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The reaction to National Service on here

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MaryMaryVeryContrary · 27/05/2024 19:01

Many European countries (including Scandinavian countries) have NS. Are they ‘ridiculous’? Or are their much-coveted-by-Mumsnet-users communities better because of their sense of individual responsibility and contribution?

If 24 days (that’s how long it would be in total) of delivering prescriptions or volunteering as a hospital guide has you talking about human rights violations and Nazi Germany, then it’s very clear that you’re so pampered a bit of NS would do you good.

Everyone on here expects the world in terms of a ’village’, generous benefits, a caring society, but wants to do fuck all to contribute to it and think the notion of them having to do ANYTHING for anyone else is insane.

It’s nuts!

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MrsBook · 27/05/2024 20:18

It's a stupid policy that has clearly not been thought through and doesn't have much rationale behind it.

And it is a serious thing to make a law forcing citizens into either military service or prescribed volunteering. That is an infringement of people's freedoms. I would have to hear a very strong argument for its necessity.

None of that means i don't care about or contribute to my community or country.

Pollipops1 · 27/05/2024 20:18

Why are people comparing to other Euro countries, they are much more supportive & invested in the younger generations.. The UK isn’t and many people think the youths need to be taught a lesson for whatever reason.

MrsBungle · 27/05/2024 20:18

My dd is 14 and has already been volunteering weekly for over a year. She also plays sport Saturday and Sunday and has a job. At 18 I’ll be wanting her to concentrate on her exams and uni. Why only 18 year olds? All the people for it on here can do it.

Chickenuggetsticks · 27/05/2024 20:17

LuxembourgBrit · 27/05/2024 20:13

and I'm sure many would happily send young people into burning buildings (and quite a lot worse if conscripted into the armed forces if a war breaks out - sending them to kill people and have their legs and arms blown off)

My comparison to Luxembourg is that young people are taught how to use extinguishers and put out minor fires. They have a great time. Not go into burning buildings and drag out dead people… Please stop catastrophising it’s really unhealthy.

Also they won’t get elected.

See perfectly sensible stuff.

Chickenuggetsticks · 27/05/2024 20:16

Also the thing with the fire department, wouldn’t it be great if our population had a more generalised idea of what to do in disaster situations. Like flooding or if someone is trapped under rubble etc.

I don’t get it, week after week high rate tax payers are slated for being selfish because they complain they don’t have any spare money left. People tell them to stop whinging and get on with it. Mention able bodied teenagers volunteering for a few weeks and people are horrified.

Either you live in a society where people have an attitude that we should all contribute, whether thats through money or time etc or you think only some people should contribute but not you or yours. It’s not about the government it’s about what kind of society you want to live in.

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 27/05/2024 20:16

shearwater2 · 27/05/2024 20:07

Who knows? They want to send refugees on a plan to Rwanda. They give ferry contracts to companies with no ferries. I don't trust the Tories to get the slightest thing correct, and I'm sure many would happily send young people into burning buildings (and quite a lot worse if conscripted into the armed forces if a war breaks out - sending them to kill people and have their legs and arms blown off) if they and their mates could make money out of it.

Just mad!

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LuxembourgBrit · 27/05/2024 20:13

and I'm sure many would happily send young people into burning buildings (and quite a lot worse if conscripted into the armed forces if a war breaks out - sending them to kill people and have their legs and arms blown off)

My comparison to Luxembourg is that young people are taught how to use extinguishers and put out minor fires. They have a great time. Not go into burning buildings and drag out dead people… Please stop catastrophising it’s really unhealthy.

Also they won’t get elected.

OhHelloMiss · 27/05/2024 20:13

National service does not have to mean 'going in the army'!

DramaLlamaBangBang · 27/05/2024 20:11

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 27/05/2024 19:05

She would do the hobby 3 weekends out of 4 🤷🏼‍♀️

Most 18 year olds would have jobs 3 weekends out of 4, especially if they are studying. How happy are employers going to be to employ 18 year olds that they have to give a weekend off every month?

