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The reaction to National Service on here

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MaryMaryVeryContrary · 27/05/2024 19:01

Many European countries (including Scandinavian countries) have NS. Are they ‘ridiculous’? Or are their much-coveted-by-Mumsnet-users communities better because of their sense of individual responsibility and contribution?

If 24 days (that’s how long it would be in total) of delivering prescriptions or volunteering as a hospital guide has you talking about human rights violations and Nazi Germany, then it’s very clear that you’re so pampered a bit of NS would do you good.

Everyone on here expects the world in terms of a ’village’, generous benefits, a caring society, but wants to do fuck all to contribute to it and think the notion of them having to do ANYTHING for anyone else is insane.

It’s nuts!

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Beezknees · 27/05/2024 21:52

In Scandinavia they treat their young people better.

Sorry but what is this country doing for young people? There's a housing crisis, NHS crisis, cost of living crisis. What have young people got to look forward to? Why would they be inclined to help a government and country that has fucked things up so massively for their futures?

Jijithecat · 27/05/2024 21:51

MrsApplepants · 27/05/2024 21:27

I don’t get all this talk about needing to be part of a ‘community.’ Why should we or my DD care what anyone else in the neighbourhood is doing or why is it her responsibility to help them? We’ve never asked or needed anything from anyone in our local area so we do we need to help others?
DD needs to be mobile so she can go where the opportunities are, not embedded in some fanciful ‘community’ that takes but doesn’t give her anything in return. She certainly won’t be doing NS.

Was your DD home schooled?

cannonballz · 27/05/2024 21:49

the op has not given any answer to how much time they spend volunteering themselves, so I think it safe to assume thats a big fat zero then....

wellington77 · 27/05/2024 21:46

A lot of children already do Duke of Edinburgh, which includes volunteering, so it’s basically the same, any everyone always goes on about how good that is for kids. People need to get a grip

WoshPank · 27/05/2024 21:46

ghostyslovesheets · 27/05/2024 21:42

If 24 days (that’s how long it would be in total) of delivering prescriptions or volunteering as a hospital guide

So they would need to drive? To deliver prescriptions?

You think that an 18 year old can rock up and do either job? With no training, no orientation, no CRB check, and since you would hope those things where in place - the organisation has to fund all that for a commitment of 25 days?

It totally undermines the work volunteers do, the value organisations place on them and the work involved in supporting them.

My daughters worked from 16 and have plenty of experience on their CV's, they are still working to pay for university while studying - what would they get out of 25 days showing people round a hospital?

Yes, it indicates a failure to have thought about any of the practicalities of this. Granted, OP has plenty of company here. Which in itself is an interesting indicator of how little practical experience of volunteering some of the people berating others have!

wellington77 · 27/05/2024 21:45

ghostyslovesheets · 27/05/2024 21:42

If 24 days (that’s how long it would be in total) of delivering prescriptions or volunteering as a hospital guide

So they would need to drive? To deliver prescriptions?

You think that an 18 year old can rock up and do either job? With no training, no orientation, no CRB check, and since you would hope those things where in place - the organisation has to fund all that for a commitment of 25 days?

It totally undermines the work volunteers do, the value organisations place on them and the work involved in supporting them.

My daughters worked from 16 and have plenty of experience on their CV's, they are still working to pay for university while studying - what would they get out of 25 days showing people round a hospital?

Well of course if your children can’t drive they would be given something else to do, litter picking all sorts, I don’t know. Think a bit more laterally!

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 27/05/2024 21:43

MrsApplepants · 27/05/2024 21:27

I don’t get all this talk about needing to be part of a ‘community.’ Why should we or my DD care what anyone else in the neighbourhood is doing or why is it her responsibility to help them? We’ve never asked or needed anything from anyone in our local area so we do we need to help others?
DD needs to be mobile so she can go where the opportunities are, not embedded in some fanciful ‘community’ that takes but doesn’t give her anything in return. She certainly won’t be doing NS.

Your DD could become paralysed tomorrow and then very much need a community. And she will likely be very old one day. Do you want that to happen in a society where helping people in small ways is the norm and a kindness?

