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The reaction to National Service on here

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MaryMaryVeryContrary · 27/05/2024 19:01

Many European countries (including Scandinavian countries) have NS. Are they ‘ridiculous’? Or are their much-coveted-by-Mumsnet-users communities better because of their sense of individual responsibility and contribution?

If 24 days (that’s how long it would be in total) of delivering prescriptions or volunteering as a hospital guide has you talking about human rights violations and Nazi Germany, then it’s very clear that you’re so pampered a bit of NS would do you good.

Everyone on here expects the world in terms of a ’village’, generous benefits, a caring society, but wants to do fuck all to contribute to it and think the notion of them having to do ANYTHING for anyone else is insane.

It’s nuts!

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Persimonne72 · 29/05/2024 11:47

wombat15 · 29/05/2024 11:22

They aren't going to learn anything by moping floors or "bringing water" in hospital. Most patients are quite capable of filling in their own forms and if they do need help it should be done by someone who is employed by the NHS and has been properly vetted etc. There is no way it would be appropriate for 18 years olds who aren't genuine volunteers to have access to confidential medical information.

wombat, but honestly, if it takes place and unfortunately Tories win we will discover more details of this plan. I think there is no reason to speculate about a service that may not even happen in such form and shape.

However, I am pretty sure that Labour will also start preparing the society to the dark times that is war with Russia. I hope they will start from building and renovating bunkers and shelters and strengthening air defence system beyond the current SABR.

bluetopazlove · 29/05/2024 11:41

wombat15 · 29/05/2024 11:22

They aren't going to learn anything by moping floors or "bringing water" in hospital. Most patients are quite capable of filling in their own forms and if they do need help it should be done by someone who is employed by the NHS and has been properly vetted etc. There is no way it would be appropriate for 18 years olds who aren't genuine volunteers to have access to confidential medical information.

I was going to ask as a permanent patient and even some who can't speak for themselves at some times . Who are they going accept permission from .Maybe at times I don't want at times to have an undertrained young person when they are short staffed looking after me . Will they bother to try seek permission or is it gonna be case a case of she can''t give her permission anyway .

ETA some spelling .

FatOaf · 29/05/2024 11:22

I think the aim of the policy is possibly to pit generations against each other.

It isn't a policy. It's a slogan. Just like the 100,000 "skilled" apprenticeships this morning: another headline with absolutely zero detail. The aim is to shut down debate on what the Conservatives have achieved/destroyed over the past 14 years and shift the conversation onto wish-lists of things that nobody has any clear proposals for but that certain sections of the electorate like to hear.

wombat15 · 29/05/2024 11:22

Persimonne72 · 29/05/2024 11:09

As I mention I do not subscribe to the idea of national service in this format. I would do it while they are at school with some theory, excercises and then volunteering. Just as I did at school.
They can learn how the work in hospitals look like, how to help carrying a patient, how to listen by completing a form with patient, by bringing water, moping the floor etc- many things as people learn as voluteering at any age. We learn anywhere we are.
I do believe that we live in times when part of the society lives in a bauble and is unprepared for what is coming.

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They aren't going to learn anything by moping floors or "bringing water" in hospital. Most patients are quite capable of filling in their own forms and if they do need help it should be done by someone who is employed by the NHS and has been properly vetted etc. There is no way it would be appropriate for 18 years olds who aren't genuine volunteers to have access to confidential medical information.

wombat15 · 29/05/2024 11:15

Persimonne72 · 29/05/2024 10:38

Here:

www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5083814-the-reaction-to-national-service-on-here?reply=135609340&utm_campaign=reply&utm_medium=share 

As for the age it is a bit later 20-21 yrs old. But they do military training with excercises not volunteering or cybercrime ans engineering. Full blast preparation for battle fields

The age isn't just a "bit later". I can't see any country that forces 18 or even 21 year olds to do national service. In all people can defer so it doesn't negatively effect their education or other responsibilities. The only reason Sunak is picking on 18 years olds is because the people effected can't vote against him. The people who think it a good idea won't have to do it.

