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Possible demotion after maternity leave

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GoldieLocks09 · 31/05/2024 16:01

I had my second DS in October of last year and have thoroughly enjoyed maternity leave this time around and not paid too much attention to what's been going on at work, unlike with my first DS when I felt like I had to have 'one foot in the door'.

I'm planning on going back to work in July and have started my KIT days, one of them being today - my manager (who is also the MD) asked for a meeting with me and was being overly nice, friendly, asking loads of questions etc at the beginning of the meeting - he is a friendly person but it was clear it was a bit OTT. For some background, our company was acquired last year and we're now part of a much much larger PLC, I've basically missed the whole integration whilst being on mat leave. At the moment there are 2 people who hold my job title (senior director level/leadership team) - me and my colleague, we've always worked well together and have been united across our departments. Due to the change in company, she was asked to cover my role whilst I was on maternity leave and has been looking after both departments for the past 8 months.

My manager/MD told me during our meeting that it has been decided 'from the top' that there is no longer room for 2 people to be doing that role (we both have the right to apply for it), and there is definitely another role available at the same salary, just with different responsibilties - as well as lots of other opportunities throughout the business. I think it's unlikely I will get the role we both can go for as she's been doing it their way for the last 8 months, and as much as I work well with her she does play dirty which isn't something I'm up for. The alternative role despite being told it was the same pay is a significant jump down in responsibility (I'll go from managing 8 to managing no one) and feels like we the job I joined the company doing 6 years ago, as well as moving away from being in the senior leadership team despite having 'director' in the title. And I will look into other roles throughout the wider business.

AIBU for feeling really hurt about this? Or should I just suck it up and take the lower position at the same pay and be grateful I still have a job?

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StormingNorman · 20/10/2024 23:47

Congrats @GoldieLocks09 thats a great outcome for you!

Pandasnacks · 20/10/2024 23:46

Damn app screwed me over, commented on the wrong thread sorry! And the crap app doesn't allow editing posts either

Pandasnacks · 20/10/2024 23:45

So the trousers were clearly too big for you, what is your issue?

GoldieLocks09 · 20/10/2024 23:41

Londonforestmum · 15/10/2024 14:13

Similar thing here (demotion after mat leave) for a few years I've just been grateful to still have a job and to be able to do part time / Flexi time. But the resentment does build, and losing your position of seniority does grate after a while, as does reporting into the person who was your mat cover!

I feel like at first people treat you with the same level as respect as before (plus with v young kids you have more to distract you anyway), but over time new people join who never knew you, and before long you're just being treated like others at that same level. Not being in management meetings anymore makes me feel paranoid, as I know what it's like in them and how they talk about people, and am used to having all the news first hand rather than hearing when the plebs (lol) do. It's not easy.

Please get a solicitor - it was the best thing I did. I came away with a years+ salary (plus my 3 month notice period and holiday I’d not taken), a good reference, share options in the company and a new job paying ~£25k more which is just as flexible as what I had, I’d just convinced myself I had to put up with it because no where would be as accommodating but that’s just not the case. My solicitor said it was clear cut and threatened my company who immediately backed down and accepted what I asked for!

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Londonforestmum · 15/10/2024 14:13

Similar thing here (demotion after mat leave) for a few years I've just been grateful to still have a job and to be able to do part time / Flexi time. But the resentment does build, and losing your position of seniority does grate after a while, as does reporting into the person who was your mat cover!

I feel like at first people treat you with the same level as respect as before (plus with v young kids you have more to distract you anyway), but over time new people join who never knew you, and before long you're just being treated like others at that same level. Not being in management meetings anymore makes me feel paranoid, as I know what it's like in them and how they talk about people, and am used to having all the news first hand rather than hearing when the plebs (lol) do. It's not easy.

Famfirst · 01/06/2024 18:24

Once you've had a child that's the most important thing in the world, work doesn't even come close so just do whatever job they give you and get home to your child.

SilentSilhouette · 01/06/2024 18:02

GoldieLocks09 · 01/06/2024 06:59

Thanks everyone for your responses, to be honest I wouldn’t mind a bit less responsibility however I think my ego is getting in the way of wanting the other role - I would be reporting into her, and my team that I’ve managed since I joined 6 years ago would see me effectively have my responsibilities stripped. I don’t know it just ‘feels’ weird.

Because of the merger I think everything they’re doing is legal, but I am going to speak to ACAS and PTS on Monday. I spoke to another colleague I’m close with last night, and she thinks that it’s actually the other person’s role which is now redundant, and so she’s been given mine as she was covering for it anyway, however that won’t be the story management go with of course.

It’s strange, I’ve had such a weird feeling towards work this maternity leave like I’ve known something is going on. I guess your gut instinct is always right.

It will come down to your job descriptions - you said in the first post that you both did pretty much the same job, so it sounds to me like BOTH jobs have been made redundant and one new job is available, which means you both have to go for the same job.

I would argue that the second role is NOT a suitable alternative if its nothing like what you were doing before, but then the alternative to that is a redundancy payment.

