Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To spend £4k on this?

88 replies

setitup · 01/06/2024 15:51

For background I’m 28 and on £40k. My bills are quite high (I have my own house) and I don’t have savings. I’d be able to afford this using 0% finance over 24 months. The deposit is £750 and monthly repayments around £130.

I went for an Invisalign consultation, the cost will be £4k and will require a fixed wire retainer (a permanent metal wire on the inside side of both my arches).

The result from Invisalign will be slight, it’s more widening my arches which is why the fixed retainer is needed, but my teeth are already quite straight so it won’t overall be noticeable. I do think I’d like the end result.

Aibu to go for this? I’m not super keen on the fixed wire retainer but it’s also a treatment I’ve wanted to do for ages

OP posts:
New posts on this thread. Refresh page
KarmenPQZ · 15/01/2025 13:56

setitup · 15/01/2025 12:39

lol I was wondering why this thread has been resurrected! Forgot I made it.

I didn’t go through with it - but I still want to. I have secured a new job and earn slightly more than I did before (£42.5k) but I am still looking for other opportunities. So I’m just waiting on the outcome of my applications and to settle in, before making any big financial decisions. I have some savings now too.

I think I’ll totally go for it though, as it would hugely improve my confidence.

Thanks for the update and sorry again for resurrecting it…. Was just being nosey! Especially because I’m approaching it from the opposite side. Have lived with my slightly crooked teeth through buying a house, having kids, other financial commitments. But I’m kinda kicking myself for not prioritising my smile sooner. Will see what the initial appointment holds tomorrow

Choccyscofffy · 15/01/2025 12:52

Do you have a mortgage? I’d prioritise having enough savings to cover the mortgage and bills for 6 months, then have treatment.

setitup · 15/01/2025 12:39

KarmenPQZ · 15/01/2025 11:40

Resurrecting an old thread for an update. Did you do it OP?

im considering it now aged 40. Kinda wishing I’d done it in my 20s!

lol I was wondering why this thread has been resurrected! Forgot I made it.

I didn’t go through with it - but I still want to. I have secured a new job and earn slightly more than I did before (£42.5k) but I am still looking for other opportunities. So I’m just waiting on the outcome of my applications and to settle in, before making any big financial decisions. I have some savings now too.

I think I’ll totally go for it though, as it would hugely improve my confidence.

OP posts:
UnbeatenMum · 15/01/2025 12:26

I'm not saying don't get it done but if you have no savings at all I'm not sure you can afford it right now. I was in my 30s before I could afford to get my teeth straightened, I guess I had other priorities before that like travel and owning a home but I also wouldn't have taken out credit for it personally.

Didimum · 15/01/2025 12:24

zombie thread

flyinghen · 15/01/2025 12:21

Sorry just seen this is an old thread!

flyinghen · 15/01/2025 12:19

If it won't be noticeable then in your financial situation no I definitely wouldn't do it. Sounds like a waste of money to me. As PP said, save the money and see if you still want it done when you have the money.

DaisyChain505 · 15/01/2025 12:09

Maybe compromise and save up for a year so you have some emergency savings and then go down the road of starting this process.

You don’t need to justify why you want it. If it will make you more happy and confident that’s all that matters.

AttachmentFTW · 15/01/2025 11:46

setitup · 01/06/2024 16:05

Fair enough, it’s a bit of a unique situation; my teeth don’t show that much when I smile as my top lip covers them a bit, so this treatment would be to widen my smile and lengthen my teeth so they are more visible. At the moment I’m not confident at all, I never smile etc. the treatment won’t completely fix my problem but it will be an improvement. Plus afterwards I could get teeth bonding which would get me where I’d like to be (not included in cost)

I mean this kindly but I think a better investment would be to have private therapy to improve your confidence and explore why what your teeth look like/your appearance generally is so important to you.

4k is so much money to spend on a cosmetic procedure and it sounds like even then would only make a slight difference to your appearance and you're already considering further treatments? Where does it end. Also savings are important to have.

KarmenPQZ · 15/01/2025 11:40

Resurrecting an old thread for an update. Did you do it OP?

im considering it now aged 40. Kinda wishing I’d done it in my 20s!

CriticalThinker · 03/06/2024 00:17

You have no savings and you are considering spending £4000 on your teeth for a mild cosmetic improvement? Why!?

Rookangaroo4 · 02/06/2024 23:57

If it will boost your confidence and it makes you happy absolutely do it.

HappySquashGirl · 02/06/2024 23:54

I did invisalign on 0%finance. Tbh the treatment took that long so its not much different from paying 150 to go to a dentist appointment every month as you keep going in for regular check ups and changes. I hated the first couple of days but totally adjusted to it and was really pleased with the results, much more so than I thought. I would thoroughly recommend. By the time you finish the treatment you will have pretty much finished paying... Good luck!

SirAlfredSpatchcock · 02/06/2024 10:57

Sablecat · 02/06/2024 10:39

@SirAlfredSpatchcock It's a very low bar for teeth that you can gnaw at things and enunciate.

