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20 year old daughter having to spend night at JFK airport.

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DaughterStranded · 27/05/2024 21:43

Not an AIBU, but posting for traffic as really worried.
20 year old DD has arrived at JFK airport to find connecting flight to South Carolina cancelled due to signalling issues. The next connecting flight will go 7am tomorrow morning. There are no earlier flights to any nearby airports available.
DD has decided to spend the night at JFK airport. I am worried she will fall asleep and get robbed of her phone/money. Anyone else had this situation to deal with? Any advice or tips anyone?

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ShrubRose · 28/05/2024 00:38

AliceOlive · 28/05/2024 00:07

Omg the TWA airport hotel looks amazing!

Mom has a friend that was a TWA stewardess in the 60s, based out of JFK. I’ll have to find out if she ever got to stay in the hotel.

https://www.twahotel.com/

The TWA Airport Hotel is actually the old terminal. So your mum's friend would have flown out of this terminal, which opened in 1962.

It closed in 2001 when TWA folded. Since it was on the National Register of Historic Places (because it was designed by Eero Saarinen) they couldn't tear it down. In 2019 they re-purposed it as a hotel.

Ozanj · 28/05/2024 00:36

Jfk is safe.

Ohnobackagain · 28/05/2024 00:29

@DaughterStranded US airlines are, I think, obliged to compensate a bit like ours depending on cause so there could be some funds due for that perhaps. Although not if outside airline’s control. May be worth checking.

saltinesandcoffeecups · 28/05/2024 00:09

DaughterStranded · 27/05/2024 23:53

Thanks a million all. I have booked her a room at the TWA airport hotel which is in the airport. She took a lift within the airport to it. Apparently there aren't any sleeping pods anymore.
It was very expensive but I am hopeful our travel insurance might cover it.

Glad that recommendation helped. You’ll have to report back on how it was. My ‘stranded at JFK’ story ended with a crazed taxi ride to LaGuardia and an unexpected night in Boston. I’d love to have a back up in the future 😀

Barleysugar86 · 28/05/2024 00:09

She'll be much happier with a room. But I wouldn't worry if she had stayed. I ended up spending the night in one of the big US airports once and I came out of security as I was a smoker then and wanted to be able to pop in and out. I saw lots of people bedding down to sleep so I joined them in that seating area and hooked my bag on my arm and used it as a pillow and laid out to sleep like they did. I slept ok considering and felt very safe. It was only in the morning when the staff started clearing people out I realised the rest of the sleepers were homeless- they were fairly well kept and were absolutely no trouble (I guess they valued the safe place to rest). I've also 'lived' security side for 24 hours in a US airport on standby for a flight and felt quite safe laid out on some chairs in a quiet corner. There are always people around and cameras.

AliceOlive · 28/05/2024 00:07

Omg the TWA airport hotel looks amazing!

Mom has a friend that was a TWA stewardess in the 60s, based out of JFK. I’ll have to find out if she ever got to stay in the hotel.

https://www.twahotel.com/

TWA Hotel at JFK Airport

TWA Hotel at JFK

Book your stay at the TWA Hotel, the only on-airport hotel at New York's JFK International Airport.

https://www.twahotel.com/

AliceOlive · 28/05/2024 00:05

BruFord · 28/05/2024 00:01

@AliceOlive Bloomin’ heck, that experience beats my rumbling stomach one!

Of course, back then our parents had no idea what was happening…and mine thought it was funny when I told them. Different times. 🤣

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Fun memories!

It’s really been a huge help later when I had to travel alone for work. It’s only Europe but I’m so much more comfortable than I would be if I’d never had those problems.

BruFord · 28/05/2024 00:01

@AliceOlive Bloomin’ heck, that experience beats my rumbling stomach one!

Of course, back then our parents had no idea what was happening…and mine thought it was funny when I told them. Different times. 🤣

AliceOlive · 28/05/2024 00:01

Yay! Glad she’s sorted.

SilkFloss · 28/05/2024 00:01

Ah right, scrap all that as I can see you've got her sorted. Didn't know about the TWA hotel, unless I discounted it on expense grounds without looking at location.

