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The reaction to National Service on here

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MaryMaryVeryContrary · 27/05/2024 19:01

Many European countries (including Scandinavian countries) have NS. Are they ‘ridiculous’? Or are their much-coveted-by-Mumsnet-users communities better because of their sense of individual responsibility and contribution?

If 24 days (that’s how long it would be in total) of delivering prescriptions or volunteering as a hospital guide has you talking about human rights violations and Nazi Germany, then it’s very clear that you’re so pampered a bit of NS would do you good.

Everyone on here expects the world in terms of a ’village’, generous benefits, a caring society, but wants to do fuck all to contribute to it and think the notion of them having to do ANYTHING for anyone else is insane.

It’s nuts!

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Reugny · 27/05/2024 19:31

Topofthemountain · 27/05/2024 19:28

I was discussing this earlier with the family. My sister is a secondary/ A-level teacher, her reaction when talking about this was to laugh and say that she has kids they can't even get into lessons, how on earth would they manage to get them doing this, and more importantly who?

Someone else said that they had listen to a phone-in and one caller was a chap in a care home who objected strongly to teenagers coming in to play chess with him.

DBS, supervision etc. The objections are at a ill thought out election sound bite.

There are schemes in different areas but normally aimed at university aged young adults and upwards for younger adults to befriend older people.

user1471453601 · 27/05/2024 19:30

On the issue of delivering prescriptions, in particular.

which groups do you think need these deliveries? And what do you think they have in common? And how many of those prescriptions carry drugs with a street value?

I'd say that those who need this service are vulnerable in some way. So having someone carrying drugs to your door without the equivalent of a check on their criminal record is a criminal offence waiting to happen, as is leaving an unchecked teenager in charge of drugs that may have a street value.

Imnot, by any means, demonizing all teenagers. I don't think the vast majority of them would do anything harmful. But there are reasons why people who work with potentially vulnerable people, are checked.

And to volunteer is an act of personal intention, not an act mandated by government. It's the very fact that the act of helping is completely voluntarily that gives it it's meaning.

Cameron tried something similar, it crashed and burned very quickly.

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 27/05/2024 19:30

ChaiLatteForTwo · 27/05/2024 19:26

In the politest way possible they already do some sort of service to the public, albeit not national service and some people don't like their views but they take on a lot of responsibility and criticism to try to serve the greater good. I do find a lot of the time when people complain that politicians get it wrong they don't really know how and wouldn't know how to fix it themselves. Ultimately also these people have their own lives and families and will always be entrenched in their own views, but it doesn't mean they aren't attempting to serve the public or contribute well to society.

I do sort of agree. There’s always so much anger and outrage on here about what people feel they should be getting and literally no talk of how they can give back to make the society they want to live in.

There are loads of benefits that could come from National Service. A good handful of the volunteers will probably be offered jobs as a result, or have something to add to their CV, or make new friends, or simply have a taster of ‘work’ (so many grow up in households where nobody works). Maybe they’ll discover a talent they didn’t know they had, or just enjoy doing something different.

But no, it’s just toys out of the pram and ‘why should I! Now give me more X/Y/Z’

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Hugosmaid · 27/05/2024 19:30

I think it’s a fantastic idea.

JenniferBooth · 27/05/2024 19:29

MrTiddlesTheCat · 27/05/2024 19:29

They're planning on enforcing it by fining parents for the actions of their adult offspring.

And yet Child Benefit stops at 18

BlackbeardsToast · 27/05/2024 19:29

If it is so good for society and for the people being made to do it, then we should ALL be made to do it. No reason why those turning 18 should be targetted, if it's such a marvellous idea.

Unless of course, it's because they are easy targets and it's nothing at all to do with how 'great' it would be for the country to have an 18 year old spend 25 days making coffee for a cyber analyst and leave with just the barest of skills - because there is bugger all you can really teach someone in that subject who has limited access and only spends 1 weekend a month for a year watching you.

Or how great it would be for the NHS which is stretched beyond function now have to take on thousands of work experience candidates.