Austria ages are 18 and 35
Switzerland 18 and 25
Norway 19 to 44
Denmark no upper age limit if physically fit
Greece 19 to 45

Persimonne72 · 29/05/2024 11:09

wombat15 · 29/05/2024 11:00

Yes, children should be taught first aid. My children were (at school) but it isn't something they would learn by volunteering in the NHS for a weekend. What do you think they would learn by volunteering at the weekend that would be useful?

As I mention I do not subscribe to the idea of national service in this format. I would do it while they are at school with some theory, excercises and then volunteering. Just as I did at school.
They can learn how the work in hospitals look like, how to help carrying a patient, how to listen by completing a form with patient, by bringing water, moping the floor etc- many things as people learn as voluteering at any age. We learn anywhere we are.
I do believe that we live in times when part of the society lives in a bauble and is unprepared for what is coming.

wombat15 · 29/05/2024 11:00

Persimonne72 · 29/05/2024 10:41

I have no doubt they would learn something useful. But as I said, I would include it as a part of school curiculum for few years starting from first aid course etc

Yes, children should be taught first aid. My children were (at school) but it isn't something they would learn by volunteering in the NHS for a weekend. What do you think they would learn by volunteering at the weekend that would be useful?

Persimonne72 · 29/05/2024 10:41

wombat15 · 29/05/2024 10:18

No, but I doubt they could do anything useful or learn anything useful. They would just be talking time away from NHS staff who are already overstretched.

I have no doubt they would learn something useful. But as I said, I would include it as a part of school curiculum for few years starting from first aid course etc

Persimonne72 · 29/05/2024 10:39

Shinyandnew1 · 29/05/2024 10:27

And how many of those countries are giving those teenagers back a free/reasonably priced higher education, functioning health service, housing and plus benefiting them from prior years of schooling in buildings that weren’t falling down!

None whole package

Persimonne72 · 29/05/2024 10:38

wombat15 · 29/05/2024 10:24

In what Europen countries does everyone do military service at the exact age of 18 with no exceptions and no deferrals?

Here:

www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5083814-the-reaction-to-national-service-on-here?reply=135609340&utm_campaign=reply&utm_medium=share 

As for the age it is a bit later 20-21 yrs old. But they do military training with excercises not volunteering or cybercrime ans engineering. Full blast preparation for battle fields

TorringtonDean · 29/05/2024 10:27

It has achieved the Tories’ aim by wasting everyone’s time discussing something that will never happen anyway.

Shinyandnew1 · 29/05/2024 10:27

wombat15 · 29/05/2024 10:24

In what Europen countries does everyone do military service at the exact age of 18 with no exceptions and no deferrals?

And how many of those countries are giving those teenagers back a free/reasonably priced higher education, functioning health service, housing and plus benefiting them from prior years of schooling in buildings that weren’t falling down!

Nellodee · 29/05/2024 10:25

Who the hell wants to give up their weekends to supervise a bunch of eighteen year olds who don’t want to be there?

wombat15 · 29/05/2024 10:24

Persimonne72 · 29/05/2024 10:20

Why are you so entitled to that you expect this one specific group to, not only “serve the wider community”, compelled by law, in a way that you don’t, but to not even allow them to do it in their time off?

The way how it works in some European countries is that it takes place gradually for everybody. National Service is military there and not just...volunteering, soft version and all generations went through it.

Some countries also have a so called reserve and they call them for excercises every few years.

In what Europen countries does everyone do military service at the exact age of 18 with no exceptions and no deferrals?

Persimonne72 · 29/05/2024 10:20

Why are you so entitled to that you expect this one specific group to, not only “serve the wider community”, compelled by law, in a way that you don’t, but to not even allow them to do it in their time off?

The way how it works in some European countries is that it takes place gradually for everybody. National Service is military there and not just...volunteering, soft version and all generations went through it.

Some countries also have a so called reserve and they call them for excercises every few years.