SilkFloss · 27/05/2024 23:59

Not really very helpful but I did the exact same journey this time last year. Same date.
Anyway, that flight wasn't cancelled but I did have tickets coming back through JFK from somewhere else a couple of months ago with a tight connection I was worried about missing. I therefore did some research just in case the first leg was delayed. Most of the airport hotels aren't actually on site at all. You have to get the air transit train thingy and the shuttle buses to hotels run from (near) the end of the line. She could get a cab though, to avoid having to wait at the station for the shuttle bus (as they're a bit hit and miss on timings). We did that a couple of years ago.
Fortunately, I was transferred onto a direct flight back to LHR from my airport of origin so I never had to test it out.
Good luck to your dd. I have one a similar age and I would be having kittens in your shoes. It will all work out though and become a tale to tell in future.

fashionqueen0123 · 27/05/2024 23:57

If she’s airside by the plane gates she will be fine. Just uncomfy and bored. But I’d get a sleep pod or hotel if there is one connected. It’s only if you’ve gone though and got luggage etc and then yes you get all sorts wandering about. So don’t stay there.
Me and a friend once had this happen when we were 20 and they shut us out the airport and we sat/laid on a bench outside from about 11pm until it opened about 5am! Luckily it was somewhere warm!

But if she is on a connecting flight I’d tell her to go to the airline and ask what to do. They may provide her with a hotel.

ChimneyPot · 27/05/2024 23:57

Glad you got her sorted. I wouldn’t fancy a night in JFK.
The TWA hotel is a 60s airport theme hotel. If she wants to turn the problem into an opportunity they have a rooftop pool.

DaughterStranded · 27/05/2024 23:53

Thanks a million all. I have booked her a room at the TWA airport hotel which is in the airport. She took a lift within the airport to it. Apparently there aren't any sleeping pods anymore.
It was very expensive but I am hopeful our travel insurance might cover it.

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AliceOlive · 27/05/2024 23:46

I spent the night in a train station in Rome, sitting on the floor playing solitaire for hours. Felt like the whole waiting room was watching me.

I’d had the shits of my friend’s boyfriend, and decided it was time to head home so I’d be there for Christmas. My flight was leaving out of London so I was facing days of traveling alone to get there. Had to take the bus from Termini to some other Rome station. Couldn’t speak Italian and it was dark when I learned I could only get the right train from a station across town.

The train ride was a nightmare, too because some kid kept hitting on me in Italian until I lost my mind and started yelling at him in English. Punctuated every sentence with “Do you understand?!!! Why not?!!! Don’t you speak English?!!” Then I sat in between cars for the rest of that leg of the trip.

Sorry for the long story, but that trip home alone was good for me. Early 90s also.

BruFord · 27/05/2024 23:37

AliceOlive · 27/05/2024 23:30

I understand the mum worry but honestly it’s less than 10.5 hours before she’d need to be back there again.

I think a nice dinner, a good book, lots of snacks will see her through. They do have pods, too.

I fondly remember nights like this when I was younger.

Yes, @AliceOlive , I spent hours waiting in bus stations and airports back in the 1990’s- once I only had 20p left after having to change my ticket and had to sit in the bus station while a family chomped their way through a takeaway supper next to me. After that, I always made sure that I had some emergency cash, I was so hungry! No Apple Pay or Venmo back then. 🤣

AliceOlive · 27/05/2024 23:30

I understand the mum worry but honestly it’s less than 10.5 hours before she’d need to be back there again.

I think a nice dinner, a good book, lots of snacks will see her through. They do have pods, too.

I fondly remember nights like this when I was younger.

mondaytosunday · 27/05/2024 23:28

I spent the night at JFK when I missed my connecting flight. I was 20 as well. I don't think I slept though. I wasn't the only one there, but mostly it was cleaners. If there's a 24 hour cafe or shop she can go near there perhaps? There are sleep pods at T5 I believe.

Miley1967 · 27/05/2024 23:27

I did this many years ago coming home from camp America as we had run out of money and no-where to stay but the airport staff would not let us sleep, they just kept moving us on. I can't remember what we did in the end, just sat in a cafe all night I think !

AllTipAndNoIceberg · 27/05/2024 23:20

Ahh, I’d be worried just like you are OP — hope you/she can sort it soon for both your sakes. Flowers

AliceOlive · 27/05/2024 23:16

belleissmart · 27/05/2024 22:00

I really would not recommend this - I moved back from NYC a few months ago. I went to collect a friend late once from there and the place was teeming with people with visible mental illnesses. A lot of homeless people try to sleep there. Most US airports don't actually let people sleep overnight. She should get a hotel from the company if they've cancelled her flight.

She will be in the terminal though where only ticketed passengers are allowed.

I agree with paying for a pod or a club if she wants. I think she is safer in the terminal than a seedy nearby hotel!

BruFord · 27/05/2024 23:14

Glad she’s getting some accommodation, that’s the best idea.

I’m on the East Coast and we’ve had stormy weather today, my area is currently under a tornado watch!
Don’t worry, I’m not close to NYC.

But it doesn’t surprise me at all that flights are being canceled.

OutOfTheHouse · 27/05/2024 23:11

Get onto Expedia or the like and book her a hotel.

Nomorecoconutboosts · 27/05/2024 23:10

Hope she’s sorted soon so you can relax and go to bed

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