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To be freaking out about my son’s dust mite allergy

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BastianBaIthazarBux · 31/05/2024 16:51

My DS2 has rather bad eczema which we’ve learnt today is most likely being caused by a dust mite allergy. I’ve done a bit more research into it and now I’m freaking out because I don’t know how we’re going to get this under control.

First of all a lot of the preventative measures seem to involve spending a shitload of money. Replacing mattresses and bedding with allergy free. Buy covers for bedding (he and DS1 share a room so would have to get 2 of everything). Getting rid of carpets and getting wooden floors. Buy an air purifier. Get rid of the curtains and replace with blinds. A new vacuum with a filter.

And the sheer amount of laundry and cleaning! Change the bedding at least once a week if not more, hoover every day, including under all the furniture, dusting every other day. Wash teddy every week. Put teddies/bedding in the freezer. We have 3dc, one of which is only 7 months old, DH and I both work, we live in a tiny 2 bed flat with no tumble drier. How the fuck am I supposed to find the time for all this washing and cleaning? How the hell do I get it all dried without turning the place into a Chinese laundry 24/7 or spending a king’s ransom at the launderette?

I really wish it had been something like dairy. Dead simple. Just cut out dairy. But I feel so guilty about how much my poor boy suffers with his eczema. I feel completely overwhelmed by this.

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solsticelove · 31/05/2024 17:02

One of my dc has this (amongst other allergies). An air purifier is a non negotiable for us but it’s not a cure so I’m seriously considering ripping up the carpets in their bedroom as the doctor said carpets are the main culprit.
washing bedding at 60 degrees really helps (don’t think you need to go out and buy special allergy products) too.

midgetastic · 31/05/2024 17:00

Do what you can and make changes when you can

In order if having the most impact I would think

Wash his bedding weekly and freeze teddy weekly
Think about Mattress covers, pilllow covers for his bed
Vaccum cleaner with filter ( we have meile ) ( Dyson were annoying as it was bagless so you get a dust cloud when emptying )
Wash curtains every summer
Bedroom carpet

BastianBaIthazarBux · 31/05/2024 16:58

We do give him antihistamines but to be honest it doesn’t seem to make a lot of difference. I might ask the GP if there’s a stronger one he can have, at the moment we just give him an OTC one, but he’s only 2 1/2 so he might not be allowed another.

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rubyslippers · 31/05/2024 16:57

My DD has a dust mite allergy amongst others
You simply cannot get rid of all dust so be pragmatic and do what you can
air filters and laundry cleansers can help
yes to freezing soft toys
if you can afford it get an allergy approved hoover with good filter
other than that, you can’t rip your carpets up or eliminate dust altogether
clean as much as you can but if you can’t do it every day then you can’t
lots of kids grow out of asthma and allergies too
yes to a good anti histamine regime tho

Treacletoots · 31/05/2024 16:54

I have this allergy and didn't realize until I was iny 30s. Very annoying! However I've now managed to get it completely under control.

I take an antihistamine most days. It just helps.

I am a bit hoover obsessive. I won't use any but Dyson, because I can tell the difference very quickly!

We wash sheets every fortnight but don't need to be obsessive.

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