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To think a declining birth rate is a good (and inevitable) thing

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OptimismvsRealism · 01/06/2024 11:09

Article in the times today about the "push for Britain to have more babies" on the basis that a declining population will cause economic shocks.

One of the proposals is "fertility checks in your 20s and education about declining fertility in biology classes".

I mean. Isn't it great that people only have babies if they really, truly want them? And isn't it good to have a smaller human burden on the planet (and fewer humans vying for declining jobs as tech replaces us at most of the things we used to do)?

I don't believe for a second that fertility checks would help anyone. Nobody is out there going "trala I'm 45 and really want five babies but just haven't felt like starting yet"!

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AllIWantIsACuppa · 09/06/2024 19:21

marigold1593 · 09/06/2024 18:28

Pensioner here. I get the grand sum of £159 a week ( paid for by todays workers)
I started work when I was 14 at weekends. Got a proper job at 17 and apart from a short break to have one child, worked full time until I was 66. Presumably during that time I was paying for other retired people to have their pensions?
But oh my, don't people seem to resent the fact that people like me are getting money that they pay for! All these elderly people expecting to be looked after, whatever is the world coming to?
Btw I have voted Labour all my life.

Literally noone is saying that though. We are just pointing out that if the current trends continue, then it simply won't be possible for us as a society to fund pensioners, nor will we have enough people to provide the health and social care that many of them need.

It's not about resenting you, or attacking you for receiving money. It's about addressing a structural problem that cannot continue to be ignored.

The problem is, that when people try and discuss these matters, there are inevitably people like you who entirely misunderstand the point and cry "ageism".

Pollipops1 · 09/06/2024 19:21

The immigration angle is interesting as much of the west will be competing for immigrants. Will we be the most attractive?

ByCupidStunt · 09/06/2024 19:20

If you look at the big picture it's a good thing.

Temporarily, there will be 3 or 4 generations whereby there aren't enough young people to support the older ones but obviously that will even itself out in time. It's just unfortunate for the people who have to be old with limited young populations to support them.

VolvoFan · 09/06/2024 19:20

No, it's not good at all. Although it is inevitable the whole time sperm counts continue to drop and people continue to believe the earth is either currently on fire or is going to burn up in the next decade.

Pollipops1 · 09/06/2024 19:19

Pensioner here. I get the grand sum of £159 a week ( paid for by todays workers)
I started work when I was 14 at weekends. Got a proper job at 17 and apart from a short break to have one child, worked full time until I was 66. Presumably during that time I was paying for other retired people to have their pensions?
But oh my, don't people seem to resent the fact that people like me are getting money that they pay for! All these elderly people expecting to be looked after, whatever is the world coming to?

What you are missing from the above is that in the 60s there were 5 workers to 1 pensioner, now it’s 3:1 and forecast soon to be 2:1. We already have more over 65 yr olds than under 15 yr olds, how is that sustainable?

it’s one reason why pension age is moving out despite healthy life expectancy not increasing.

Londonscallingme · 09/06/2024 19:18

If you care at all about the economic outlook of this country or if you want our children / grandchildren to have lives which are at least as good as the ones you have had then you would think declining birth rate is a big problem.

the solution is obviously migration but no one likes immigrants apparently so we’re screwed.

bridgetreilly · 09/06/2024 19:18

Constantly increasing birth rates is a disaster in every way. Declining birth rates and more immigration would be very much better.

CormorantStrikesBack · 09/06/2024 19:17

A declining birth rate doesn’t need to mean a declining population. If we are running short of workers to pay tax and help support the elderly there is a great source of people who are mostly willing to work and happy to come here! They just need to be allowed to work.

as for the falling birth rate I’m sure cost of living is a major factor. Who can afford £100 a day nursery costs on top of rising food and energy bills and stagnation of wages? Politicians could also sort that out.

Wethairwendy · 09/06/2024 19:16

Cooper77 · 09/06/2024 19:12

Overpopulation is the single biggest problem we face. It's driving pollution, deforestation, declining fish stocks, climate change, mass extinction, etc. It has to! How could it not? In 1900 there were a billion humans. By 1960 that had trebled to three billion. It's now eight billion and heading for ten. I'm not much good at maths, but I assume ten billion humans are going to consume more fish than one billion. And ten billion humans are going to cut down more trees, consume more fossil fuels, and pump out more toxic gas as well.

