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Donning my hard hat for this one - cabin crew appearance

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TellerTuesday · 31/05/2024 20:30

I do realise I'm probably going to get flamed for this but has anyone else noticed a real decline in the appearance of cabin crew members?

Just had a flight with Virgin and the female members honestly looked dreadful. Ill fitting uniforms, red trousers stretched over VPL bottoms, tight white gaping shirts, one had a drab cardigan over the top.

I realise it's a sexist notion but when I was younger they always looked so glamorous strutting through the airport in their heeled court shoes (mainly flat now it appears), immaculate hair and make up.

Also thought the same when I last flew with TUI. The male cabin crew always seem to look well turned out.

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FrenchMustard · 01/06/2024 08:33

YABU, they get told what to wear and how to do their makeup. DH works as a pilot for another airline, the uniform is cheap and ill-fitting. Also you try staying immaculate for a ridiculously long work day like where you have probably got up at 4am. You sound like the sort of entitled arse who makes their job even harder 🙄

Despair1 · 01/06/2024 08:29

You are being very judgemental and unreasonable

DailyEnergyCrisis · 01/06/2024 08:29

I think they’d look much more comfortable wearing clothes in the right size. So many of the women are squeezed into tight waists and buttons looking ready to pop open- it must feel so uncomfortable. I don’t know if they’re pressured to order small sizes and it’s frowned upon to be bigger than a size 12 or something as I’d say most female cabin crew I see are wearing a too small uniform.

RosieMilkJug · 01/06/2024 08:27

My MIL was an air hostess in the late 50s/early 60s. She was tall and slender and in those days you had to be a trained nurse to qualify for the job.

Her knees have been shot to pieces, not helped by wearing high heels on board when your feet swell up during the flight.

Scarletttulips · 01/06/2024 08:23

I think they look hot and sweaty in the cheap nylon I’ll fitting uniforms

None if that is the persons fault.

bouquetofpheasants · 01/06/2024 08:23

We spoke to an (immaculate) woman on Emirates, she said she spent so much money on pantyhoses. They had to be a specific brand, and they broke easily. She had to pay for them out of her own salary, very unfair. They had pretty strict rules overall.

notimagain · 01/06/2024 08:19

Given at many airlines Long Haul crew, when away from base, have an hour from wake up call to being on the crew bus (and are probably on a night stop, sleep deprived and their body clock is shot to hell) I think they generally do an impressive job of keeping up appearances.

bouquetofpheasants · 01/06/2024 08:18

Onemoreterm · 31/05/2024 21:29

Not that bothered about how they look but they do need to be able to nail the safety aspects of the job.

Have you seen the state of passengers recently? I almost went into teacher mode on my last flight to challenge a small group of teenage girls about the difference between what to wear on the beach and what to wear travelling. Let’s just say that not much could be left to the imagine with tight midriff strappy tops and the shortest of gym shorts - and that was flying into a cold rainy LHR from another destination that was also rainy and chilly on departure

I’m not from the UK, but you can always spot young girls from the UK by the way they dress. Almost always failing to dress appropriately.

Zanatdy · 01/06/2024 08:17

I never even notice the appearance of the cabin crew. I certainly don’t expect them to look a certain way

Bringbackthebeaver · 01/06/2024 08:16

I realise it's a sexist notion but when I was younger they always looked so glamorous strutting through the airport in their heeled court shoes (mainly flat now it appears), immaculate hair and make up.

Yes it is a sexist notion. If you realist it's a sexist notion why are you complaining about it?

It's only recently that Virgin stopped requiring their female staff to wear skirts and heels. That's a good thing.

Whoswhoof · 01/06/2024 08:14

Couldn’t agree more! Emirates are the only ones who keep the standards. I love flying with them.

ryanair staff look like they’ve had their head out the window for half the flight.