You sound like Scrooge himself.

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wellington77 · 27/05/2024 21:43

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 27/05/2024 19:01

Many European countries (including Scandinavian countries) have NS. Are they ‘ridiculous’? Or are their much-coveted-by-Mumsnet-users communities better because of their sense of individual responsibility and contribution?

If 24 days (that’s how long it would be in total) of delivering prescriptions or volunteering as a hospital guide has you talking about human rights violations and Nazi Germany, then it’s very clear that you’re so pampered a bit of NS would do you good.

Everyone on here expects the world in terms of a ’village’, generous benefits, a caring society, but wants to do fuck all to contribute to it and think the notion of them having to do ANYTHING for anyone else is insane.

It’s nuts!

100% agree!

ghostyslovesheets · 27/05/2024 21:42

If 24 days (that’s how long it would be in total) of delivering prescriptions or volunteering as a hospital guide

So they would need to drive? To deliver prescriptions?

You think that an 18 year old can rock up and do either job? With no training, no orientation, no CRB check, and since you would hope those things where in place - the organisation has to fund all that for a commitment of 25 days?

It totally undermines the work volunteers do, the value organisations place on them and the work involved in supporting them.

My daughters worked from 16 and have plenty of experience on their CV's, they are still working to pay for university while studying - what would they get out of 25 days showing people round a hospital?

WoshPank · 27/05/2024 21:40

MaryMaryVeryContrary · 27/05/2024 19:01

Many European countries (including Scandinavian countries) have NS. Are they ‘ridiculous’? Or are their much-coveted-by-Mumsnet-users communities better because of their sense of individual responsibility and contribution?

If 24 days (that’s how long it would be in total) of delivering prescriptions or volunteering as a hospital guide has you talking about human rights violations and Nazi Germany, then it’s very clear that you’re so pampered a bit of NS would do you good.

Everyone on here expects the world in terms of a ’village’, generous benefits, a caring society, but wants to do fuck all to contribute to it and think the notion of them having to do ANYTHING for anyone else is insane.

It’s nuts!

This is a shit take because:

  1. The countries in Europe who have any meaningful compulsory NS also have at least one of a decent welfare state and a close proximity to a country that invades a lot. We tick neither of those boxes.
  1. Lots of us aren't naive enough to imagine this back of a fag packet shit would amount to any meaningful contribution. You thinking that is, well, nuts.
  1. You don't get a more coherent society, a village as it were, by telling people they have to do it. You need to give them something to cohere round. This is not it.
  1. If you think it'd be that wonderful, you'd agree to do it yourself. You haven't. If you think coerced labour should only be limited to adolescents, you can't think its that useful.
MrsApplepants · 27/05/2024 21:36

LumiB · 27/05/2024 21:35

Of course this is the selfish attitude that is prevalent now a days. You can't even look beyond your own self to see how society has helped your DD 🙄

How exactly?

LumiB · 27/05/2024 21:35

MrsApplepants · 27/05/2024 21:27

I don’t get all this talk about needing to be part of a ‘community.’ Why should we or my DD care what anyone else in the neighbourhood is doing or why is it her responsibility to help them? We’ve never asked or needed anything from anyone in our local area so we do we need to help others?
DD needs to be mobile so she can go where the opportunities are, not embedded in some fanciful ‘community’ that takes but doesn’t give her anything in return. She certainly won’t be doing NS.

Of course this is the selfish attitude that is prevalent now a days. You can't even look beyond your own self to see how society has helped your DD 🙄

PassingStranger · 27/05/2024 21:33

Will the Torys who suggested it be

A Trying it first
B Alowing their children to do it.

MrsApplepants · 27/05/2024 21:27

I don’t get all this talk about needing to be part of a ‘community.’ Why should we or my DD care what anyone else in the neighbourhood is doing or why is it her responsibility to help them? We’ve never asked or needed anything from anyone in our local area so we do we need to help others?
DD needs to be mobile so she can go where the opportunities are, not embedded in some fanciful ‘community’ that takes but doesn’t give her anything in return. She certainly won’t be doing NS.