Or how useful the suggestion is that if anyone doesn't do this they can never have a public service job in the future - because we have so many people wanting to be teachers it's good to have a way to cut down the candidates.

The military don't want them (Minister of Defence: "it could damage morale, recruitment and retention”).

I actually think back to uni when I was studying about 35 hours a week and working 25 hours a week to help fund it. 60 hours a week of work. Nice to think I would also have to find another day on top of that for unpaid work. Now if they want to do it like other countries and it's part of an 'deal' in which degrees are paid for by the State, that's a whole different matter. But they don't. They want to cancel their failed 'levelling up' scheme to pay for it and have the kids do the actual work. CFs.

No deferments (so no to sharing it one year at a time with another parent of your child), no exemptions for full time work or study...
https://archive.ph/Ol5D6

But my biggest problem with it is that this government cannot organise anything without buggering it up and syphoning off money for their mates. This will just be another way to do that.

MrTiddlesTheCat · 27/05/2024 19:29

They're planning on enforcing it by fining parents for the actions of their adult offspring.

Marjoriefrobisher · 27/05/2024 19:28

ChaiLatteForTwo · 27/05/2024 19:26

In the politest way possible they already do some sort of service to the public, albeit not national service and some people don't like their views but they take on a lot of responsibility and criticism to try to serve the greater good. I do find a lot of the time when people complain that politicians get it wrong they don't really know how and wouldn't know how to fix it themselves. Ultimately also these people have their own lives and families and will always be entrenched in their own views, but it doesn't mean they aren't attempting to serve the public or contribute well to society.

This is true. Sunak could be making much more money in the private sector and wouldn’t have to tolerate all the brickbats.

Reugny · 27/05/2024 19:28

Kentuckycriedfrickin · 27/05/2024 19:21

How many weekends a month do you give up?

I've done volunteering that is a regular weekly commitment to some that is ad-hoc.

I would never ask anyone who is involved in hobbies with regular commitments to volunteer regularly on a weekly/bi-weekly or monthly basis but I would encourage them to do something voluntary for that hobby.

So some of the people I've done sport with in the past have been marshals at sporting events as we don't have the time to do something regularly, there as others are now coaches with regular commitments.

Topofthemountain · 27/05/2024 19:28

I was discussing this earlier with the family. My sister is a secondary/ A-level teacher, her reaction when talking about this was to laugh and say that she has kids they can't even get into lessons, how on earth would they manage to get them doing this, and more importantly who?

Someone else said that they had listen to a phone-in and one caller was a chap in a care home who objected strongly to teenagers coming in to play chess with him.

DBS, supervision etc. The objections are at a ill thought out election sound bite.

ChaiLatteForTwo · 27/05/2024 19:27

whiteboardking · 27/05/2024 19:26

Problem is that a huge % of 18 year olds already work at weekends. By all means make DofE etc more accessible but forcing people to volunteer would only work if a broader time to do it eg 16-21.
Not sure how on Earth they'd administer it & supervise all these kids...

This is the sad thing, the kids who want to make something of themselves will do it and the ones who already are spoilt and have parents who let them get out of this sort of thing will just find excuses not to do it. I hope if its enforced RS sticks to his sick note culture views and its not easy to just not involve oneself.

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 27/05/2024 19:27

shearwater2 · 27/05/2024 19:23

Why should they give up something they enjoy even for one weekend a month?

I'd tell you who need to do community service. Privileged fuckwits in politics who have no clue about people's lives.

Why should anyone do anything?

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ChaiLatteForTwo · 27/05/2024 19:26

shearwater2 · 27/05/2024 19:23

Why should they give up something they enjoy even for one weekend a month?

I'd tell you who need to do community service. Privileged fuckwits in politics who have no clue about people's lives.

In the politest way possible they already do some sort of service to the public, albeit not national service and some people don't like their views but they take on a lot of responsibility and criticism to try to serve the greater good. I do find a lot of the time when people complain that politicians get it wrong they don't really know how and wouldn't know how to fix it themselves. Ultimately also these people have their own lives and families and will always be entrenched in their own views, but it doesn't mean they aren't attempting to serve the public or contribute well to society.