ACAS should be able to help.

INeedAPensieve · 01/06/2024 07:56

Oh I would definitely contact PTS and ACAS, you should be the one getting the role! Good luck!

StormingNorman · 01/06/2024 07:09

I think my ego is getting in the way of wanting the other role - I would be reporting into her, and my team that I’ve managed since I joined 6 years ago would see me effectively have my responsibilities stripped. I don’t know it just ‘feels’ weird.

@GoldieLocks09 My ego would struggle with this too! That puts quite a different complexion on the alternative role. Presumably, if you aren’t being demoted and on the same money, this new role is being regraded with a commensurate salary increase? They can’t expect you to report to somebody on the same grade and salary.

ACAS and PTS sound like a good move. Judging by the threads I see on here places I’ve worked, going back to work and reporting to your mat cover is depressingly common.

GoldieLocks09 · 01/06/2024 06:59

Thanks everyone for your responses, to be honest I wouldn’t mind a bit less responsibility however I think my ego is getting in the way of wanting the other role - I would be reporting into her, and my team that I’ve managed since I joined 6 years ago would see me effectively have my responsibilities stripped. I don’t know it just ‘feels’ weird.

Because of the merger I think everything they’re doing is legal, but I am going to speak to ACAS and PTS on Monday. I spoke to another colleague I’m close with last night, and she thinks that it’s actually the other person’s role which is now redundant, and so she’s been given mine as she was covering for it anyway, however that won’t be the story management go with of course.

It’s strange, I’ve had such a weird feeling towards work this maternity leave like I’ve known something is going on. I guess your gut instinct is always right.

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StormingNorman · 31/05/2024 21:55

It is upsetting @GoldieLocks09, but unfortunately fairly inevitable I would think if one person has covered both roles for eight months.

Given your mat cover essentially created the role and performed to a standard that they have decided to make it a permanent change, I would assume she is getting that role.

I’d spend my energy on finding an alternative role that you would enjoy. A alternative that matches your salary and T&Cs is what the legislation provides for - I don’t think there needs to be a comparable JD. So see what’s available and what takes your fancy! It could be a great opportunity x

wizarddry · 31/05/2024 21:43

They'll wait until you're back then screw you over

RoobarbAndMustard · 31/05/2024 21:40

Graciiee · 31/05/2024 17:05

If I was the other person I'd happily take the same salary and manage no one. I previously managed a team, and although I was fine with it I found it draining at times when people could be my biggest problem. I stepped into a role with more pay and no managing responsibilities, it was the best thing ever to be able to just get on with looking after me!

This. Not having to manage people would really appeal to me because I find it stressful having some reports who have attendance issues or who just won't be managed. A senior job with no direct reports sounds great to me.

WYorkshireRose · 31/05/2024 19:54

The alternative role despite being told it was the same pay is a significant jump down in responsibility (I'll go from managing 8 to managing no one) and feels like we the job I joined the company doing 6 years ago, as well as moving away from being in the senior leadership team despite having 'director' in the title. And I will look into other roles throughout the wider business.

Sounds amazing, personally I'd snap their hand off to go back to work on the same salary, manage no one and keep my director title without any of the SLT responsibilities.

Bearbookagainandagain · 31/05/2024 19:44

MrsPinkCock · 31/05/2024 16:18

It’s a tricky one.

If they’re pooling two roles and reducing head count to one, then there isn’t much you can do.

But if they’re removing both roles and creating one new one, which you’re objectively suitable for, they need to automatically offer it to you.

It may not be objectively suitable due to the reduction in responsibility though.

This, but I can't see a scenario where "pooling the 2 roles into 1" wouldn't equate to removing both roles and creating a new one. The merged role is a completely new role.

If they were making 1 department redundant it would be different, but in this case OP has priority for the new role as she is on mat leave.

Didimum · 31/05/2024 19:28

MinervaMcGonagallsCat · 31/05/2024 18:39

@Didimum

I do see what you are saying with these two roles turned into one. Is it genuinely two roles made into one role, or is it a brand new role? That matters and the responsibilities and conditions have to be considered to ascertained which it is.

It 2 roles into one makes both at risk of redundancy. The role must offered to OO

If a brand new role and OP is at risk of redundancy? The new role must be offered to OP.

If OP is at risk of redundancy in any way and there's a suitable role she must be offered it.

The above poster is also correct that the entitlement to your same job only applies if you return within the first 26 weeks.

Yes I agree. I never said otherwise 🤷‍♀️
She has entitlement to a similar role on not worse t&cs.

It 2 roles into one makes both at risk of redundancy. The role must offered to OO

What’s OO? OP?

If it’s two roles reduced to one then it’s just a headcount reduction and the company are entitled to have both people reapply for the job.

There are no legislative restrictions on the circumstances in which the job of an employee on maternity leave can be made redundant. Normal unfair dismissal rules apply in terms of whether it is a genuine redundancy and whether the selection was fair.

