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Donning my hard hat for this one - cabin crew appearance

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TellerTuesday · 31/05/2024 20:30

I do realise I'm probably going to get flamed for this but has anyone else noticed a real decline in the appearance of cabin crew members?

Just had a flight with Virgin and the female members honestly looked dreadful. Ill fitting uniforms, red trousers stretched over VPL bottoms, tight white gaping shirts, one had a drab cardigan over the top.

I realise it's a sexist notion but when I was younger they always looked so glamorous strutting through the airport in their heeled court shoes (mainly flat now it appears), immaculate hair and make up.

Also thought the same when I last flew with TUI. The male cabin crew always seem to look well turned out.

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notimagain · 01/06/2024 12:30

Ginmonkeyagain · 01/06/2024 09:35

@FrenchMustard but does he wear a hat? Pilots, In my view, have to wear a proper pilot hat or it doesn't feel right.

Please let’s not start that debate….

Poem4funeralhelp · 01/06/2024 12:24

@JudgeJ Back in 2007 we just had to wear pillar box red lipstick, but no particular brand.

JudgeJ · 01/06/2024 12:18

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 01/06/2024 10:41

@TellerTuesday emirates airlines have, by far, the best and most attractive uniforms. the stewards can change to flats on the flight to serve the food etc

Not sure about the budget airlines but in all flights I've been on the cabin crew are in full uniform, including heels, for welcoming but then change into more comfortable and practical clothes for food service etc and then back into heels etc for the goodbyes!

I did notice on Virgin Atlantic that it looked like their make-up had been applied by Bob the Builder! Do the VA staff still have to buy the specific lurid red lipstick that is/was incredibly expensive?

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe · 01/06/2024 12:16

Cabin crew are still neater than the scruffy passengers that they have to deal with.

Incidentally, "I'm donning my hard hat* is just as naff as "I'm probably going to hell for this". Makes you sound pathetic and desperate to avoid censure. If you can't take criticism for what you post then don't post it. The world will still turn without your sneaky input. Biscuit

Sallyh87 · 01/06/2024 12:14

I was on a BA flight recently, they were all very professional looking and excellent at their jobs. The concept of anyone wearing heels on long haul flights while doing service is ridiculous.

Cantgetausername87 · 01/06/2024 12:05

I'm sure it's been mentioned already - but the primary role of cabin crew is safety! I really wouldn't care what they look like! I know first hand that if a passenger takes ill/ the plane hits turbulence (look what happened this week!) They will do their best to keep everyone safe!

Poem4funeralhelp · 01/06/2024 11:59

Ex Virgin Crew here, albeit from 2007! Yes, make up was mandatory, we had a full day's training on hair and make up. Got to say though, I loved it! We were treated so well, long stop overs, good cash to spend down route. Best job ever. Uniform by John Rocha then. We had to wear bright red or French manicured nails, red lippy! Even fake hair pieces. By the way, the high heels then were for walking through the airport only, we had flats to change into once onboard. Yes, sexist but i never felt exploited. I was treated so well. Loved it and Richard Branson, back then was around a lot. In the training offices and onboard (flying economy to talk with the customers) only positive things to say. Now, I think it's great crew have a choice, that is how it should be.

Hoistupthemainsail · 01/06/2024 11:42

VPL? Wow they had pants on and you knew. Outrageous.

IHaveNeverLivedintheCastle · 01/06/2024 11:37

DuesToTheDirt · 01/06/2024 10:35

@AndiOliversGlasses you might like this safety video from Uzbekistan Airways. Sadly though no one on our flight, either crew or passengers, looked like this!

Edited

That was great. It would really capture your attention.

CarterBeatsTheDevil · 01/06/2024 11:37

I don't know. I've never been one for glamour over comfort so I really don't care as long as people look clean and presentable. When I see women wearing heels I just think about how much their feet must be hurting and when I see women wearing a lot of heavy makeup it makes me think about how miserable their skin must be underneath.

None of that means that other women can't dress up more than I do if they want to, obviously.

katseyes7 · 01/06/2024 11:32

add in many airlines and other businesses have touted their move to gender neutral uniforms. Now I support this under the idea that a piece of clothing should be available to anyone. However, the businesses have taken it to mean making one pair of trousers in a boxy fit that has no hope of fitting a woman’s hips properly. The same goes for tops. The cuts are straight and boxy with no angles to accommodate breasts and waists. So you end up with clothing that is both too tight and too loose simultaneously.

This. I worked in a police control room where we had to wear uniform. The women's shirts were just what appeared to be men's shirts, with the buttons on the other side. So if you were blessed in the boob department, you had to order a size or two up to get them to fit. Which meant the shoulders were far too big, which looked even worse once you got your epaulettes on. Especially when you're just a shade over 5' tall, like l am.
They were just square and totally shapeless. Difficult to look smart in those.
I wore my own black trousers, we were sitting down all day, and no one noticed.
There didn't seem to be any attempt to make concession for differences in gender/body shape.
Didn't stop us doing our job, though. So long as l was comfortable, l could cope with that.

The cabin crew thing has changed dramatically over the years. They're not paid a fortune, and they don't actually start getting paid until the doors close ready for departure. I don't think it's classed as the glamorous role it used to be. I have a friend who is cabin crew, she has a fairly lengthy travel to/from the airport she works from, and she's often given short notice of working.
I, for one, wouldn't fancy being stuck in a tube 30,000 feet up in the sky trying to deal with drunken idiots for hours on end.
It's a good thing some do, though, or we'd be screwed without them. So long as they look presentable like we're all expected to at work, and do a good job, that's what matters.