Marjoriefrobisher · 27/05/2024 20:11

Penguinmouse · 27/05/2024 20:06

Why aren’t you teaching your child those behaviours, as their parent?

Think that’s unfair. Volunteering does give kids exposure to people and situations which even the most conscientious parent can’t provide. Mine have benefitted enormously from it.

Coughsweet · 27/05/2024 20:11

LuxembourgBrit · 27/05/2024 19:57

I’m living in Luxembourg at the mo. And the younguns here volunteer to be youth fire brigade because they want to. And it’s amazing knowing that if there’s a fire in the community - a huge part of the population knows what to do! The sense of community and pride is lovely

and yet the whisperings of young adults in the UK volunteering 3 weekends out of 4 has the country “up in arms”

Madness! I volunteered while at University and it was the start of an amazing career

I’m no Tory but the reaction to this has been quite silly. Of course they wouldn’t plan to make Neurodivergent or Disabled children take part - sorry but what a silly suggestion 😂

The lack of critical thinking skills is alarming.

Did the younguns parents and grandparents do it as well in the decades before? I’m guessing yes. I’m all for it being reinstated here if everyone who missed on this great opportunity does it as well. I really should have better knowledge of what to do if there is a fire. I also got my fees paid when I did my degree in addition to a grant and didn’t have to work
while at uni unlike my DD who has worked all the way through her final year at school (plus volunteering aged 12-16) so i think I’m due to give a bit more back than she is.

Chickenuggetsticks · 27/05/2024 20:11

Penguinmouse · 27/05/2024 20:06

Why aren’t you teaching your child those behaviours, as their parent?

Ofcourse we do, the point is they have the opportunity in a way that is not guided by their parents, it’s treating them independent young people.

When I did community service we were told to go find something by our schools, which we did. We had to go out and find somewhere that wanted us to help out. I’m happy for DD to have additional opportunities to do different things and through a government programme she would be more likely to be able to access organisations who are prepared for volunteers.

Why would I have a problem with that as a parent.

shearwater2 · 27/05/2024 20:09

Penguinmouse · 27/05/2024 20:06

Why aren’t you teaching your child those behaviours, as their parent?

Oh yeah, just a minute. I'll just set up a bogus company for them to run to build up their business skills. That what a good little Tory would do, after all.

shearwater2 · 27/05/2024 20:07

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 27/05/2024 20:02

Do you honestly believe they’ll be sending 18 year olds with 2 weekends of experience into life-and-death fire situations?

Do you REALLY?

Who knows? They want to send refugees on a plan to Rwanda. They give ferry contracts to companies with no ferries. I don't trust the Tories to get the slightest thing correct, and I'm sure many would happily send young people into burning buildings (and quite a lot worse if conscripted into the armed forces if a war breaks out - sending them to kill people and have their legs and arms blown off) if they and their mates could make money out of it.

Penguinmouse · 27/05/2024 20:06

Chickenuggetsticks · 27/05/2024 19:55

I don’t see the big deal, my school did community service, just checked with Dh and his did too. There are probably a few out there who did the same as well. We both think it was fine, probably not how we would have chosen to spend our time if we had the option as kids but in the end we both thought of it as a positive experience.

I’d be all for my child doing it, especially if it was something that would help in situations like disaster relief or broke some age barriers, gave her more empathy towards small kids or the elderly. Maybe she would learn how to work as a team etc. it gives you the chance to do something new.

Regardless of the shitshow that is the tories I don’t think it’s a bad idea.

Why aren’t you teaching your child those behaviours, as their parent?

Zwicky · 27/05/2024 20:06

I don’t see the big deal, my school did community service, just checked with Dh and his did too

Thats schoolchildren, not working age adults with bills to pay, and every single person I know who volunteers does it at a time they can manage to fit around their paid work, caring responsibilities and hobbies, not at a government mandated time. They also tend to do things that they are good at and align with their interests such as national trust if interested in historic houses, football coach if good at football. They don’t just get slung at a fire station and get told to “give something back”. Nobody is against volunteering or community service per se (well some are and “compulsory volunteering” is just daft) but making people virtually unemployable in any industry that require weekend working and taking them away from community projects they already do is ridiculous. That’s before the logistical nightmare of what exactly these, largely untrained, 18yos are going to do on weekends in the NHS and police. Who is going to train them to be useful and how many weekends will it take to get them to be able to do things that are useful to the community. What is going to happen in small towns with large or multiple universities like Oxford or Bath when literally 1000s of 18yos all need a placement in September, by law?