TorringtonDean · 29/05/2024 10:19

Persimonne72 · 29/05/2024 10:13

Are we talking about the scope of National Service drafted by Sunak or about military service for professional soldiers? I thought that we are talking about the first thing. How do you imagine losing arms and legs by... volunteering or fighting cybercrimes, or in engineering?

This is an island. Unless we are going to have airstrike from Russia you are unlikely to expect any reason to be harmed by a military activities. And if that will be the case, we all will be equally in dangwr

And we are over 70 years from the times when an average man could land in battle in Normandy. Technology is far more advanced

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Soldiers are targets for terrorism. Lee Rigby ring a bell? If people sign up for the Army, and I’m very grateful they do, then they know the risks. But I’m not happy about 18-year-olds being jollied along into it.

wombat15 · 29/05/2024 10:18

Persimonne72 · 29/05/2024 10:04

I bet that nothing that would deprive them of arms and legs.

No, but I doubt they could do anything useful or learn anything useful. They would just be talking time away from NHS staff who are already overstretched.

Zwicky · 29/05/2024 10:14

Who says people would need to give up all those things?

Rishi said, when he said it would be one weekend a month. They aren’t Schrödinger's cat. They can’t be at their paid work and also in a different place working for free. Their employer can’t have them in shift doing the job they’ve employed them to do and the government have them litter picking 10 miles away at the same time.

Do you really think that is what happens in places where there is NS? Because it's not. Many of those things would continue much as they are.

No, because other NS schemes aren’t organised in the ridiculous way that this is proposed. They have a flexibility with age (x amount of time between the ages of y and z) rather than it has to be the second you start full time work or higher education in a different city, or in the middle of your FE course, and aren’t in pathetic little drips with 3 week gaps that don’t allow you to embrace it, learn from it, and develop actual competence and usefulness and actually make a contribution. They actually pay participants rather than expecting them to live on fresh air while they do it. They don’t just expect you get on with your life while chucking barriers at you at monthly intervals. I doubt they limit the volunteering to weekends either, eliminating huge swathes of the public sector and any evening activity and giving maximum interference with the jobs typically done by 18yos (and the hobbies of the especially entitled people) and making it an absolute administrative ballache for the public sector organisations having to place 700000 people into 4 sessions.

It's also temporary, and the reason it's usually proposed for younger people is because it dovetails in well to the end of their education years and can provide a good start into the adult working world

Being temporary doesn’t negate how disruptive it is. A year is a long time to have your income hobbled and to put off working life, travelling, university etc. It dovetails into nothing. Education and work may dovetail but this doesn’t. It blocks flexibility with paid employment, travel, existing volunteering on weekends, moving between towns, it makes a group of people just starting out in work spectacularly unattractive to employers. It will not teach a single skill that couldn’t have been learned in the previous 13 years of education and it will not “give anything back” - 25 days dragged over 12 months does not train people to do anything. Dovetailing would be something like the military training - robust, residential , paid, skilled, with a proper curriculum and consistency in supervision and could be treated like a y14 - but that’s limited and would fuck up anyone doing an actual y14 unless the FE funding model changed from 16-19 to 16-21. and it’s also complete nonsense that these military people are getting trained in 12 months for intelligence roles so I don’t think they should be pretending it is. It’s also a right kick in the face for regular recruits who will have to sign up for 4 years and not get a sniff of beginning to train for a cyber security until they have spent 18 months crawling through ditches and getting a bollocking that the mud has jammed their rifle AND they will have to do a degree.