Specific protection in the decision whether to make the role redundant comes only from the Equality Act, which ensures that maternity leave cannot be a factor in the decision.

Once the decision to make the role redundant has been made, then specific protection from the Maternity and Parental Leave Regs kicks in, which provide that if an employee's role is made redundant while she is on maternity leave, and there is a suitable available vacancy, the employee is entitled to be offered alternative employment.

ie she gets special treatment if she is made redundant, she doesn't get protected from being made redundant in the first place

SilentSilhouette · 31/05/2024 19:01

This sounds like both jobs have been essentially made redundant and one role created, where you will both be able to apply to the new role.

If you are not successful, then you could apply to the alternative role being offered, or they'd have to pay you redundancy. How long have you worked there?

The fact the other person has been doing the current job whilst you were on maternity should have no grounding for favouritism as this would count as discrimination. They need to allocate the job to the best candidate based on merit/qualifications.

They will no doubt announce the redundancy on the day you return, but I don't think being on maternity will give you any more or less rights to the position.

I assume you're returning full time?

MuggleMe · 31/05/2024 18:52

I'm assuming they're going to wait until you're back before they do anything to ensure you're not additionally protected. But I have a feeling there's new rules about additional on your return.

MinervaMcGonagallsCat · 31/05/2024 18:39

@Didimum

I do see what you are saying with these two roles turned into one. Is it genuinely two roles made into one role, or is it a brand new role? That matters and the responsibilities and conditions have to be considered to ascertained which it is.

It 2 roles into one makes both at risk of redundancy. The role must offered to OO

If a brand new role and OP is at risk of redundancy? The new role must be offered to OP.

If OP is at risk of redundancy in any way and there's a suitable role she must be offered it.

The above poster is also correct that the entitlement to your same job only applies if you return within the first 26 weeks.

Yes I agree. I never said otherwise 🤷‍♀️
She has entitlement to a similar role on not worse t&cs.

MrsPinkCock · 31/05/2024 18:20

Didimum · 31/05/2024 18:15

I do see what you are saying with these two roles turned into one. Is it genuinely two roles made into one role, or is it a brand new role? That matters and the responsibilities and conditions have to be considered to ascertained which it is.

The above poster is also correct that the entitlement to your same job only applies if you return within the first 26 weeks.

But it ISNT the same job. That’s the whole point. So the 26 week point doesn’t apply here. What applies is the enhanced maternity protection OP is entitled to over and above the other employee.

Please re read my post where I specifically
said “if both roles are made redundant…”

And OP herself says it’s an alternative role - not that they’re removing one employee from a pool of two.

Didimum · 31/05/2024 18:15

MinervaMcGonagallsCat · 31/05/2024 18:01

@Didimum

I completely disagree with you but we won't solve this here.

I recommend that OP contacts ACAS on how to approach this situation.

I do see what you are saying with these two roles turned into one. Is it genuinely two roles made into one role, or is it a brand new role? That matters and the responsibilities and conditions have to be considered to ascertained which it is.

The above poster is also correct that the entitlement to your same job only applies if you return within the first 26 weeks.

MinervaMcGonagallsCat · 31/05/2024 18:01

@Didimum

I completely disagree with you but we won't solve this here.

I recommend that OP contacts ACAS on how to approach this situation.

lanthanum · 31/05/2024 17:59

If you have been on maternity leave for more than six months, you are not automatically entitled to return to the exact same job, just one which is similar - same (or better) pay and conditions. So the company does not have to declare redundancy or give you priority, if they are offering you an equivalent post. The main question here is whether the new post is really equivalent, if it involves managing fewer people, and you will no longer be on the senior leadership team.

Talk to your union, if you have one, or the other organisations mentioned. Maybe you can negotiate a way to make the new post more equivalent - perhaps developing some new policy or strategy, and remaining on the senior team. If you are able to tell them that otherwise your union think you would have a case, then that may encourage them to think again.

Alternatively, take the view that a slightly more relaxed post while your children are young might be no bad thing, and look for a move internally or externally in due course.

Didimum · 31/05/2024 17:53

MrsPinkCock · 31/05/2024 17:44

I don’t think anyone is disputing the fact that they’re entitled to restructure and make redundancies.

The point is that OP is entitled to be automatically offered an objectively suitable vacancy, without a competitive interview or job matching process.

So if they’re making both roles redundant and creating one role instead at the same level, she’s likely to be entitled to the job before anyone else.

Edited

No, the automatic role offering is only applicable IF she is made redundant. She does not have to apply or be in competition for the alternative role in the event of redundancy, but she does have to apply for her current role if they are making two roles into one, which they are.

LewishamMumNow · 31/05/2024 17:52

VestPantsandSocks · 31/05/2024 16:05

You need to speak to Acas and 'Pregnant then Screwed' for advice.

This.
Plus, there's a special employment law thread somewhere on Mumsnet OP.
Also, are you in a TU? If so, contact them asap. And check if you have legal insurance too - it's often an add on people don't know they have to house, car insurance, etc.