Yes birth rates are declining, but not everywhere. The African birth rate is so high that the African population is going to double – right in the middle of a climate crisis. Also, clever people are working round the clock to invent ways of extending the lifespan. Pretty soon we'll have senolytic drugs, and then medical nanobots and god knows what else. Some predict lifespans of 120 or 130, others believe we'll find ways to halt the ageing process altogether. And these aren't cranks. They're serious people with serious money behind them. So people won't be dying and making room.

If Bill Gates really wanted to help humanity, he'd install a family planning clinic in every village on Earth. Nothing would help Africa more. There is a cure for poverty. It has been tried all over the world and it always works. It's called birth control. If African women only had two children, on average, they'd have more time and money to educate those children. They'd also have more time and money to re-train and pursue a career. Those wicked priests who go round the world's slums preaching against contraception should be arrested for crimes against humanity.

Tbh they are not a big fan of Bill Gates over that neck of the woods. Can’t see him being welcome to be honest.

beergiggles · 09/06/2024 19:16

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Immigration?
All the other countries will be competing for working age immigrants.
When they get to this country they will tend to adopt the norms of the culture and not have children.
I think partly it's because women are no longer prepared to put up with being left to do all the hard unpaid work involved with having children, and men are not prepared to take up any of the slack. They still want to live life for themselves & not make sacrifices!

FlyingHighFlyingLow · 09/06/2024 19:15

It's not the pensions, its the care costs. You may only get £200 a week state pension, but attendance allowance is about £100 if you need carers. Lots of news about the 3.3 million people getting PIP and how unsustainable that is, 1.6 million get attendance allowance. The cost of care homes that can easily outstrip any assets they may have and needs to be state funded.

Almost half of hospital admissions are in those over 65, they occupy over two thirds of inpatient beds. Ultimately over half the cost and time of the front line NHS is taken by people over retirement age.

We've improved life expectancy but not necessarily the quality and independence of that life so more and more are needing these services and we may not have enough younger people to pay for them.

DramaLlamaBangBang · 09/06/2024 19:15

JamSandle · 09/06/2024 18:25

The human population is growing globally. So all in all, damage will still be done.

The human population is growing due to people living longer. Not because of birthrates, which have been largely stable since the 1970s and are now falling rapidly. We can't do anything ethically about that. We just need to wait for the peak, which is predicted to he a maximum of 11bn people, then a rapid fall, but some predictions are that there will be a rapid decline at 9bn.

Pollipops1 · 09/06/2024 19:13

more people on the planet has also been caused by people living longer

Pollipops1 · 09/06/2024 19:12

But the thing is if you keep increasing the population this problem will never end and will always be there.

No one is arguing it should be increasing though….

Cooper77 · 09/06/2024 19:12

Overpopulation is the single biggest problem we face. It's driving pollution, deforestation, declining fish stocks, climate change, mass extinction, etc. It has to! How could it not? In 1900 there were a billion humans. By 1960 that had trebled to three billion. It's now eight billion and heading for ten. I'm not much good at maths, but I assume ten billion humans are going to consume more fish than one billion. And ten billion humans are going to cut down more trees, consume more fossil fuels, and pump out more toxic gas as well.

Yes birth rates are declining, but not everywhere. The African birth rate is so high that the African population is going to double – right in the middle of a climate crisis. Also, clever people are working round the clock to invent ways of extending the lifespan. Pretty soon we'll have senolytic drugs, and then medical nanobots and god knows what else. Some predict lifespans of 120 or 130, others believe we'll find ways to halt the ageing process altogether. And these aren't cranks. They're serious people with serious money behind them. So people won't be dying and making room.

If Bill Gates really wanted to help humanity, he'd install a family planning clinic in every village on Earth. Nothing would help Africa more. There is a cure for poverty. It has been tried all over the world and it always works. It's called birth control. If African women only had two children, on average, they'd have more time and money to educate those children. They'd also have more time and money to re-train and pursue a career. Those wicked priests who go round the world's slums preaching against contraception should be arrested for crimes against humanity.

calmakameleon · 09/06/2024 18:56

@buttnut
100%
My DS birth was so awful DH wants a vasectomy and I'd struggle to have any more due to post birth injuries 5 years on

MagnetCarHair · 09/06/2024 18:56

Yeah, but misogynist cultures that don't play well with democracy are tenapenny - I'm worried about how we preserve a liberal culture when liberal cultures seem to have begun a simultaneous fertility death spiral.

TheABC · 09/06/2024 18:47

MagnetCarHair · 09/06/2024 18:03

It is a bit worrying that fertility rates are completely tanking in all the rich, liberal countries.