Your whole post, that it's crazy that anyone should expect to give up anything like even a weekend hobby, for a short time, to serve the wider community, reeks of entitlement
My actual whole post was mostly about paid employment but, no. YOU are entitled that you think your plans for another adults weekend are better than the ones they have made for themselves. It shouldn’t matter what the plans are but you are self righteousness demanding that they give up:
Hobbies (why the actual fuck shouldn’t 18 yo be allowed weekend hobbies? Why? A 17yo can and a 19yo so why not at 18? Why is it ok at 8 and 12 and 33 and 68 but not at 18?)
Sports (It shouldn’t matter if it’s Emma Raducanu, or someone who is always last. If that’s when that completion or match or class or training session is, why should people miss it? How entitled are you, demanding people let their team down, don’t go to training, don’t turn up on the start line.)
Paid work (in the real world people need this money to live on. They are not being “entitled” to need to earn money. In the real world interviewers score on flexibility - needing every 4th weekend off will down score you so you are less likely to get a job at all. )
Volunteering (they need to give up the volunteering they do to do different volunteering - they are being “entitled” to want to spend their time volunteering and must stop)
Studying - lots of 18yos continue in education. It’s not being “entitled” to want to do this.
Relaxing - summon a policeman - an adult is having a rest after working a 7 day stretch in a prison/mine/psych ward/kitchen/care home. - you do know most of these “entitled” people work full time, don’t you? With the exception of students who often only work weekends and now won’t be able to.

Why are you so entitled to that you expect this one specific group to, not only “serve the wider community”, compelled by law, in a way that you don’t, but to not even allow them to do it in their time off? They HAVE to do it when they should be at work or when they have other plans? Why? It’s spectacularly arse about face. The entitlement that you can’t even allow people to continue serving the wider community in the volunteering they already do, or indeed the paid work that contributes to society, but leave that and have to do different volunteering reeks so much it’s starting to smell like spite.

Persimonne72 · 29/05/2024 10:13

TorringtonDean · 29/05/2024 10:09

Oh yes, it’s just so inconceivable to you that soldiers end up with amputations. It’s happened very recently to British soldiers so it’s not so inconceivable. Do you have no idea about that. They say these youngsters won’t be on active service but then a week ago they hadn’t even come up with this idea!

Are we talking about the scope of National Service drafted by Sunak or about military service for professional soldiers? I thought that we are talking about the first thing. How do you imagine losing arms and legs by... volunteering or fighting cybercrimes, or in engineering?

This is an island. Unless we are going to have airstrike from Russia you are unlikely to expect any reason to be harmed by a military activities. And if that will be the case, we all will be equally in dangwr

And we are over 70 years from the times when an average man could land in battle in Normandy. Technology is far more advanced

Persimonne72 · 29/05/2024 10:10

Alexandra2001 · 29/05/2024 07:28

I read it.

No exceptions, even if on a gap year..... wtaf?

Student nurses/ot's/paramedics expected to do this, even though they all do v long & unpaid placements.

So 18yo goes to charity X for a weekend, comes back again in a months time, has now forgotten pretty much everything they were told a month ago.....
Do the Police/Fire Service really have the time to muck about with 18yo's 2 days out of 30?

On military, cyber security? Engineering? it takes years to learn about these things, they are degree level (and beyond) subjects.

If we have a section of our youth who would benefit from this type of scheme, why not just focus on them, rather than lumping them all together?

Sunak said that our kids are all a bunch of bored, would be criminals.... looking for trouble.

You are commenting the whole idea as if I was supporting it. I am merely making a remark that it is not a military in a sense of crawling in mud in helmet with rifle in hand under the spikey wire on a simulation of the battle field. And THIS is a military service definition. And this is what are young people in countries with military service are doing

Even the 30k will support engineering and cyber security and not be involved in any serious physical training.

TorringtonDean · 29/05/2024 10:09

Oh yes, it’s just so inconceivable to you that soldiers end up with amputations. It’s happened very recently to British soldiers so it’s not so inconceivable. Do you have no idea about that. They say these youngsters won’t be on active service but then a week ago they hadn’t even come up with this idea!

Persimonne72 · 29/05/2024 10:04

wombat15 · 29/05/2024 00:01

What exactly would they do as volunteers for the NHS?

I bet that nothing that would deprive them of arms and legs.

HebburnPokemon · 29/05/2024 09:09

How is this policy not AGEIST??

NasiDagang · 29/05/2024 09:03

cannonballz · 27/05/2024 21:49

the op has not given any answer to how much time they spend volunteering themselves, so I think it safe to assume thats a big fat zero then....

I don't think OP volunteers or contributes to the local community at all but expects other people to do it. Pot calling the Kettle black comes to mind.

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