Cantgetausername87 · 27/05/2024 20:05

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 27/05/2024 20:02

Do you honestly believe they’ll be sending 18 year olds with 2 weekends of experience into life-and-death fire situations?

Do you REALLY?

Well then .. what is the point of it? If they're not ACTUALLY going to be doing anything. Maybe the tories would be better investing in apprenticeships and education? At least then they'd be doing something?

Everydayimhuffling · 27/05/2024 20:05

It's a moronic policy, as evidenced by all the army people saying it's a terrible idea for a start. Also, lots of 18 year olds work and/or have other commitments which the Tories have already said they won't be allowed exemptions for.

The thing that really showed the stupidity for me, though was the suggestion that those who volunteer will be working with the NHS, police or fire service. What possible use do you think they will be in any of those? Sullen 18 year olds forced to be there one weekend a month with no training? They'll be a liability that takes out useful staff who have to supervise them instead of doing their jobs.

HippoStraw · 27/05/2024 20:05

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 27/05/2024 20:03

I think a lot of them do need to be forced at this point. Certainly the ones with zero plans for when they leave school.

But that’s the point! Why disrupt those who are committed already? And why are all citizens not being disrupted?

ColdToezzz · 27/05/2024 20:05

itsgettingweird · 27/05/2024 20:01

Brilliant post

“But my biggest problem with it is that this government cannot organise anything without buggering it up and syphoning off money for their mates. This will just be another way to do that.”

This! I can guarantee several Tory mates will be lined up to benefit from this. Why can’t the money go on some of the huge gaps young people are facing? Because then the money couldn’t be syphoned off.

cannonballz · 27/05/2024 20:04

@MaryMaryVeryContrary sorry if this has already been asked and answered, but can you please explain what sort of volunteering you do and how often? thank you

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 27/05/2024 20:03

HippoStraw · 27/05/2024 20:01

Making it easier for young people to do meaningful community placements would be great. Forcing people who are already committed to jobs, study, and hobbies is less great.

I think a lot of them do need to be forced at this point. Certainly the ones with zero plans for when they leave school.

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LuxembourgBrit · 27/05/2024 20:03

shearwater2 · 27/05/2024 20:01

I'd rather live in a country with a highly trained and paid fire service, thanks, than rely on inexperienced and volunteer youth to carry out probably one of the most difficult jobs in society.

😂 misses point completely but okaaaaay

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 27/05/2024 20:02

shearwater2 · 27/05/2024 20:01

I'd rather live in a country with a highly trained and paid fire service, thanks, than rely on inexperienced and volunteer youth to carry out probably one of the most difficult jobs in society.

Do you honestly believe they’ll be sending 18 year olds with 2 weekends of experience into life-and-death fire situations?

Do you REALLY?

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shearwater2 · 27/05/2024 20:01

LuxembourgBrit · 27/05/2024 19:57

I’m living in Luxembourg at the mo. And the younguns here volunteer to be youth fire brigade because they want to. And it’s amazing knowing that if there’s a fire in the community - a huge part of the population knows what to do! The sense of community and pride is lovely

and yet the whisperings of young adults in the UK volunteering 3 weekends out of 4 has the country “up in arms”

Madness! I volunteered while at University and it was the start of an amazing career

I’m no Tory but the reaction to this has been quite silly. Of course they wouldn’t plan to make Neurodivergent or Disabled children take part - sorry but what a silly suggestion 😂

The lack of critical thinking skills is alarming.

I'd rather live in a country with a highly trained and paid fire service, thanks, than rely on inexperienced and volunteer youth to carry out probably one of the most difficult jobs in society.