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To think it was obvious they were for the kids??

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Birump · 01/06/2024 09:13

DS is having a little play date today, low key birthday “party” but DS doesn’t really do parties so it’s more of a gloried play date.
Yesterday I did some baking … 8 sausage rolls, 8 scotch eggs, 8 jam slags and 8 chocolate brownies.

Came down this morning and most of it is gone, I text DH asking if he’d touched the baking and he said yes, he’d taken it for work.

im fuming, isn’t it fucking obvious that they were for the kids for today?? He’s insisting that it was not obvious. This is not the first time he’s done something like this.

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WimpoleHat · 01/06/2024 09:19

Even if it wasn’t obvious it was “for the party”. It was obviously “for something”, wasn’t it? Really thoughtless not
to ask.

Persipan · 01/06/2024 09:19

Having now caused you significant inconvenience, how has he proposed that he resolve this?

Copperkryten · 01/06/2024 09:19

Yep, I'm here for the 'jam slag' too

FOJN · 01/06/2024 09:19

Selfish and greedy.

Comedycook · 01/06/2024 09:19

Of.course you are right. Who makes their husband sausage rolls and jam tarts for their lunch. He knew.

footgoldcycle · 01/06/2024 09:19

I would be telling him to come home with it all
Immediately!

I'm sure an boss will understand when he says he came to
Work with all the food for his kids party

Dishwashersaurous · 01/06/2024 09:18

I need to know what is a jam slag?

Also, do you regularly bake for him to take into work? If so, then could understand the confusion.

If not, then that's just really odd

mathsAIoptions · 01/06/2024 09:18

Fucking men. I bet he did fuck all for the party too.

LutonBeds · 01/06/2024 09:17

I assume ‘jam slag’ is a typo? 🤣 But I’m curious (and hungry) now. And yes, H deffo knew it was for the party.

endofthelinefinally · 01/06/2024 09:17

Did he know about the party?
If he did then I am sorry you are married to such a thoughtless individual.
OTOH, any reasonable person would check before helping themselves to a large quantity of freshly prepared food.

Daleksatemyshed · 01/06/2024 09:16

Of course it's obvious, you have a kid's party today. Unless you often bake loads of stuff just for the sake of it