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To pick hair off my clothes on public transport

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Sundaycoffee · 30/05/2024 16:14

I was sat on the train today and absent-mindedly picked a loose hair off my trousers and dropped it on the floor.
The woman on the aisle seat opposite me said vedy loudly "excuse me do you mind not dropping your hair all over the train carriage?"
It's not like I was sitting there brushing my hair over everyone. Surely if you're travelling on public transport you occasionally accept that you might have to be in the vicinity of a strand of hair off someone??
Or am I being totally disgusting and unreasonable?

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Julimia · 10/06/2024 15:47

Is this really a genuine post? Oh my word! Sitting by the way not sat.

Tardidegraded · 04/06/2024 08:35

I have a thing about hair. It really, really freaks me out especially when it's not attached to somebody's body. I find it as disgusting as other people might find spiders. I'd not have been happy thinking about a loose strand of hair on the floor or the seat. And yes, I know, you csnt avoid them and it really used to cause me problems though I'm grtting better with it. People brushing their hair in front of me freaks me out unless it's family.

Having said that if I'd had found a hair on my trousers I'd have dusted it off as well though if there was a bin I'd have binned it. It might not have been your hair even. So I can understand she found it off putting but I don't think she should have told you off.

Swiftsmith · 04/06/2024 08:25

The people saying that it’s “disgusting” and they would feel physically sick must have issues. I imagine they never go to the hairdresser, think of the hairs they’d see there! 🤷🏻‍♀️😱

It is completely reasonable to pick a hair off your clothes in public. Honestly. How some people make it through the day I don’t know.

Mummyof2Girls2023 · 04/06/2024 07:45

LlynTegid · 03/06/2024 10:18

It may have been an over the top response, but you could have acknowledged it and apologised.

There is much worse behaviour on public transport and indeed that and smelly people are one of the reasons why it is difficult to increase usage, though that is no defence.

No. Don't reaffirm poor behaviour.

Mummyof2Girls2023 · 04/06/2024 07:43

OldieWoldie · 03/06/2024 10:14

I'd be physically sick over you if you did that near me. Totally disgusting 🤢

From somebody picking a single hair off their clothes that might not even have been theirs?? This is really over the top.

SpunkyMintZebra · 03/06/2024 17:37

Wow I currently have postpartum hair loss so shedding like a Labrador, my hair would be all over the train! You can’t stop hair falling out, picking it off you or just falling naturally on to the train. I also pick hairs off me on trains it’s just a natural reflux lol She’s ridiculous

Greywhippet · 03/06/2024 16:34

I’ve been told off about this! It would bother me far more to see a hair stuck to someone than to see someone drop a hair to the floor!

ShinyPebble32 · 03/06/2024 16:23

As someone with a massive, massive phobia of other people’s stray hairs - i think she was wildly overreacting.

Unless you dropped it so close it went onto her shoe or or blew onto her clothes or something, in that case she would have every right to go mental at you 🤢

Schoolchoicesucks · 03/06/2024 14:58

CherubEarrings · 03/06/2024 13:49

Sorry I think it is disgusting to do that on public transport.

To remove 1 single hair? How strange. If the hair had just fallen directly from OP's head to the floor would that also have been disgusting? Is it the fact that it had a little stay on their clothes first that makes it so? Or that she touched it with her fingers? If she had picked it off her clothes and put it in a Tesco Bag for Life (or scalp scabs apparently) would that have been grim or better? Should she have left it on her clothes all day or could she remove it in the privacy of, say, a toilet cubicle and put it in a bin there?

TheRomanticOutlaw · 03/06/2024 14:09

YANBU. She was weird.

GOTBrienne · 03/06/2024 14:01

And if you moved a certain way it might fall onto the floor itself anyway. brushing your hair would be disgusting but personally I have a lot of hair and it falls all over the place, not much you can do about that.

oakleaffy · 03/06/2024 13:51

qpid5tunt · 31/05/2024 17:54

As long as they weren't pubes I don't see the problem🤭

🤢PUBIC TRANSPORT

CherubEarrings · 03/06/2024 13:49

Sorry I think it is disgusting to do that on public transport.

BobbyBiscuits · 03/06/2024 13:48

How odd that they were observing you that closely, it was one hair!?
If you were brushing and styling the hair and shedding all over the place then it's a big no.
But if it was a crumb or a piece of lint, would they have moaned about that as well?
It's not like a train carriage is expected to be as sanitary as a flipping operating theatre!

MarriedMama23 · 03/06/2024 13:45

Bonjovispjs · 03/06/2024 13:44

She's lucky that's all you were doing. I see people (usually men) pick their nose and eat it regularly on the tube. Even seen some people eat their ear wax, seriously what is wrong with people? 🤮

I was at a theme park at the weekend and witnessed a young lad in the queue knuckle deep in his nostril, struck gold, then ate it.

StrongasSixpence · 03/06/2024 13:45

OldieWoldie · 03/06/2024 10:14

I'd be physically sick over you if you did that near me. Totally disgusting 🤢

Bonkers. Do you go outside much?

Bonjovispjs · 03/06/2024 13:44

She's lucky that's all you were doing. I see people (usually men) pick their nose and eat it regularly on the tube. Even seen some people eat their ear wax, seriously what is wrong with people? 🤮

RubySloth · 03/06/2024 13:24

OldieWoldie · 03/06/2024 10:14

I'd be physically sick over you if you did that near me. Totally disgusting 🤢

Do you just walk about hairy?
My cat leaves hair on my clothes and I can brush them off with a roller and low and behold I'm sat there and I see a hair ... its seriously not the end of the road to pick it off... what is the answer? Eat it? Leave it? Put in my pocket for later, for the bloody thing to reappear on my jacket. 😂

LaCouleurDeMonCiel · 03/06/2024 11:25

Of cours NBU, some people are crazy. I bet she wouldn’t have said anything if you were a muscular guy.

Idontjetwashthefucker · 03/06/2024 10:22

OldieWoldie · 03/06/2024 10:14

I'd be physically sick over you if you did that near me. Totally disgusting 🤢

You'd be sick if someone removed a hair from their clothing? Really?

LlynTegid · 03/06/2024 10:18

It may have been an over the top response, but you could have acknowledged it and apologised.

There is much worse behaviour on public transport and indeed that and smelly people are one of the reasons why it is difficult to increase usage, though that is no defence.

OldieWoldie · 03/06/2024 10:14

I'd be physically sick over you if you did that near me. Totally disgusting 🤢

Cavend · 02/06/2024 23:19

A hair is nothing, this passenger was OTT.
I was reading the TripAdvisor reviews for a local pub the other day, and someone had quoted "Do not visit this pub, my foot stuck to the floor due to the beer and urine on the floor". Nice.

TimetoPour · 02/06/2024 21:20

Wow. I would be inclined to say, "would you mind keeping your nose out of other people's business?" Who says it was your your hair and not someone elses! Cheeky fucking nosey parker

Imisssleep2 · 02/06/2024 21:14

She should be more concerned about what other parts of humans or human fluids are on the train, think a hair is the least of her worries if she knew what was really on train floors. She was being over the top, don't worry yourself over it

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