Happyhunny · 01/06/2024 08:07

Yes you’re right
British Airways blouses being white, were one of the worst! as the ones being worn by the crew were all grey!!
As for the shoes, heels have to be worn outside the plane (everywhere) but flats have to be worn on the plane.
Heres a pic of my grandaughter who always looks wonderfully well groomed.

Donning my hard hat for this one - cabin crew appearance
milveycrohn · 01/06/2024 08:01

I still see them 'strut' across the airport in high heels, but they generally change into flat shoes once on board the flight, for practical reasons.
However, there could be something in that uniforms are often designed by men, who may not have thought how easy it would be to work in them.
Also, the uniforms need to be washable and easy drying, but this could mean they are made with cheaper fabrics etc

Sadza · 01/06/2024 08:00

The virgin uniforms are awful, all that red to manage. The look like they’re made of very cheap flammable material which is going to be an issue if there’s a fire in the cabin. I think they save the glamorous ones for first class and make sure they’re very thin in case Richard Branson is flying and needs to pick one of them up like he always does.

notimagain · 01/06/2024 07:53

@DunkinBensDonuts

They are also more friendly ime although I kind of like the grandmotherly ones you find in American ones….

(Edited to change original link to something hopefully not paywalled)

https://apnews.com/article/bette-nash-flight-attendant-dies-guinness-record-9d1b17bc4c869209defe8b6b6b630ecb

LakeTiticaca · 01/06/2024 07:48

I always used to think how uncomfortable they must be in those tight uniforms, high heels and tightly pulled back hair. Working in cramped spaces all the time.People think cabin crew is a glamorous job. It isn't, it's poorly paid and not good for the health.
Also increasingly ( as we see the video clips on SM) the crew are being abused by drunken loutish passengers x

MikeRafone · 01/06/2024 07:46

Op you’ve been brain washed into a perception of how people should look. Newspaper propaganda, advertising, media have worked their magic on you.

it shows how susceptible people are to particular notions & also the lack of ability to accept change.

there is help but whether you want to accept you need help is a different matter

WhenTheMoonShines · 01/06/2024 07:43

It’s a jolly good thing their appearance has absolutely nothing to do with the service they provide or how well the pilot flies the plane! I suggest if you’re wanting glamour you go to a fashion show.

pleasehelpwi3 · 01/06/2024 07:43

It's been repeated throughout but it's such a tough job.....google BA legacy crew contracts for example.
I want a safe plane that lands and cabin new in the most suitable outfit.
I'm not sure the people on the recent Singapore Airlines flight affected by turbulence would have cared about what the cabin crew were wearing....

Bekindmyarse · 01/06/2024 07:33

I think they look pretty awesome here. It’s a tough job. I couldn’t be nice to plane loads of people all the livelong day.

Donning my hard hat for this one - cabin crew appearance
Howbizarre22 · 01/06/2024 07:31

Cattery · 31/05/2024 23:19

Yep agree. Flight to Barbados from Heathrow in March. One was over made-up, shiny and rude one was the size of a house. Sorry

You should be sorry, disgusting attitude

Soñando25 · 01/06/2024 07:30

peepsypops · 01/06/2024 07:19

A dinner lady in the sky?! Wow. I'm out. The ignorance.

Agreed. Appalling comment.

Mrsjayy · 01/06/2024 07:29

PenelopeFeatherington · 01/06/2024 06:50

I saw a member of the Virgin cabin crew on a train the other day and she looked fabulous. We're flying with Virgin later this year so the kids were fascinated by her glamour!

Virgin is great.to fly with even if they have VPL 😂

Grapewrath · 01/06/2024 07:28

I can’t imagine waitressing all day in high heels. I honestly wouldn’t even notice these things tbh and I’m glad women don’t have to look a certain way to do their job

Howbizarre22 · 01/06/2024 07:27

merrymelodies · 01/06/2024 01:45

People in general dress like slobs these days so it's not surprising that most of the PP are flaming you, OP.

Perhaps it’s just that people are no longer as sexist as people like you.

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