BoomBoomPop · 27/05/2024 19:26

Hedgeoffressian · 27/05/2024 19:07

It’s because it’s a proposal from the Tories. Had it been Labour they would all be saying what a great idea it is 🙄

This is stupid.

whiteboardking · 27/05/2024 19:26

Problem is that a huge % of 18 year olds already work at weekends. By all means make DofE etc more accessible but forcing people to volunteer would only work if a broader time to do it eg 16-21.
Not sure how on Earth they'd administer it & supervise all these kids...

ChaiLatteForTwo · 27/05/2024 19:24

Zanatdy · 27/05/2024 19:18

Sorry I meant to say the idea isn’t ridiculous. I totally agree with everything you said. People want that village without putting in any effort. There’s very few people who volunteer, people who donate blood etc, they just expect things to be there for them but never do anything to change society. Drives me potty

Agree with this too! It's like emergency services, they etc constant criticism from people who would never do their jobs and don't know how it works. I see the NS idea as a way of getting young people to subscribe to a civilised society and something to be proud of. The UK is fast becoming a joke of a nation, I love a lot of what Rishi Sunak proposes tbh.

shearwater2 · 27/05/2024 19:23

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 27/05/2024 19:05

She would do the hobby 3 weekends out of 4 🤷🏼‍♀️

Why should they give up something they enjoy even for one weekend a month?

I'd tell you who need to do community service. Privileged fuckwits in politics who have no clue about people's lives.

SonicTheHodgeheg · 27/05/2024 19:23

He should have called it something else because it conjures up images of war and army training rather than the voluntary work side.

It is a silly idea as many 18 year olds are in minimum wage jobs in sectors like hospitality and retail so work weekends already. Others will be doing healthcare courses that involve placements at anti-social times and this policy ignores the fa t that many 18 year olds are giving back to the community already.

Kentuckycriedfrickin · 27/05/2024 19:21

LumiB · 27/05/2024 19:19

Wow give up one weekend a mo th not thatbmuch of an ask but funny how people are getting so outraged ...must be this selfishness.tou speak of OP.

How many weekends a month do you give up?

ChaiLatteForTwo · 27/05/2024 19:21

I agree so so so much it would do so many so much good. People in general these days are very self centred.

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 27/05/2024 19:21

Marjoriefrobisher · 27/05/2024 19:18

I don’t think it is a great idea currently; although with proper thought and development there might be something there. It’s more that the reaction to it is interesting and shows how much we’ve changed as a society since NS was last introduced (by a Labour PM).

I think it’s just individualism in general. Everyone is so used to being a victim and ‘validated’ now. It’s really sad

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Reugny · 27/05/2024 19:20

Betterifido · 27/05/2024 19:16

Whether military service is for the greater good is a whole other debate thread! Or whatever ‘volunteering’ the Tories would get them doing 🤷‍♀️

All political parties rely on volunteers at every election to leaflet people.

Some people like my DP, who is not a member of a political party, will leaflet just to ensure political parties that would target specific people with discriminatory practices don't elected.

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 27/05/2024 19:20

Zanatdy · 27/05/2024 19:18

Sorry I meant to say the idea isn’t ridiculous. I totally agree with everything you said. People want that village without putting in any effort. There’s very few people who volunteer, people who donate blood etc, they just expect things to be there for them but never do anything to change society. Drives me potty

Agree. There’s also a massive problem with nihilism in teens. How many threads do we see about worried parents saying their 19 year old is lying in bed gaming all day and simply threatens to kill themselves if asked to do anything? They bang on about a sense of purpose, how it’s good to have obligations and to feel you’re making a contribution. But they don’t actually want them to do it.

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LumiB · 27/05/2024 19:19

Wow give up one weekend a mo th not thatbmuch of an ask but funny how people are getting so outraged ...must be this selfishness.tou speak of OP.

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