it off I think I will have to cut those portions down as I get older and everything slows down.

BobbyBiscuits · 01/06/2024 20:09

Everyone requires a different amount of energy to maintain weight. The bigger you are the more you need.
I'm underweight and to gain weight at a pound or something a week I need to eat about 2000 cals per day. To maintain it's about 1500.

I tend to eat 2 meals a day, usually one big and one medium. With about 500 on snacks.

Today I had 1 piece of brown toast with pb,
2 teas with milk and 2 sugars
2 glasses white wine
1 galaxy ripple bar

Gonna have leftover Thai spicy chicken and spinach curry, and nasi goreng for dinner with lettuce, spring onions and cucumber.

I'd say portion wise I usually would only be able to eat half a restaurant portion for example.

I didn't have one today but often will have a can of full sugar cherry coke. 😄

Patcherdog · 01/06/2024 20:06

Breakfast: 2 weetabix with semi skimmed milk
Lunch: ham or cheese on wholemeal roll, packet of crisps, tangerine
Tea: various meals example tonight gammon with pineapple, peas, grilled tomato a fried egg and a small portion of oven chips.
Drink tea during the day and have a diet coke with my tea.
I don't put on weight and my bmi is low twenties.

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