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Or is this normal for a 20 month old?!

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Curiousparentt · 27/05/2024 20:54

First time mum here so not entirely sure what is ‘normal’ at what age this age - but my 20 month old DD amazes me at what she understands. She can’t yet talk in sentences, but we’ve just had this conversation…

”Where have we been today?” “Granny’s, car, rain”
“What did Granny make you for lunch?” “Sandwich”
”What was on your sandwich?” “Chicken”
”What else did you have for lunch?” “Crispies, cucumber”
”What fruit did you have for your lunch?” “Strawberries”
”What book did Granny read to you today?” “Bear” (brown bear, brown bear)
”What else?” “Caterpillar”
”Did Granny do some stickers with you today?” “Elephant, giraffe” (an animal sticker book)
”Granny yoghurt, orange” (she fed her a yoghurt and orange)
”What else did you play at Granny’s?”
”drum”
”Did you cry when we had to leave Granny?” pretended to cry “car, sleep, shhhhh” (she slept in the car on the way home).

All of her answers were correct.

Is this normal for her age or is she ahead of where toddlers typically are on their understanding?!

OP posts:
Curiousparentt · 27/05/2024 21:00

Ahhh - sounds pretty normal then! Here I was thinking I had a baby genius on my hands!

I can’t believe how great their memory is already. I didn’t expect her to be able to recall events this clearly for ages yet.

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Marianus · 27/05/2024 21:00

Very normal. Are you worried about it?

JellyMouldJnr · 27/05/2024 20:59

It’s amazing how quickly their understanding grows at that age, isn’t it?

Babbababoon · 27/05/2024 20:59

Sounds totally normal. It’s so nice when you can have these little chats isn’t it?

WindowViper · 27/05/2024 20:59

It sounds like she’s doing fine!

At 20 months, think of her as nearly two, not a little baby. It’s amazing how fast they change!

sosolonglondon · 27/05/2024 20:58

Pretty normal I’d say

Notimeforaname · 27/05/2024 20:58

Sounds normal.

Mercedes45 · 27/05/2024 20:57

Yea, pretty average. Maybe work on forming full sentences