Gwenhwyfar · 01/06/2024 11:25

IceAndLemonWithThat · 31/05/2024 20:44

I would imagine red is a very difficult colour for a lot of people to wear… with my colouring I look like I’m on fire!

I can’t get my head round the horror of having to wear red trousers either😱 Cut them some slack, OP, our bodies do strange things on flights, I hope that the least the crew can hope for is some comfort with lower heels and not being forced into the masks of make up they used to wear.
If they did their job efficiently, then surely, it’s all good?

I look ill in red. When I worked on a boat (they let us ugly people be cabin crew on boats, sorry OP), I looked sea sick even when I wasn't and was ordered to wear blusher.

Chocbuttonsandredwine · 01/06/2024 11:23

I agree. Had a Ryanair flight a few months ago. I know it’s budget airline but Christ the staff all looked like they needed a good wash.

Orange fake tan hands, shirt collars covered in equally orange make up, hair extensions half hanging out and just generally scruffiness.

I judged, but would have felt the same if they were serving in Costa tbh. Just be clean and tidy. That’s all.

Itiswhysofew · 01/06/2024 11:16

Aer Lingus staff always look smart and also have really great attitude. I love hearing them chatting and giggling amongst themselves at back of the plane. Nothing wrong with a cardi when you're feeling chillyGrin

Mnetcurious · 01/06/2024 11:09

Yeah because looking good is a prerequisite for doing an effective job 🙄. Internalised misogyny much?

Loloj · 01/06/2024 11:06

I was thinking the opposite the other day. Flew Emirates and their dress code must include all ladies wearing the exact shade of lipstick with a full face of makeup and under a size 10! All tottering around - just seems strange to me.

Ginmonkeyagain · 01/06/2024 10:49

Everyone knows you need a good hat to convey authority and competance.

I reckon we'd trust MPs more if they had a good hat.

TheChosenTwo · 01/06/2024 10:44

I agree with whoever said they like seeing a pilot wearing a hat, it feels strangely reassuring 😂 the hat must subconsciously say to me that it denotes a position of composed confidence - I’m usually very against hats being worn indoors 😂😂

Anyway, I dgaf what the cabin crew look like or wear, they are trained to ensure safety standards are adhered to and try and help everyone have a pleasant flight. I’m terrified of flying and thank them all profusely because I worry that if I piss them off they’ll order some extra turbulence or something specially for me! They can look or wear what they like as far as I’m concerned, if they’re putting me at ease while I’m hurtling though the air in a tin can I’m happy. Not as happy as when I’ve landed and got my feet on the ground mind…

AndromacheAstyanax · 01/06/2024 10:43

I don’t really notice what the cabin crew look like (it’s usually either bright orange or blue and yellow on my flights) but I do have a thing about heels. I really dislike them on both men and women! Just looking at them makes me feel uncomfortable, and I’m sure that comfortable feet must be a priority for someone working on a plane.

Riceball · 01/06/2024 10:41

Suitable comfortable, practical uniform for cabin crew:
-soft t shirt or polo shirt
-jersey shorts/ joggers
-crocs
Save the trolly dolly for 70s porn?

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 01/06/2024 10:41

@TellerTuesday emirates airlines have, by far, the best and most attractive uniforms. the stewards can change to flats on the flight to serve the food etc

DuesToTheDirt · 01/06/2024 10:35

@AndiOliversGlasses you might like this safety video from Uzbekistan Airways. Sadly though no one on our flight, either crew or passengers, looked like this!

Welcome to Uzbekistan. Uzbekistan Airways safety instruction video. Uzbekistan Travel

Uzbekistan Travel and Tours. Travel to Central Asia and Discover the Silk Road History and Traditions. Visit Oriental Bazars and Madrasah as well as test del...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2DIzs4rgwQg

GentlemanJohnny · 01/06/2024 10:32

QANTAS cabin crew remain immaculately turned out.

(Waves to SIL who is one.)

Perzival · 01/06/2024 10:31

Should add. I haven't worked for a low cost carrier and wouldn't so can't comment on their salary/ payments.

Perzival · 01/06/2024 10:30

MaryFuckingFerguson · 01/06/2024 10:09

This thread made me wonder about cabin crew salary. If Google is correct, it’s lamentably low.

Depends on the airline. Basic is low. Cabin crew can earn commission on on board sales. Crew usually get a flying allowance per hour checking in (some airlines pay this 24 hours a day while away on a trip) and/or sector pay (an amount per landing). Sector pay and flying allowance are tax free. There are also extra allowances for people with nursing/ medical qualifications and additional languages. Some bases are tax free.

While down route or if not at base hotel accommodation is paid for aswell as transport. Most hotels offer crew discount or food allowance (depends on what has been negotiated). We used to stay at a few all inclusive which were nice. I've stayed at Ritz Carltons, many Hiltons, Intercontinental but also some questionable hotels. There is usually share options and free medical cover. All airline dependent.

Crew can make quite a bit. I used to bank my flying allowance and save it. A friend of mine worked for sn airline in a county where they are paid tax free and saved enough to buy a house when she eventually came home.