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To spend £4k on this?

88 replies

setitup · 01/06/2024 15:51

For background I’m 28 and on £40k. My bills are quite high (I have my own house) and I don’t have savings. I’d be able to afford this using 0% finance over 24 months. The deposit is £750 and monthly repayments around £130.

I went for an Invisalign consultation, the cost will be £4k and will require a fixed wire retainer (a permanent metal wire on the inside side of both my arches).

The result from Invisalign will be slight, it’s more widening my arches which is why the fixed retainer is needed, but my teeth are already quite straight so it won’t overall be noticeable. I do think I’d like the end result.

Aibu to go for this? I’m not super keen on the fixed wire retainer but it’s also a treatment I’ve wanted to do for ages

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fieldsofbutterflies · 01/06/2024 20:09

I agree with everyone saying to save up for it first then see how you feel about it.

You don't sound very sure about it, I have to say!

EBearhug · 01/06/2024 20:06

Sablecat · 01/06/2024 19:57

Reading some posts on this thread I understand why so many British people have such awful teeth. Yes, I'd absolutely get it done though I'd save for it first. Self confidence is not a substitute for good dentistry and there is nothing wrong with wanting to have a nice smile.

Most people aren't saying don't have it done, though - most people are saying prioritise saving first, rather than getting it on finance when tou've no money for anything else going wrong.

Some are saying sort out your self esteem, though. Only the OP can say whether her self esteem is the real issue.

A colleague had his teeth done in his 50s - not sure if it was Invisalign, nor exactly what the issue was, but it was meant to help with reducing gum problems and tooth lost as he gets older, so it wasn't just about cosmetics.

LongSinceGotUpAndGone · 01/06/2024 20:03

Thelnebriati · 01/06/2024 15:56

Save the money for 24 months instead of using finance, then see how you feel about spending it.

Yes - you don't sound very enthusiastic in your OP. It doesn't sound worth landing yourself into debt for.

Sablecat · 01/06/2024 19:57

Reading some posts on this thread I understand why so many British people have such awful teeth. Yes, I'd absolutely get it done though I'd save for it first. Self confidence is not a substitute for good dentistry and there is nothing wrong with wanting to have a nice smile.

OttersAreMySpiritAnimal · 01/06/2024 19:44

I've saved up for mine, to fix wonky teeth that no-one notices except me. It's not purely cosmetic, it will correct my bite and make cleaning easier. But I won't be going for Invisalign, I'll be opting for fixed braces with clear wires. It's slightly cheaper and I've heard that people can find they create a lot more saliva with Invisalign. I already wear a shield at night to help with grinding and that is the case.

PiggieWig · 01/06/2024 19:32

I’d save up and if you still want it when you’ve got £6k in the bank, go for it. You might find you feel differently when it’s real money, or you might feel more motivated to get it done.
It’s not an urgent decision you need to rush.

pinkspeakers · 01/06/2024 19:27

You say yourself that the results would be slight, so I don't understand why you would want to pay £4k for this when you clearly don't have money to burn.

Comingupriver · 01/06/2024 19:24

Do it. You’ll never regret investing in your teeth. The sooner you do it the more value it is.

xyz111 · 01/06/2024 19:23

I've just finished paying off mine. If your teeth are something you're concerned about and you can afford it, then go for it!

FastFood · 01/06/2024 19:18

Save the money first OP.
And reassess once you have the funds.

Mischance · 01/06/2024 18:58

Maybe spend the money on some counselling to address your lack of confidence. If your teeth are not at all bad but you still feel the need to spend a lot of money on something that you admit will make little difference then maybe you need to be asking yourself why.

Sue152 · 01/06/2024 18:54

I think you're completely mad. The obsession with absolute perfection is so depressing.

Overtheatlantic · 01/06/2024 18:50

I have the same problem OP. Perhaps wait a year and save as much as you can? I do understand how it can negatively impact your self esteem though.

N4ish · 01/06/2024 18:48

It’s such a lot of money to spend on something purely cosmetic that absolutely nobody else will notice. Is there nothing else you would prefer to spend it on that would bring you more joy? Holidays, getting work done on your house, treating family or friends to something nice?

GhostSpider68 · 01/06/2024 18:47

Depends how much this bothers you. I had fixed braces as a kid, didn’t continue the retainer and they went back slightly. No one else really noticed but I did and it bothered me. So a few years back I paid about the same for fixed clear braces. It was only about 8 months, and for me it was well worth the money because it bothered me. They are still straight thanks to the fixed retainers.

again no one else noticed, but I do in every single photo.

Bigcat25 · 01/06/2024 18:47

I would save up an emergency fund, then save for this purchase.

Firsttimemum2023 · 01/06/2024 18:41

I find that a good way to consider the value of something is to imagine you can have the outcome, or the money. I.e if you could have the teeth you’d end up with, or 4k to put in the bank (as if it was coming from somewhere else) which would you pick?
seems an awful lot of money to me if the results won’t be significant.

costahotchocolatesaremyweakness · 01/06/2024 18:29

I had extensive dental work, at 3x your cost. I can say that the only one who will notice is you. No one noticed my fixed teeth (they weren’t outwardly awful before, but had a lot of issues that people couldn’t easily see). I feel 100% better, I smile in photos, it makes a huge difference to me. I consider it money well spent. Do it, but only if you don’t care if others don’t notice/comment.

Graciiee · 01/06/2024 17:01

With barely any change and no savings then no I wouldn't consider this. I'd get myself some savings first.

BobbyBiscuits · 01/06/2024 16:13

If you don't think your teeth are wonky or unsightly, and you have no actual dental need for it, then I'd say it's a lot for a very minor improvement.
But if you lack confidence in your teeths appearance or have difficulty chewing/ cleaning etc then I guess it's worth it.
I needed 4k worth of dentistry (non cosmetic) last year, I was terrified but I'm so pleased I went through with it. My teeth are much healthier and look better. But I had severe damage, decay etc.

Zonder · 01/06/2024 16:11

Wait a year, see if you can save the full amount in that year and focus on things to build your self esteem. Then you might decide you don't even need it after all.

CloudDog · 01/06/2024 16:10

I’ve had Invisalign and got good results.

But with no savings, when your teeth sound fine already, I wouldn’t.

DontCheetoTheCheetah · 01/06/2024 16:08

God this society's obsession with cgi perfection is exhausting

setitup · 01/06/2024 16:05

Fair enough, it’s a bit of a unique situation; my teeth don’t show that much when I smile as my top lip covers them a bit, so this treatment would be to widen my smile and lengthen my teeth so they are more visible. At the moment I’m not confident at all, I never smile etc. the treatment won’t completely fix my problem but it will be an improvement. Plus afterwards I could get teeth bonding which would get me where I’d like to be (not included in cost)

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