Edenmum2 · 27/05/2024 21:13

'Why should anyone ‘have’ to do anything'

Wow....deep

Welshphoenix · 27/05/2024 21:07

ColdToezzz · 27/05/2024 19:47

Maybe we need a government that will think about need instead of their donors and who will actually provide some MH provision. There is none.

Well said

Littlemisscapable · 27/05/2024 21:06

Twinstudy · 27/05/2024 19:12

You're not comparing like with like. Free uni, decent public services, excellent maternity packages, decent housing etc etc. are the Tories offering that in exchange? No? Thought not.

It's like tax, I've no objection to paying tax, paying more tax, if I think it's going to be spent properly. This government just takes and gives nothing back. It needs to work both ways

100% this. Its just a dead cat this plan..

FTPM1980 · 27/05/2024 20:47

It's pointless

Most of these so called volunteer rules are currently filled. There are many older retired people happy to do them
My daughter recently did DofE and struggled to find volunteering opportunities.
But the fact is lots of 18yr olds already do community work.

24 days is not enough to get good at anything and does not compare to 12 months in the army, its a token gesture, that will make 18 Yr olds less employable and take them away from work and study.

LuxembourgBrit · 27/05/2024 20:43

cannonballz · 27/05/2024 20:39

It is quite often done in scouts and guides, etc anyway - but even so, the biggest lesson to teach about fire extinguishers is to be used to save life only - in other words, 99% of the time, just leave them and evacuate

@cannonballz yes true, but this actually reduces the amount of fires started in the first place.

Although now we’re thread derailing - but it’s always interesting to know what other cultures and countries do.

It’s difficult being a Brit abroad right now 😳

rockstarshoes · 27/05/2024 20:42

Might be subject for a different thread but I think as a Country we have lost the idea & appreciation of 'Public Service' & I blame this Govt for that!

People performing jobs in public service aren't paid well , they never were but they had good terms & conditions & a good pension - those have been eroded over the passed 14 years, particularly the 10 years of austerity!

Civil Servants are villified in the press, called lazy, the blob etc - like every profession some are, most aren't!

Theresa May in her leaving speech at the closing of Parliament talked about public service & the privilege of being an MP, but said lots of the current Govt have forgotten they are there to serve their constituents - not for themselves.

So I think that has a part in the outrage on here- I also think the press didn't report it well or people saw the headlines without reading the detail 🤷‍♀️

Pollipops1 · 27/05/2024 20:39

The most insulting part of this is that the Tories believe their core voters despise young people so much that this would secure a win.

cannonballz · 27/05/2024 20:39

parkrun500club · 27/05/2024 20:23

My comparison to Luxembourg is that young people are taught how to use extinguishers and put out minor fires

Perfectly sensible, but you don't need national service to learn useful skills. It could be done during school holidays. On a voluntary basis.

It is quite often done in scouts and guides, etc anyway - but even so, the biggest lesson to teach about fire extinguishers is to be used to save life only - in other words, 99% of the time, just leave them and evacuate

BlackbeardsToast · 27/05/2024 20:38

I just don't understand why they think THIS is worth £2.5bn a YEAR?!

Cantgetausername87 · 27/05/2024 20:38

Chickenuggetsticks · 27/05/2024 20:16

Also the thing with the fire department, wouldn’t it be great if our population had a more generalised idea of what to do in disaster situations. Like flooding or if someone is trapped under rubble etc.

I don’t get it, week after week high rate tax payers are slated for being selfish because they complain they don’t have any spare money left. People tell them to stop whinging and get on with it. Mention able bodied teenagers volunteering for a few weeks and people are horrified.

Either you live in a society where people have an attitude that we should all contribute, whether thats through money or time etc or you think only some people should contribute but not you or yours. It’s not about the government it’s about what kind of society you want to live in.

But that's with the assumption that 18 year olds don't contribute. Which is untrue and unfair.

Pollipops1 · 27/05/2024 20:37

Yes, back in the early 00s I worked Saturday & Sundays to support myself at uni & during the holidays. My loan paid for rent & nothing else, I don’t think things have got easier.

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