Not just the rich liberal countries. Iran's birthrate, for example is lower than Israel's and I would not call China or Russia that rich (per capita) or western.

Even in Africa, the birth rate is falling - and doing so at a faster speed than the Western timeline. The minute you give women education and control over their fertility, they plan their families. Who knew?! And unless the culture pushes you to have a large family (for example, it's seen as a religious duty amongst some orthodox Jewish communities in Israel and as a matter of pride in some parts of Africa), women consistently choose smaller families and space out their kids.

From a social viewpoint, we need to make the burden lighter on women - better maternity care, a reduction of the maternity pay gap, better SEN suppport if the child is disabled, lower cost housing, pushing the CSA to go after the absent fathers...I could keep going on.

We can't expect women to solve this alone. We are not society's safety net. If you try, you end up with women opting out completely (see Japan and South Korea.)

GoingOnHol · 09/06/2024 18:37

DojaPhat · 09/06/2024 16:45

It's a lot less considered than they way you've explained it OP. The issue the Times has is basically the people they want to have more babies are actually having less which is leading them to dress up their concern of what that means in the long term for 'Britain' as 'come on guys! have a check up in your 20s, it'll be fun!!'

Isn't that the plot of Idiocracy?! Basically all the clever, well educated people hold off having kids until the economy picks up/they have a good job/enough savings etc but never actually do whereas the stereotypically redneck types have loads, thus generations get more and more stupid
https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0387808/

Idiocracy (2006) ⭐ 6.5 | Adventure, Comedy, Sci-Fi

1h 24m | 15

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0387808

MarthaDunstable · 09/06/2024 18:33

Tattletwat · 09/06/2024 18:28

But the thing is if you keep increasing the population this problem will never end and will always be there.

It's basically a ponzi scheme saying we need more people to pay for the current as by doing that you are creating next wave of people needing more people.

Im not saying there is a solution.

The solution, ideally is to have a fertility rate somewhere around the 1.9-2.0 range and let medical advances take up the slack on extending healthy life expectancy as the population slowly declines.

Once you get a fertility rate much below 1.75 you're in trouble.

MagnetCarHair · 09/06/2024 18:30

I think multi-generational living sounds like it could answer a lot of the logistics about insulating a family from factors that delay childrearing. But then I think about what it would have been like to live with mil and concede I'd rather resign us all to the incoming shitshow

SwimmingSnake · 09/06/2024 18:30

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Tattletwat · 09/06/2024 18:28

AllIWantIsACuppa · 09/06/2024 17:01

The problem is that we do have an economic ticking time bomb. There simply won't be enough workers to pay for all the pensioners that there are going to be in the near future because we are no longer having babies at replacement rate.

And no, pensioners have not "paid into the system to cover their costs". That's not how it works. Today's workers pay for the pensions of today's pensioners, so tomorrow's workers will be paying for tomorrow's pensioners.

If we don't have enough workers to pay for all the pensioners, then we need to take some tough choices.

These are: accept more immigration, reduce pensioner benefits, austerity 2.0 which will be austerity on crack, or completely overhaul the tax system to include wealth taxes that will potentially deter the highest tax payers from settling here. None of these are particularly appealing but burying our heads in the sand and maintaining the status quo simply isn't an option.

So yes, we need more babies. But that takes time and frankly it's too late to avoid the forthcoming problems.

And no, I'm not getting at pensioners. It's not ageist to point out that there is an economic problem with an aging population who are financially dependent on the state. It's just maths.

But the thing is if you keep increasing the population this problem will never end and will always be there.

It's basically a ponzi scheme saying we need more people to pay for the current as by doing that you are creating next wave of people needing more people.

Im not saying there is a solution.

marigold1593 · 09/06/2024 18:28

Pensioner here. I get the grand sum of £159 a week ( paid for by todays workers)
I started work when I was 14 at weekends. Got a proper job at 17 and apart from a short break to have one child, worked full time until I was 66. Presumably during that time I was paying for other retired people to have their pensions?
But oh my, don't people seem to resent the fact that people like me are getting money that they pay for! All these elderly people expecting to be looked after, whatever is the world coming to?
Btw I have voted Labour all my life.

vincettenoir · 09/06/2024 18:27

We’re an aging population. In the future there will be less working age people supporting a larger number of pensionable age people. This will be economically unsustainable.

The birth rate has been declining for many years. A declining birth rate, in itself, is not a bad thing. But as it stands the birth rate is too low for the future economy.

The answer isn’t people having babies they don’t want. It’s for people to be able to afford to have babies when they want them.