I had extensive orthodontic treatment as a teenager. It was amazingly successful. I appreciate to this day that my parents managed to afford it for me. Over forty years later, dentists comment on the very aesthetic result the orthodontist all those years ago achieved. Sure, I could speak and chew beforehand but my teeth were a combination of Bugs Bunny and random vampire.

I have a visit to the dentist every six months for a check up and a similar visit to a dental hygienist every six month. I get the feeling that this is not the UK way.

But surely there's a balance to be had?

Nobody is saying that they want fearsome wobbly brown pegs that look like they eat apples through the letterbox; but there's not actually anything wrong with not having Hollywood-style gleaming white gnashers, is there?

BIossomtoes · 02/06/2024 10:46

gillefc82 · 01/06/2024 21:47

I naturally have a fairly large gap between my two front teeth (lolly pop stick). As a teen, I never smiled with an open mouth and would cover my mouth with my hand when I laughed. So at 16 I had the gap filled (basically a large filling). I’ve also had my teeth whitened as an adult.

I’m now 42 and the gap has reappeared, albeit not as large. I’ve also damaged some of the composite on one tooth, a vertical chunk chipped out of it (stupidly opening a sweet packet for someone else with my teeth - never again), which has left a slight line down the centre of the tooth between the filling and the underlying natural tooth and the line, despite brushing, flossing etc has a slight stain along its edge that stubbornly remains.

I’m planning to have mine composite redone once I’ve whitened my teeth to a certain level, as whilst the gap does not bother me anywhere near as much as it did when I was younger, I much prefer how my smile looks without it.

Do what makes you happy @setitup. if you can afford it, go for it.

I’m so envious. I love the look of a gap between front teeth. Mine are crowded and I detest it. Why do we always want what we haven’t got?

Sablecat · 02/06/2024 10:39

@SirAlfredSpatchcock It's a very low bar for teeth that you can gnaw at things and enunciate.

I had extensive orthodontic treatment as a teenager. It was amazingly successful. I appreciate to this day that my parents managed to afford it for me. Over forty years later, dentists comment on the very aesthetic result the orthodontist all those years ago achieved. Sure, I could speak and chew beforehand but my teeth were a combination of Bugs Bunny and random vampire.

I have a visit to the dentist every six months for a check up and a similar visit to a dental hygienist every six month. I get the feeling that this is not the UK way.

WitchyWay · 02/06/2024 07:41

I would spend a little on counselling instead. Most people don't have the perfect smile/teeth/face/body but most can still smile and have photos taken etc.

I suspect you've had a bad experience or two and are playing it out through your smile. I can guarantee you, a bigger smile won't make you happier. It won't help you get a partner.

£4k on a minor adjustment when you have zero savings shows you're disproportionately prioritising this.

PeloMom · 02/06/2024 07:05

@naran of course teeth are noticed! While people talk, smile - teeth are quite visible! I personally get put off by bad teeth but OP’s issue doesn’t sound like a case of bad teeth (or maybe I’m not picturing it right). I spent around £4K on my Invisalign but that was closing gaps and fixing rotated teeth.

GhostSpider68 · 02/06/2024 02:17

I took that option because I couldn’t be dealing with retainers in and out all day, and you still have clear brackets on your teeth with retainers anyway. Also they were a little cheaper back then.

I had clear brackets, so you could see I had braces as there was a wire across my teeth but it wasn’t in your face like the traditional metal ones. I had to be careful not to eat curry or drink white wine as they stain easily.

cleaning wise no issue, brush normally and use a tipi for in between the gaps. Obviously carry a small mirror for after food in public.

Firawla · 02/06/2024 02:08

For just a slight result personally I wouldn’t. If your insecure about your smile, I would rather work on self esteem and positive self talk etc for free than spend 4k on a procedure with minor results

Blondeshavemorefun · 02/06/2024 01:52

If it won't look much different why spend £4k on it. Seems a lot for not a lot of difference

Maybe post a teeth pic and we can give honest options about your teeth and if need it

But sounds like you don't really need it if have straight teeth

Geekylover · 02/06/2024 00:09

If it will help with your self confidence I say yes. Just be sure you can afford the repayments. Good luck

Previousreligion · 01/06/2024 23:28

Absolute waste of money if your teeth are already straight imo.

I can guarantee that I have never given anyone's teeth a second thought, and wouldn't do so unless they are literally all black and falling out of their head.

SirAlfredSpatchcock · 01/06/2024 23:18

Reading some posts on this thread I understand why so many British people have such awful teeth.

How do you define 'awful'? If you have teeth that enable you to perfectly chew your food, are not in danger of getting infected and/or falling out and don't distort the sounds you make when you speak, they're pretty much perfect for their purpose, aren't they?

It might be nice if your features look aesthetically appealing according to modern trends, but it hardly makes them (or you) 'awful' if they just function properly and don't also look beautiful, does it? It's this kind of weird thinking that leads strange people to pay good money to have their arseholes bleached to a slightly different shade on the Dulux chart.

Lighteningstrikes · 01/06/2024 22:27

I would definitely get it done

If it makes you happy and more confident it's well worth it in my book.